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The "Friend's Older Brother" Effect
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The "Friend's Older Brother" Effect

For those of you who have younger sisters, remember how your sister's friends got all giggly and shy around you? Unless you were awkward or really lacking in the looks department, these friends pretty much had crushes on you by default. You were their friend's hot older brother.

Everyone here knows why this happens. Females are naturally more attracted to a man who is mature and more experienced than them. You, as that hot older brother, represent so many things a young woman wants to experience. At the same time, however, you're still young and "hip" enough to be able to relate to each other in a natural, comfortable way.

I think this effect exists to an extent in dating as well. If you approach a girl, a lot of times the age differential, or more specifically, the experience differential can carry you a long way. In my opinion, there are certain differentials that really work for the average, low-social-value Joe. Let's call this "The Sweet Spot."

I just want to use a personal example. This past weekend I approached a girl and managed to isolate her from her crew. We sat on a couch and started talking. Things were going okay but not stellar because I was kinda trashed. Actually, I was doing a LOT of things wrong, haha. But at one point, after she mentioned her university studies, I just asked her how old she was...she said 21, and then asked me. I said 24 and that I already graduated. After this she looked down, smiled and blushed in this "Oh, wow" kind of way. I hope that makes sense. Started making out about a minute later.

In this particular example, the age AND experience differential were in my favor. Imagine life as a set of stages, or levels. For example, Level 1: Grade School; 2: High School; 3: College, etc. Within these levels are sub-levels. Something like 1a: Freshman, Sophomore; 1b: Junior, Senior; and so on. A high school freshman would probably feel more comfortable banging a high school senior than a college senior, because such a big leap would make her feel more vulnerable. Approximately, it's best to be two to four years older or one sub-level above the girl. That way, it's exciting and different enough from the dudes she usually interacts with, but not such a HUGE difference where other thoughts will distract her from the thought of your dong.

Before guys come at my dome for "advocating only dating within your age range," that's not what I'm saying. If you're game is tight then these things matter less, obviously. I'm simply talking about the "Sweet Spot" that gets girls interested SOLELY because of where you are in life and where she is.

This magic number has her on the verge of a new frontier which is incredibly exciting, but she's staying close enough to home to not be attacked by the Injuns.
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The "Friend's Older Brother" Effect

I'm 21, my sister's friends are all 15-16. I already know for certain one of them wants my nuts. Age of consent is 17 in IL.

Like watching popcorn pop, except the microwave door is locked until it's done. I'll just pick them off one by one whenever my sister pisses me off.

U​ of Roosh Class of 2420
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The "Friend's Older Brother" Effect

I'm years older than my sister, but her friends have all been fat from childhood on. Now they're over 30 and fat.

"I'd hate myself if I had that kind of attitude, if I were that weak." - Arnold
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