[OneIdea]

I married a virgin. In our second year of marriage, normal vaginal sex is still enough to keep her docile. When she gets complicated or uppity, doing her doggy style, or just rough sex where I scare her a little bit, puts her back in the right frame of mind.

Previous girlfriends who weren't virgins, esp. American girls, were a tougher nut to crack.

But when I took them anally, esp. when I framed it so that, if they didn't give me anal, I'd break up with them, they immediately became docile and submissive.

Has this been the experience of others.

[AntiTrace]

classic example of establishing dominance.

I've never been a fan of anal sex personally, the vagina feels better to me. But I fuck most of girls in the ass at least once, for no reason other to say I did it and establish dominance.

Bonus fun: anytime they say "Anti, you such a pain in the ass" or something like, I always just smirk and say "You would know"

[Yeti]

I don't know if it ever helps me establish dominance. Though I never framed it as a threat to call it off if they refuse. I'm going to try it.

Protip: drop some saliva in her hole before taking the plunge. Also rub some on your penis. Don't try to go in all the way at once, give it a bunch of mini thrusts and let her loosen up.

[puckerman]

Use some lube, guys.

Then put a plug in her ass and fuck her cunt.

[Que enspastic]

Sounds pretty needy.

If you need to control through anal sex your frame must have been pretty weak up until that point.

[TonySandos]

I also find it important to get head within the first few times of having sex and some mean anal if they act too cocky. It lets you live in a hypothetical autopilot when dealing with them for a while

[Walderschmidt]

Why anal sex in particular, as opposed to other methods like chastity belts and intermittent beatings?

Wald

[Dagnasty]

Always - but find out how to do this shit right fellas. Stretch them out slowly and use plenty of lube. You dumb-asses who ram it right in there ruin it for some of these chicks.

[TonySandos]

If she's masochistic enough, then ramming is the prescription. I've never forced it in there from the jump, but I'll pick her butthole up with my dick if she has a smart mouth

[Foolsgo1d]

(06-15-2014 03:53 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

Sounds pretty needy.

If you need to control through anal sex your frame must have been pretty weak up until that point.

Not as easy as that.


I've had a few special cases where some girls would step out of line and anything outside of physical manhandling isn't going to work. I cannot just smack a bitch for her behaviour, that leads to all sorts of trouble.

Telling a girl you're going to fuck her ass and actually doing it will create a submissive trait in her behaviour and can be used as an ace up the sleeve without resorting to instigating idle threats like "im going to tie you up".

[soup]

I think this is actually a dupe thread because we've discussed dominating with anal, and it was even written about on ROK I believe.

[vinman]

Quote:

I’m about to give you the biggest colon cleanse of your life, because yesterday’s article by Ms. Banal was a bunch of SHIT. Ass sex rules because destruction, degradation, and pain are FUN. I’m going to try to expound on that very simple and true statement in the coming paragraphs, but if there’s one thing you take away from these words that should be it. If I’ve done my job, by the time you get to the end of this article you’ll be fingering your own butthole and scheming on ways to get it filled with something fun.

THINKING WITH YOUR ANUS
Obviously anal sex is the wrong idea. That’s why it rules. For girls, anal sex just inherently means “no.” That’s like the first life lesson we’ve ever learned: “My asshole excretes things, I’m not supposed to put things in it.” Good girl. Part of the thrill, though, is disobeying your fundamental physiology. Butt sex is fun for the same reason it’s fun to piss off a teacher or take a piss on a cop car, or burn down a church—except, get this, the only authority that you’re rebelling against is yourself. That’s some next-level shit. It’s like condensing six months of “getting in touch with your true feelings” BS therapy into 20 minutes. And, unlike burning down a church, you get to keep your job and be a fully functioning adult in society afterward.

YOU HAVE TO WANT IT
It can’t just be a fun little experiment you do to spice up your relationship. I mean, I guess that’s fine, but that’s when you’re going to be distracted by thoughts like, Oh, this feels kinda unpleasant, or, Wow, I hope I don’t get a UTI. That’s not really getting into the spirit of anal. The desire has to come from a deep need to feel degraded, and this is something that should be expressed/initiated through body language, NOT through diplomatic compromise, like, “OK, honey, you get to do that to me as long as you promise you’ll come to my cousin’s wedding.” (Ew, are there people who negotiate with sex like that?) I think there is a time and a place for anal, and you will know exactly when that time comes—he’ll tell you. (Just kidding.) (Not really.)

ANAL FISSURES BUILD CHARACTER
Yes, I’ve bled from my anus for weeks at a time (not constantly, that would be insane) and let me tell you something: I wouldn’t trade it for the world. In fact, I’m convinced experiencing an anal fissure may bring you closer to understanding the world, because guess what? Life is about dealing with things you would rather not deal with, like blood coming out of your asshole. You go through days of not wanting to eat because of not wanting to shit because of not wanting to reopen the scar tissue that has hopefully been developing on your butthole, but eventually the fissure does go away and you’ll either be a) wanting to go through it all over again, or b) taking precautions for next time.

ROBAXIN
I happened upon the miracle of muscle relaxers by accident. One day a boy effortlessly slid his penis up my butt and I was like, “What, I thought this was supposed to hurt?” And then I walked around afterwards without a care in the world, thinking that I just had an unusually loose sphincter. It took me a while to realize that the fluidity of the whole transaction could be attributed to the fact that I had been swallowing muscle relaxers daily (never mind why). Anal lube is bullshit. With Robaxin, you can put p’s in your b all day—there you go, Robaxin executives, I just came up with your advertising slogan for you. You’re welcome. Who's in Kara's asshole now?

YOU SHIT CUM
How is this nothing other than hilarious? For a millisecond it feels empowering to be expelling baby-creation liquid from your female body, and then you remember that it’s coming out of a tunnel for shit. The image is so bizarre and backwards, it it’s like a college art project on recontextualization. Or feminist literature. “POOPING SEMEN: At the Dawn of Matriarchy.”

WILLFUL DEGRADATION
No, I wasn’t molested as a child. No, my father didn’t beat me or abandon me. Why is it so unfathomable to think that girls actually like to GET fucked? We’re built for it. We’re built to take dicks. That’s what we do. It doesn’t make me inferior or powerless, it makes me happy. Before I realized that I like to be treated like shit, I was having boring, terrible, P-in-the-V type sex. It starts with chivalry and ends one forced, weak orgasm later. It doesn’t have to be that way!

YOU’LL BE FINE
The worst thing that could happen is a perforated anus. Pfft! Just like vagina sex, it takes some getting used to and it’s awkward at first.

Mary Ann, girl, you are cubic squared.

http://www.vice.com/read/why-girls-shoul...e=vicefbus