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Proof girls WANT you to learn Game
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Proof girls WANT you to learn Game

Quote: (06-09-2014 08:39 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

They don't like guys that have to learn game as it shows the guy is not natural. That's also why they say "Just be yourself".

Thing is, they'll only know if you tell them.

Or have bad game.

I'll give women a little more credit. I think this comes from their experience with making themselves more attractive. Most things women do to attract men are temporary. Every morning they start off more or less the same level of attractiveness as they did the morning before. With the exception of a fat girl losing weight there's very little permanent change a woman can effect that will make her significantly more attractive to men. Because that's all they know they view any male attempts at self improvement to be as shallow. They assume anything a guy does to improve his chances with women goes away by the time he wakes up the next morning. They're so used to just being attractive that they can't comprehend how somebody would have to work hard to create any kind of permanent change in their attractiveness.

The upside of this is that if you do change yourself for the better women will just assume you were born that way. Don't dissuade them otherwise.
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I believe "just be yourself"'can be a (sometimes unintentional) shit test. Your concept of "yourself" may be an illusion, and it may very well be tainted by layers of cultural programming you aren't even aware of. Sorry if that's getting a bit deep for this thread.

That's a pretty good video clip- the messed up (incongruent) part is where the guy walks away speedily like a little phaggot.

If only you knew how bad things really are.
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#28

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Nah, I think an unattractive guy can capture and create that moment.....to get the blowie! Looks I dont think are a huge factor for woman. Vulnerability is key here.
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Proof girls WANT you to learn Game

Quote: (06-09-2014 02:20 AM)calihunter Wrote:  

the things that makes them want to fuck are often not the ones you say, but the ones you don't say.

Exactly...that one's called "Im in, all I gotta do is not fuck it up, Game"

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-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


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Quote: (06-09-2014 02:57 AM)zaqan Wrote:  

I forget who I got this from. I think Heartiste tweeted it a few weeks ago. If you would like some more examples, here:
http://thoughtcatalog.com/emily-mccombs/...me-in-bed/

This one also has guys confused about whether the scene sounds like "rape culture", and the feminists are incapable of rationalizing it all.

You just sit there, reading it all, mouth agape, laughing hysterically, wishing you knew this 5, 10, 15 years ago (and noting down which lines to use).

This what I was thinking when I started this thread. (In hindsight I should have made that clear). My thought was that it would be useful to everyone, for members post material where girls/women are communicating with each other about what men have done to get them turned on and/or banged. Ideally when they think men are NOT "listening" so we can get honest (or as honest as is possible) feedback and / or insight.

_______________________________________
- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs

"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell
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Quote: (06-08-2014 04:50 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

One of my favorite comments:
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I guess I'm pretty simple, I had a first date with a guy and drank a little too much to drive home. We were at his apartment and he was really nice about it and offered me his bed and said he'd sleep on his couch. I laid down on my side and he came to give a kiss goodnight, and whispered real slow "but just so you know, what I'd really like to do is fuck your brains out"

So we did. I SHOULD really be ashamed, and yet....

That's a perfect stealth missile of a line designed to get through even the tightest anti-slut defense.

I've done this a couple of times. Its a way of saying "I wont tell if you dont".
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My god the comments section says IT ALL !
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Quote: (06-09-2014 05:59 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

My god the comments section says IT ALL !

That's what I think too

_______________________________________
- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs

"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell
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Quote: (06-09-2014 09:18 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I believe "just be yourself"'can be a (sometimes unintentional) shit test. Your concept of "yourself" may be an illusion, and it may very well be tainted by layers of cultural programming you aren't even aware of. Sorry if that's getting a bit deep for this thread.

This is true, but also consider that "just be yourself" is a reflection of the female desire for "congruence" or the "sense of authenticity." They'll say they want guys who are "authentic," but what's really being communicated is they want to feel the sense of authenticity. Fortunately, the sense of authenticity can be fairly easily faked.

So they don't really mean "be yourself," they mean "have a frame that makes me feel like you are authentic." Not sure exactly how this connects to the rest of the female attraction process but it's an important trait in both alpha and beta terms. A lot of shit tests (like flaking or disagreeing with your opinion) are just asking for congruence of frame, if you flip frame you fail because you've compromised the authenticity.

"Don't take dating advice from women" is an absolutely true maxim, but don't forget that female platitudes like JBY often have very informative value for guys who know what to listen for subtextually. Women tell us a lot of truth, they just aren't communicating in the literal meaning of the words, and in some cases aren't communicating what they intend to communicate at all.
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Quote: (09-10-2014 02:17 PM)BadgerHut Wrote:  

This is true, but also consider that "just be yourself" is a reflection of the female desire for "congruence" or the "sense of authenticity." They'll say they want guys who are "authentic," but what's really being communicated is they want to feel the sense of authenticity. Fortunately, the sense of authenticity can be fairly easily faked.

Congruence to me is, taking actions and making decisions based on a defined set of rules that may be based on believes/mindsets you have. Basically she is trying to flip switches, playing with us, like men play with their electronics by flipping every possible switch to understand how it works and to properly manipulate it. If you flip the same switch several times and always get a different result, you will start to hate your electronic toy. The device is not reliable/predictable. Its the same with women trying to flip men's switches.

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