How Much Of Being A High Value Person Is Logistics & How Much Is Personality/Knowledg
06-07-2014, 03:06 PM
I know we talk about being a high value person. This extends to everything from women, to game, to friends and social circle to employement and career. I guess when we talk about high value it means what do you bring to the table. This could be you are the life of the party, you are charismatic and people like to be around you. Could be that you have a rare knowledge base that others need your assistance with or could even be material things you have such as you have a swimming pool so your place is the perfect party place in the summer.
This kinda got me thinking, how much of being high value is made up in your personality and knowledge and how much is logistics such as you have a boat, you have a pool, you have some tool or piece of equipment other people need, etc?
I was just thinking the other day. When your younger you always have that one friend who their house is the hangout house. Maybe it's cuz they have a fridge full of beer their parents don't keep tabs on, maybe their parents workalot and its the party spot, maybe there parents dont care how late you stay out so everyone sleeps over there.
This kind of got me thinking when your younger I think a lot of what makes you popular or high value is somewhat out of your control. When you were younger the kids who's parents bought them nicer clothes already have a step up on you. The kids who's parents are more lax are going to have the hangout house. Even as a younger person however I think how you cary yourself plays into your value because I can also think of those kids who were used by others for their car or throw parties at their house. They were't really part of the group but were used for what they have.
As you get older its not so predefined and out of your control. Obviously as you get older and either have a career or start your own business you create your value by having certain knowledge and skills. I guess in turn those skills give you money to have the things which can also make you a high value person.
I guess kinda a random subject but something I was tinking about the other day. Curious what your guys thoughts were.
This kinda got me thinking, how much of being high value is made up in your personality and knowledge and how much is logistics such as you have a boat, you have a pool, you have some tool or piece of equipment other people need, etc?
I was just thinking the other day. When your younger you always have that one friend who their house is the hangout house. Maybe it's cuz they have a fridge full of beer their parents don't keep tabs on, maybe their parents workalot and its the party spot, maybe there parents dont care how late you stay out so everyone sleeps over there.
This kind of got me thinking when your younger I think a lot of what makes you popular or high value is somewhat out of your control. When you were younger the kids who's parents bought them nicer clothes already have a step up on you. The kids who's parents are more lax are going to have the hangout house. Even as a younger person however I think how you cary yourself plays into your value because I can also think of those kids who were used by others for their car or throw parties at their house. They were't really part of the group but were used for what they have.
As you get older its not so predefined and out of your control. Obviously as you get older and either have a career or start your own business you create your value by having certain knowledge and skills. I guess in turn those skills give you money to have the things which can also make you a high value person.
I guess kinda a random subject but something I was tinking about the other day. Curious what your guys thoughts were.