Quote: (02-23-2015 10:02 AM)dtpilgrim Wrote:
1200 approached is a damn lot and I respect you for it and it makes me want you to succeed.
I personally drew A LOT of value from hanging out with other game guys. Good wingmen have also increased my chances of pulling. I joined a Mastermind group which meets weekly to discuss game & self-improvement topics, which taught me all of the basics without having to make the mistakes myself.
Maybe you should consider getting a wingman? Maybe consider creating or joining a mastermind group?
I've learned a lot more a lot faster from people better than me, than I've learned through personal experience. Find a daygame guy who's competent, at the very least with the ability to consistently get numbers AND dates from daygame, and become his friend. He can enjoy the mentor role, you can enjoy the mentee role.
Hope this helps.
Thanks man. Since you say "mastermind" I'm assuming you mean you joined RSD? I've yet to find someone who can CONSISTENTLY get dates from cold approach daygame. I'd define consistent as 1 date a week purely from cold approach daygame. Your advice leads to something I've considered which is just paying for a coach. That'll be the final step before I truly quit. At that point I could state definitively that I failed.