[inspecthergadget]

I know I'm dumb for getting into this situation. But of the women I've been dating recently, the one I'm most into has been separated for about 7 months (so still legally married). We've only made out so far (multiple times) but we are really into each other - there is no question. I feel like I should do something w/her on v-day, but I have never been the type to really pay attention to that day. So far, there's been no discussion w/her as to where this is going. Thoughts on a good tack to take here?

[Tommy]

Go for it.

[inspecthergadget]

First date idea she ever shot down. She said it would bring up to many negative memories of high school breakups, being alone, marriage and shit. Guess I knew going into it that it wouldn't be pretty. At least I have some other options.

[ATTA]

Time to restart this thread.

I'm going to grab drinks with a separated women on Tuesday. I've had sex with a divorcee before, but never with a woman who is still technically married.

I'll probably game her like all the rest, but are there any little caveats or things to watch out for that might be beneficial?

[Capitán Peligroso]

Game as usual, the caveat would be if you would consider an LTR with this person. Assuming you're not, proceed as usual.

[Timoteo]

I've banged out and dated chicks with kids. Many years ago I was seeing a woman that was separated with a young kid (was still technically married, and to a professional boxer no less). She was the last chick that I raw-dogged. We fucked once with her kid asleep in the bed next to us. But because I didn't see a future (not that I ever wanted one), and learned more and more about her family, the more I realized it was time to bail NOW.

If you're into a separated chick, and you really want to bang her, game on. Let her issues be her issues, not yours. No Captain Save-A-Ho shit. Just fuck her like any other chick, and when you get tired of her, do what you would do for any other chick.