Somewhat tangential, but this article made me think: Amazon is killing my sex life. If want to know what game is, this is it. This girl is writing an article for Salon begging to be gamed. The approaches get a ton of attention but that's only a few seconds of the interaction. Where she decides she wants to spend more time with / fuck you happens during your conversation with her.
This one is priceless
"shuts vaginas down cold"... did Roissy ghost write this article?
Takeaways
This one is priceless
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No, I spent a half hour or more listening to him talk about his job. Since I am not in the tech industry, I don’t understand any of it. It was all job speak—the type of language ladder-climbers use; it was the kind of talk that shuts vaginas down cold.
"shuts vaginas down cold"... did Roissy ghost write this article?
Takeaways
- She calls out guys who don't try to find out about her. Basic shit. Guys get so hung up on DHV they can overdo it. Find out about her. If she's interesting, you've got a good branching point for a conversation. If she's boring, then she'll be more impressed by your DHV, particularly if you draw her into your world: "oh, you've never been surfing? You'll have to come along with me & my buddies...". Whether or not you follow through depends on whether you like her enough. It's the promise, the fantasy that makes you compelling.
- Talking down to her. Remember the quote about Disraeli: "He made me feel like the most intelligent woman in the world". Maybe she is stupid and her philosophy degree was a waste of daddy's money. If you can't stand her, then call her out. But it's subtle: "I constantly felt like I wasn’t seen or valued by them" is signalling something else. I doubt these guys were telling her her philosophy degree was worthless. My guess is if she mentioned it, the guys had no way to relate and changed the subject back to something they understood. It's OK to ask questions about something you know nothing about. You don't have to like it or approve of it or tell her how cool it is, just find out and get her talking. Roosh covers this: early on in the pickup you'll be doing most of the talking but the goal is to get her to open up to you.
- She calls out dudes throwing money around. “My dating life went from dating artists and writers and going on cheap but exciting dates, to men who thought the ability to buy someone an expensive meal made them interesting.” What's the lesson? The dude who went out and spent a couple hundred bucks wasted his money if the object was to get laid.
- Finally, the theme is uninteresting guys who talk about nothing but work. Lesson: If your only interest is work, then you'll only be interesting to the people you work with.