Quote: (02-09-2011 08:26 AM)Andreas Wrote:
What present will you buy for your women guys?
Valentines is a holiday that has lost its golden touch in USA, imo. It puts all pressure on a man to show his worth to a woman by buying her "something special". It clearly sends out the message that she is of higher value to you, than you to her, and if your gift pleases her highness, she rewards you with sex......maybe.
Sex should never be a reward for good behavior, which is what mainstream marketing has sold it to be to make a buck. Just look at the answers the 2 girls gave you! They were basically laughing in your face with those reactions.
Notice how most women expect to receive something Valentines day, they do not expect to GIVE something Valentines day. The whole I'm a princess syndrome.
Now, if your girl truly deserves attention that day, because she has proven to be a great companion in many aspects of your life, then I am all for rewarding her, but don't buy her shit, not even a skittles (it almost sounds like approval seeking to me, sorry Roissy). Instead, buy her private lessons for the 2 of you for a salsa class, or tango. Or, if you cannot cook, learn a special recipe "just for her" and prepare a meal you both will enjoy.
In other words, do something that you will BOTH enjoy and its clear you did not do it for her only, and not just to please her in hopes of sex as a reward Valentines night. Women find this sort of behavior manipulative, and well, a turn-off. So you will MAYBE get sex based on her feeling obligated, not because her pussy is on fire.
Go checkout Valentines day in Brazil (June) or Valentines day in Colombia (September) and see how women act differently there for the same holiday. Oftne times, the women are pleasing the men, not the other way around.
For my date, I am cooking a special meal which in a conversation we had many months ago, she told me she wanted to try. Notice how this gift triggers the "He pays attention to me" a woman needs to have from a man, and its set up for both to enjoy leaving you gold, and getting laid that night.
Put a red, sil bow around your cock after dinner, and you say "oh, and you though the dinner was your gift?"
My .02
Mixx