[picobello]

This is a tough one, I really don't know how to proceed.

There are these two girls who belong to our group of friends and live in the same apartment. They are both a 7. Both of them left their countries to "improve their careers".

In reality they had good careers and boyfriends in their respective countries, but I think they supposed they could "game the system" and by virtue of being cute, get a good paying job so that they could start a carousel of dick lifestyle.

One of them is the "dumb blonde" type of girl (and she is actually dumb), the other one is the "smart dressed career woman" type.

Unfortunately they ended up stuck in shit jobs with shit pay, the dumb one permanently, the other one at least for a while.

The dumb one also managed to lose her boyfriend in her home country before finding one here that would support her, the smart one was able to keep him by flying home every now and then to give him some and keep him quiet.

They both love to party hard, and often they go amiss on Saturday nights, only to end up having new facebook friends on Monday, all of them very muscular men with tank top photos on their profiles.

Our group of friends is basically made of omegas, and I am the lonely beta, with some moments of alpha, but still a nerd engineer kind of beta. My game is borderline bad, I am very new at it.

So the dumb one tried all along to be my girlfriend, but since I smelled something strange, I always avoided to get involved with her (I know now I should have just pumped and dumped her, but that was before I had heard of game) but in any case, she kept this "priority option" on me, where she cooks dinners for me, she invites me to her place to watch TV and so on (I should also mention that I am the only man in the group who could financially support a stay-home girlfriend).

In the meantime, her roommate, the smart one, made lunch for me while the dumb one was back in her home country to visit with her parents, and she made sure to do it on a day where we would both have ample time after lunch - she is also very aware that her roommate wants to be with me. I felt that it was going toward sex, and not wanting to "ruin my relationship with the other girl", just left after lunch (mistake number 2...should have just pumped and dumped).

So now the situation is the following: the dumb one is also close to losing her job, and has really turned up her game on me, so she is really ripe for a royal pump and dump, I could just set up a dinner at my place and do her.

Problem is, I am really attracted to the smart one, she is the one I want to fuck. She has "whore" written all over her face, I've wanted to fuck her all along. I think that the dumb one is not very good in bed - she is still a 7, but does not look like somebody who is good in bed.

So theoretically, I could invite the smart one to my place and try a move on her. Problem is, should I fail with her, she could tell the dumb one, and then I would end up fucking...myself.

I can suppose that because of the model of abundance, where girls are equivalent, I should just fuck the dumb one, dump her, and forget about the smart one. Would that be the correct way of proceeding? Or, because girls are equivalent, try with the smart one, and then no matter the outcome, proceed with my game and find myself another one?

[classicjimmy]

I have two pieces of seemingly conflicting advice. The first piece of advice is to never settle, and the second piece of advice is to be realistic with yourself, your ability, and your whole situation.

Now, allow me to explain myself.

From the sounds of it, this 'dumb blonde' character is looking for a beta provider to latch on to. There are a couple things that lead me to is conclusion. The first is that she came to your country looking for a better job (and presumably a more high-status male) then she had in her old country, and that as of late things haven't quite panned out for them. She sounds like the kind of girl who would be fine being a stay-at-home mother living off her husband's cash while she hits the wall, eats pints of ice cream, buys a whole bunch of useless stuff you don't want or need, etc. You, as a 'nerd engineer', probably have a stable, moderately well paying job, and generally fit the bill. While you can bang her, absolutely do not settle for her in a relationship. You will get sucked in, she will exploit you, and throw you out when a better guy comes along. This is not to say don't bang her, but you must always be cognizant of what's going on and refuse to get sucked in or tied down.

As for the smart chick, if you find her more attractive, and you actually think you have a decent shot (my advice would be different if you had really tight game, but seeing as you have said you're new we aren't going to try and pull something off that's over our heads), go for her. Going for her is what abundance is all about. By going for the other girl, you're admitting that sure sex with someone is better than a less sure shot at sex with the chick you really want. Nothing says 'I am a high value man, I get lots of girls, etc' than having a take-it-or-leave-it attitude. If the hot one doesn't want you, there are other hot ones out there. If you don't think you have a decent shot at her, then go for the dumb one. There's no sense in wasting all this time and effort for ONE GIRL.

At the end of the day, it's hard for game advice to be tailored to one (or in this case, two) girl. Not everything will work for every girl. What game is is a blueprint of what should work on most girls.

Next time you're with them, gauge their interest levels in you, and then try to make a move. If you're going to go for the smart one ever, make sure whichever one you go for first is alone and the other one is away. While yeah, they'll probably talk about you later, there's a slim (I'm talking 0.01%) chance they don't and you can bang both of them without the other knowing. In my experience, having banged one girl usually closes the door with the other.

Good luck.

[picobello]

I totally agree on everything. I do think that I have a decent shot at her and I'll make my move.

What is puzzling for a man is how she went ahead and invited me over to her place, while her roommate was not there, totally stabbing her in the back. They are bragging all the time about how they are the perfect roommate for each other and so on.