I am taking salsa classes here in Nicaragua, and I finally managed to make out with this super sexy local girl who has been playing crazy games with me - ignoring me even though i'm sitting right in front of her. I see the games, so I just ignore them and say "Hola!" if she walks past, to which she responds over her shoulder as if she hadn't noticed I was there. I should mention she is 20, so all this makes me chuckle.
She speaks no English and I very little Spanish. Friday, we all ended up the same place, and danced all night, and if I danced with other girls, she would be right there on top of me again. I suck at salsa and she was convinced I had no rythm, so she was blown away when I completely took control to some reggaeton music. Then, while I was talking to other friends, she came up to me on her way out the door, gave me a fierce but quick kiss on the lips, and practically ran away.
I turn and grab her before she gets out the door and push her to the side. She squirms but I've got a firm grip on her forearms. I then put my open hand on the bottom of her throat, where it meets the chest, and gently push up against the wall. She stops resisting, and I move in for the kiss. I stop just before our lips touch, and she tries to close the gap but I stop her. After five seconds, I start to kiss her and just as our tongues start to meet and I feel her try to press her body into me... I pull away totally, pull her away from the wall and push her to the door, which is right next to us. The bouncer opens the door and she bolts out without looking back. The bouncer gives me a high five, as do the bartenders.
Next day, I'm at the hostel cafe where she often hangs, reading the paper. She works next door, so she comes in 10 times a day to shoot pool. I look up and wait for her to make eyecontact, which she doesn't, so I just give out a loud "hola!" as she walks past and I get the over-the-shoulder shit again.
I get back to reading the paper and even when I look up in her direction, I don't look at her - my focus is on the painting above her head, or something. I do catch her looking at me a couple of times. I am not into her dumb games, so i decide to just ignore her and I concentrate hard trying to translate the Spanish article. I have a soar jaw, which I cradle with my hand (she knows about this) - she notices me doing that too.
After maybe 30 minutes, I am totally focused on my paper, and a beer slams down in front of me.
I look up, and see her walk out the door. I turn to her buddies, that she has been leaning on, flirting with (even at 2 in the afternoon), and talking to. We look at each other and all laugh, I ask what is she doing, they shrug.
She comes back a few minutes later with a soda she got down the road, and continues to ignore me.
Later that day, I run into her, I say "thanks for the beer".
"Di nada" over her shoulder, as she walks away. I live at the hostel where she hangs out in her breaks from work, and I spent the rest of the evening with friends elsewhere. I didn't see her when we went out last night, least not at the club she always goes to.
What the fuck is going on?
She speaks no English and I very little Spanish. Friday, we all ended up the same place, and danced all night, and if I danced with other girls, she would be right there on top of me again. I suck at salsa and she was convinced I had no rythm, so she was blown away when I completely took control to some reggaeton music. Then, while I was talking to other friends, she came up to me on her way out the door, gave me a fierce but quick kiss on the lips, and practically ran away.
I turn and grab her before she gets out the door and push her to the side. She squirms but I've got a firm grip on her forearms. I then put my open hand on the bottom of her throat, where it meets the chest, and gently push up against the wall. She stops resisting, and I move in for the kiss. I stop just before our lips touch, and she tries to close the gap but I stop her. After five seconds, I start to kiss her and just as our tongues start to meet and I feel her try to press her body into me... I pull away totally, pull her away from the wall and push her to the door, which is right next to us. The bouncer opens the door and she bolts out without looking back. The bouncer gives me a high five, as do the bartenders.
Next day, I'm at the hostel cafe where she often hangs, reading the paper. She works next door, so she comes in 10 times a day to shoot pool. I look up and wait for her to make eyecontact, which she doesn't, so I just give out a loud "hola!" as she walks past and I get the over-the-shoulder shit again.
I get back to reading the paper and even when I look up in her direction, I don't look at her - my focus is on the painting above her head, or something. I do catch her looking at me a couple of times. I am not into her dumb games, so i decide to just ignore her and I concentrate hard trying to translate the Spanish article. I have a soar jaw, which I cradle with my hand (she knows about this) - she notices me doing that too.
After maybe 30 minutes, I am totally focused on my paper, and a beer slams down in front of me.
I look up, and see her walk out the door. I turn to her buddies, that she has been leaning on, flirting with (even at 2 in the afternoon), and talking to. We look at each other and all laugh, I ask what is she doing, they shrug.
She comes back a few minutes later with a soda she got down the road, and continues to ignore me.
Later that day, I run into her, I say "thanks for the beer".
"Di nada" over her shoulder, as she walks away. I live at the hostel where she hangs out in her breaks from work, and I spent the rest of the evening with friends elsewhere. I didn't see her when we went out last night, least not at the club she always goes to.
What the fuck is going on?