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Girl who has a boyfriend
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Girl who has a boyfriend

I have no idea what I'm doing honestly, and I'll be the first to admit it.

There's this 9/10 chick I've met who works at my local bar hangout. I've been working her for a while, but the strangest thing happens.

She's incredibly into me when I'm there, I mean into me, no mistaking it. We've kissed briefly there, she will playfully run her hands around my dick, etc. Spends most of the nights I'm there with me.

I cannot get her outside of there. She's incredibly cool and cold on any attempt at text or call. She flaked once after I made plans with her there, I gave her shit for it and she wouldn't talk to me when I showed up for a week, then was all over me again when I ignored her right back.

Anyways, she's got a boyfriend, and that may be the whole issue. When I'm not there in person, he's her boyfriend. When I'm there he's "well I don't know if we're really in a relationship".

What the hell do I do? She's gone too far with me for it to be just purely playful, and she doesn't flirt with any other guys there, ever. What part of my game am I fucking up?
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#2

Girl who has a boyfriend

Had the same situation at an old place of employment years back...

Worked with this chick (8) and mid-20's, we became friendly and eventually we started flirting back and forth. It was well-known she had a guy and they had 4 kids together.

She clearly viewed me as higher value because I was new to the state, was a known womanizer, had my own house/car/nice clothes, and was free and clear of any BS. (Her bf was an aspiring drug kingpin)

Her logistics were an issue (didn't drive) so each time we "planned" to meet up, she would flake last minute. Took to ignoring her, and she would always come back on cue. Finally concluded even though it was low-effort on my part, it still wasn't worth it. She was happy with the attention and validation alone, so I had to totally cut ties.

Don't get me wrong. I have had successful work encounters with chicks after a protracted seduction period, but the point is if she REALLY wants to sex you, she will find a way to make herself available.

MDP
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#3

Girl who has a boyfriend

Quote: (05-14-2014 01:19 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Had the same situation at an old place of employment years back...

Worked with this chick (8) and mid-20's, we became friendly and eventually we started flirting back and forth. It was well-known she had a guy and they had 4 kids together.

She clearly viewed me as higher value because I was new to the state, was a known womanizer, had my own house/car/nice clothes, and was free and clear of any BS. (Her bf was an aspiring drug kingpin)

Her logistics were an issue (didn't drive) so each time we "planned" to meet up, she would flake last minute. Took to ignoring her, and she would always come back on cue. Finally concluded even though it was low-effort on my part, it still wasn't worth it. She was happy with the attention and validation alone, so I had to totally cut ties.

Don't get me wrong. I have had successful work encounters with chicks after a protracted seduction period, but the point is if she REALLY wants to sex you, she will find a way to make herself available.

Yeah, I feel ya. To be clear I don't work with her.

But It seems like a similar situation, I'm pretty smooth generally. When I'm around people have fun with me. I've got a really nice car which happens to be one of her favorites, I dress well, have money, and am definitely way more put together than any other guys there, or her boyfriend. I've got the high value down.

It's just a strange thing. Once we actually met at the movies, but she brought her friend, they showed up about 5 minutes too late and they locked the doors to the last showing. We stayed in the parking lot and she was all over me, but I got pretty blocked by the friend unfortunately, and couldn't get her back with me. Since then haven't got her out.

You think it's the friend? (her roommate) Is that the possible hidden factor here?

I'm actually thinking this might be the problem. She's your typical less attractive roommate best friend who this chick talks about EVERYTHING with.
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#4

Girl who has a boyfriend

She's stringing you along for attention. It's a shit test and guess what...you're failing. Stop wasting your time, spend a month penetrating other holes, come back to the bar, and let her smell the fresh pussy on you.
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Girl who has a boyfriend

Quote: (05-14-2014 01:27 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

She's stringing you along for attention. It's a shit test and guess what...you're failing. Stop wasting your time, spend a month penetrating other holes, come back to the bar, and let her smell the fresh pussy on you.

Here's the thing, she might be, but I love a good challenge. Generally if a girls willing to kiss me at her work place, I can probably pull it. Just have to find out what part I'm missing.

(Meanwhile I have pulled girls right in front of her before, always gets her all huffy).
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#6

Girl who has a boyfriend

Quite possibly

Hate to speculate b/c females are such followers, that her friend could have possibly ran a guilt trip on her

You can be doing everything right, but due to their unpredictable ways you may not be able to break through even after being on the brink

Just make sure you aren't indirectly encouraging her flakiness. Maybe try being seen there with another hot chick, see if she shows signs of jealousy

MDP
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Girl who has a boyfriend

Quote: (05-14-2014 01:38 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Quite possibly

Hate to speculate b/c females are such followers, that her friend could have possibly ran a guilt trip on her

You can be doing everything right, but due to their unpredictable ways you may not be able to break through even after being on the brink

Just make sure you aren't indirectly encouraging her flakiness. Maybe try being seen there with another hot chick, see if she shows signs of jealousy

Yeah, I should bring a girl there.

The friend thing sucks, definitely could be a guilt trip. But I have an idea, my buddy is just going to have to man up and do me a solid. This chick told me her friend (the same one) thinks my buddy is gorgeous, they've never met.

I'm just gonna have to get him to wingman it, that's the perfect way out of this situation, get them both out with me and my buddy, and it'll end it.
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Girl who has a boyfriend

Quote: (05-14-2014 12:20 PM)Jroades26 Wrote:  

I have no idea what I'm doing honestly, and I'll be the first to admit it.

There's this 9/10 chick I've met who works at my local bar hangout. I've been working her for a while, but the strangest thing happens.

She's incredibly into me when I'm there, I mean into me, no mistaking it. We've kissed briefly there, she will playfully run her hands around my dick, etc. Spends most of the nights I'm there with me.

I cannot get her outside of there. She's incredibly cool and cold on any attempt at text or call. She flaked once after I made plans with her there, I gave her shit for it and she wouldn't talk to me when I showed up for a week, then was all over me again when I ignored her right back.

Anyways, she's got a boyfriend, and that may be the whole issue. When I'm not there in person, he's her boyfriend. When I'm there he's "well I don't know if we're really in a relationship".

What the hell do I do? She's gone too far with me for it to be just purely playful, and she doesn't flirt with any other guys there, ever. What part of my game am I fucking up?

really?

what does she do at the bar? bartend?

I'm guessing shes stringing you along for tips, and she knows how to do it.

God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
No sleeping all day, no getting my dick licked

The Original Emotional Alpha
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Girl who has a boyfriend

Quote: (05-14-2014 03:36 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

Quote: (05-14-2014 12:20 PM)Jroades26 Wrote:  

I have no idea what I'm doing honestly, and I'll be the first to admit it.

There's this 9/10 chick I've met who works at my local bar hangout. I've been working her for a while, but the strangest thing happens.

She's incredibly into me when I'm there, I mean into me, no mistaking it. We've kissed briefly there, she will playfully run her hands around my dick, etc. Spends most of the nights I'm there with me.

I cannot get her outside of there. She's incredibly cool and cold on any attempt at text or call. She flaked once after I made plans with her there, I gave her shit for it and she wouldn't talk to me when I showed up for a week, then was all over me again when I ignored her right back.

Anyways, she's got a boyfriend, and that may be the whole issue. When I'm not there in person, he's her boyfriend. When I'm there he's "well I don't know if we're really in a relationship".

What the hell do I do? She's gone too far with me for it to be just purely playful, and she doesn't flirt with any other guys there, ever. What part of my game am I fucking up?

really?

what does she do at the bar? bartend?

I'm guessing shes stringing you along for tips, and she knows how to do it.

I don't pay. Like ever. I've been getting free drinks from this girl for months, and before that free drinks from the previous girl who worked there. And they don't expect a tip, not money wise anyway.
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#10

Girl who has a boyfriend

then you have the bartenders locked down. maybe quit focusing on them and game other girls there.

God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
No sleeping all day, no getting my dick licked

The Original Emotional Alpha
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