Maybe it's just a matter of getting 100+ approaches under my belt...or maybe I need to drink more coffee. ....
Another interaction today at the coffeeshop line. I asked a cute young blonde her opinion on the frapuccinos. She answered and was smiling, laughing. I talked about a minute about that. She told me where I worked and that I work up the street. I introduced myself and got her name and we shook hands. Then...I was like....Okay...thanks for the advice on the coffee I'm going to get back to work on my laptop. WTF???!!!!
I mean afterwards...I thought of things I could have transitioned with. Or...hell even just saying "you're really helpful, let's grab some coffee sometime....any freaking thing!
I actually walked back in the coffeeshop saying to myself 'you gotta ask her number/ask her out" she was waiting on her drink to be made and kind of looked at me as I was hovering by the front door. I went to the bathroom...and on the way out...she was walking out the door...I said 'lemme get that for you'....her 'thanks' but didn't look at me....by that time the energy was obviously not there like at first. I let her go.
I shoulda just continued with anything....not me.....I bail out to go back to work. It's like I don't have that 'killer instinct" to just push the interaction. More than that....in real time...I can't really think what to say next. I'm getting tired of all these wasted opportunities....especially when the women are showing apparent interest from what I can read.
Should I practice at home? Talking in a mirror as if I'm practicing talking to chicks? I heard Napoleon did that to master his social skills......
Damn it!
Another interaction today at the coffeeshop line. I asked a cute young blonde her opinion on the frapuccinos. She answered and was smiling, laughing. I talked about a minute about that. She told me where I worked and that I work up the street. I introduced myself and got her name and we shook hands. Then...I was like....Okay...thanks for the advice on the coffee I'm going to get back to work on my laptop. WTF???!!!!
I mean afterwards...I thought of things I could have transitioned with. Or...hell even just saying "you're really helpful, let's grab some coffee sometime....any freaking thing!
I actually walked back in the coffeeshop saying to myself 'you gotta ask her number/ask her out" she was waiting on her drink to be made and kind of looked at me as I was hovering by the front door. I went to the bathroom...and on the way out...she was walking out the door...I said 'lemme get that for you'....her 'thanks' but didn't look at me....by that time the energy was obviously not there like at first. I let her go.
I shoulda just continued with anything....not me.....I bail out to go back to work. It's like I don't have that 'killer instinct" to just push the interaction. More than that....in real time...I can't really think what to say next. I'm getting tired of all these wasted opportunities....especially when the women are showing apparent interest from what I can read.
Should I practice at home? Talking in a mirror as if I'm practicing talking to chicks? I heard Napoleon did that to master his social skills......
Damn it!
- One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach.
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