[Renberg]

(05-14-2014 08:50 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(05-14-2014 06:48 PM)Renberg Wrote:  

We used to be pretty close 3-4 years back. Then we both went to college. She's always faded from my life when I had a girlfriend, and I know all signs point to FUCK. In contrast, it is kind of weird to pull the moves on a girl you used to talk to about random shit in your HS history class.

NO, it's not. What's weird is you having a girl THAT YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO practically taking your pants off and sucking your dick of her own volition and you're driving around being frustrated that you're tired and there's "nothing to do in my town" and wondering "what others will think" instead of figuring out a place you can drive to that's remote/secluded with a bottle of wine to share with her and a few condoms in your back pocket. Bonus, she will think it's romantic or hot to be fucking somewhere not in your parents house (because seriously, what's romantic or hot about boning with your parents around?).

I can't think of a single shithole town I've been to that I couldn't find a place to fuck in if a girl was throwing herself at me. I'm assuming you are broke and you can't just use a cheap motel room or a room from AirBnB.

Will report.

[sand]

In a similar situation. So back at home after graduating and made plans to see a childhood girl friend.

We made plans to see a movie a few days ago, the night before we see the movie we end up texting each other at late at night and we we up talking about how horny we were. She's always been in some type of LTR like since middle school but isn't now. So I immediately suggested to hook up and she said she'd think about it.

We saw the movie the next night then I awkwardly drove around "looking for something to do" and then finally parked and was just like let's talk about it.

She was like I need to think about it. And I was just like lets forget I ever asked. Then she was like no, I like the idea I'm just not okay with casual sex. I was like okay we'll date in 10 years. She said that she wanted to be chased after. I responded with "well I'm horny and there are other girls so I'm not gonna do that" she then left and was like let me think about it.

No idea how to follow through.

[funkyzeit]

(05-14-2014 03:39 AM)Mujeriego Wrote:  

Whip it out. My money's on she'll start blowing you.

This. If she's so obvious then don't be a pussy.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(05-20-2014 01:44 AM)sand Wrote:  

In a similar situation. So back at home after graduating and made plans to see a childhood girl friend.

We made plans to see a movie a few days ago, the night before we see the movie we end up texting each other at late at night and we we up talking about how horny we were. She's always been in some type of LTR like since middle school but isn't now. So I immediately suggested to hook up and she said she'd think about it.

We saw the movie the next night then I awkwardly drove around "looking for something to do" and then finally parked and was just like let's talk about it.

She was like I need to think about it. And I was just like lets forget I ever asked. Then she was like no, I like the idea I'm just not okay with casual sex. I was like okay we'll date in 10 years. She said that she wanted to be chased after. I responded with "well I'm horny and there are other girls so I'm not gonna do that" she then left and was like let me think about it.

No idea how to follow through.

That sounds like a business negotiation!

Why not just kiss her and see what she'll let you do instead of talking about it?

Talk about a mood killer.

[Fortis]

I have also found myself in a similar situation, albeit I really don't have much in the way of attraction to this girl. I've known her since I was 19, and I'm now 25. We have a few mutual friends, so we were seeing my boy's band play on Saturday. The night begins to wind down and I'm like, "let's continue drinking or something." I suggest a bar, but she wants to stop by her place first for some reason or another. We get back to her house and I'm thinking she'll just drop off her car as we bounce to another bar.

Instead, she motions for me to get out of my car. We go upstairs to the apartment that she shares with her dad and she's like, "I really don't want to go out right now." So she offers me some molly as an apology. We both sit in her room and watch a movie while rolling. Her room is small, so we're both on the bed and I'm thinking, "wow, it really doesn't get much easier than this." I was a bit conflicted, just because I consider molly to be a sex drug, but I really don't have much of a sexual interest in her. I'd fuck her, but it would legitimately be weird because she has a BF that she tries to talk about and I shrug off any discussion of the guy. Not because I'm jealous, but what the fuck can I really tell her about this aloof doctor of physiology?

Eventually, we go outside to chill and she keeps asking me funny questions like, "so, what do you want to do with your life." Just classic questions to ask to spark my emotions and such. I'm kinda drunk and high though, so it doesn't necessarily work. Her dad wakes up, so she kicks me out, just as the drugs begin to really kick in. Ha.

As I'm walking off, she says something to the effect of, "I'm sorry. We should do this again. Now that you know where I live, you can come over whenever."

I just, "maybe" it and get into my car. THe entire situation felt strange to me. Is this what it's like to have a female orbiter? I mean, if she'll keep buying me stuff, then I'll probably keep hanging out. Lol.


Generally speaking, iI probably could bang if I wanted to, but there wouldn't exactly be a way to go for the bang without putting myself out there. I know her BF, bt we're not very close or anything, so I wouldn't have any feelings about banging her. It's like, the idea of fucking is more attractive than she is. She's 26, looks really young, but nothing really going for her in the sexual department, but that could just be due to how she dresses. I can't tell if she has anything under there. Honestly. It would be like walking into a minefield with a metal detector.


I think The OP is struggling with the fact that he'll have to put himself out there to get the close. I sympathize with this plight, but it sounds like he wanted the close. In fact, I might say that he wouldn't exactly be putting himself out there given that she expressed interest in the bang. I'd say just Hail Mary it.

Hopefully that helps.