[lottery]

Well i wouldnt say 5 years exactly as if there was a time frame for me to fall in love but although i hardly feel like the way im kinda feeling now, there is this chick that is making me feel like wow,is this normal?

Basically i have the player mentality that every girl i see i want to fuck and never see her again, but im in portugal at the moment on holiday and i saw this chick working in macdonalds and i was like ''wow''..i approached her, got the name, got to chat to her for few minutes and i think she is really my type.

She seems to be a really nice person and she is very sweet and plus she has the booty that i love. Last time i felt like that, i ended up dating the chick for 3 years, that 3 years relationship the chick looked perfect at the beggining, but then i saw some of her flaws but til today i still think she was a great woman. This new one i barely know but i already think she is a great woman.99% of the chicks i meet i think about fucking them, this one im thinking about dating her..am i being stupid by thinking like that?

I am not in love or anything, but she is making me say damannn, what a chick..i dont see those type of girls everyday..they seem to come every 5 or 8 yrs...any of you ever felt like that?

[jfree]

(02-04-2011 04:45 PM)lottery Wrote:  

Well i wouldnt say 5 years exactly as if there was a time frame for me to fall in love but although i hardly feel like the way im kinda feeling now, there is this chick that is making me feel like wow,is this normal?

Basically i have the player mentality that every girl i see i want to fuck and never see her again, but im in portugal at the moment on holiday and i saw this chick working in macdonalds and i was like ''wow''..i approached her, got the name, got to chat to her for few minutes and i think she is really my type.

She seems to be a really nice person and she is very sweet and plus she has the booty that i love. Last time i felt like that, i ended up dating the chick for 3 years, that 3 years relationship the chick looked perfect at the beggining, but then i saw some of her flaws but til today i still think she was a great woman. This new one i barely know but i already think she is a great woman.99% of the chicks i meet i think about fucking them, this one im thinking about dating her..am i being stupid by thinking like that?

I am not in love or anything, but she is making me say damannn, what a chick..i dont see those type of girls everyday..they seem to come every 5 or 8 yrs...any of you ever felt like that?

This is the essence of mistress/affair game. Once you identify the qualities you like, you can tune your game toward that. Of course, chance still plays a major factor and how picky you are or rare the qualities you are seeking. But again, it's quality vs. quantity.

Obviously, your skills of picking up the general girl population suffer... but you get really good at the ones you really like. Not only that, but you enjoy the chemical love trip until it fades...usually a few weeks to 3 years averaging about a year to year and a half.

PS. I really can't do my version without having money (not necessary a lot but enough to travel comfortably). So I'm here to learn some stuff, just in case some financial catastrophe hits me and maybe even get some other fresh tips on enjoying more travel and fly girls.

[truedat]

Just remember all woman are sneaky hoes. The best you could hope for is a 5% sneaky ass hoe vs. the more common 80-100%. I have a rule, if she doesent go to church 2 times a week put her in the 80% category.

[Tuthmosis]

My thinking is that it's a healthy cycle to get out of the game periodically (every few years) when you find someone worthwhile. You can't just chase ass for 40 uninterrupted years. It's nice to put together something meaningful somewhere in-between. The key is to only do it for the right people and to get out when things start to go South.

[jfree]

(02-04-2011 06:51 PM)truedat Wrote:  

Just remember all woman are sneaky hoes. The best you could hope for is a 5% sneaky ass hoe vs. the more common 80-100%. I have a rule, if she doesent go to church 2 times a week put her in the 80% category.

I beg to differ. I'm not sure what kind of girls you surround yourself with. But from my experience, smart/positive/open-minded girls who've had fairly happy and grounded childhoods generally (always exceptions) show loyalty qualities even when you don't want it when under the "love" brain chemical brew.

Of course, when that brew wears off or they had some abuse growing up...all bets are off.

[jfree]

(02-04-2011 08:25 PM)jfree Wrote:  

(02-04-2011 06:51 PM)truedat Wrote:  

Just remember all woman are sneaky hoes. The best you could hope for is a 5% sneaky ass hoe vs. the more common 80-100%. I have a rule, if she doesent go to church 2 times a week put her in the 80% category.

I beg to differ. I'm not sure what kind of girls you surround yourself with. But from my experience, smart/positive/open-minded girls who've had fairly happy and grounded childhoods generally (always exceptions) show loyalty qualities even when you don't want it when under the "love" brain chemical brew.

Of course, when that brew wears off or they had some abuse growing up...all bets are off.

Annecdotally, a couple of the easiest and slutty/cheating girls I dated (not necessarily bad for a very short time fling) were girls repressed by family/church who were allowed to get away for a while - one being a pastor's daughter and all. So I don't think church is necessarily a lock for not being a sneaky hoe.