I am going to put up 2 excerpts.
One describing the nice guy and the other describing the bad boy. then I am going to put another excerpt of a woman explaining how she fell in love with a nice guy that happened to be a narcissist.
ok here is the 1st one:
"When you meet a really attractive woman you become unduly obsessed with her, convincing yourself that she’s “the one” when you don’t even know her yet. This intense focus of attention will only make her realize that you’re superficial (you don’t even know the real her yet) and that you’re really creepy.
The “bad boy” allows her to convince him of her worth, thereby helping her to feel she’s “earned” his attention and affection, and she will ultimately find him more rewarding to be around."
OK now here is the 2nd one:
"The person begins the relationship by saying that they know that you are the "one." This can commonly feel way too good to be true and happen far too fast. Remember when Mom told you that anything that seems to good to be true really is? She was right. At the same time though, they will mention, setting you up for the next cycle of mean, that they are unsure. That way, they can flip it all around and accuse you of what they did. Remember, it's all about power for these sickos.
They might also say that you are "the best." They might buy flowers and shower you with gifts. This is to make you think that they are the best. You will be naturally drawn to them and feel cozy and loved. You might reciprocate and tell them that they are as well. Try stopping suddenly and watch how they react. If they get mad and tell you that a compliment should be reciprocated, just ignore them and leave. Take note though. Many will actually show signs on the face of deceit. In case you are not able to note those signs, here is some help. They will have a smirk on their face as they build you up. They might even slip and laugh as they say it. All of that is a sign of deceit. They are literally laughing at your stupidity. They are already getting a charge from making you feel like an idiot while they gain power.
They are too close too quickly. These people will always call too much and too often. You might notice that you have so much contact from them that you can't get your work done. They also keep you up late at night. When you say that you need to sleep, they tell you that you are an abuser for demanding sleep. This is part of another cycle that comes after the brainwashing. That cycle is about destroying your community of friends and your reputation. Again, this is all for power. When someone is dominating your life, put the emergency brake in place. Get out before it's too late."
The narcissistic behaviour sounds exactly like the kind of thing that "nice guys" do. and yet they don't get pussy. How come?
How come bad boys who act nice to get a woman's attention and nice guys who use the same techniques differ in pussy rating? how come nice guys get less?
Maybe the title of this thread should be "Are Nice Guys Closet Narcissists"
One describing the nice guy and the other describing the bad boy. then I am going to put another excerpt of a woman explaining how she fell in love with a nice guy that happened to be a narcissist.
ok here is the 1st one:
"When you meet a really attractive woman you become unduly obsessed with her, convincing yourself that she’s “the one” when you don’t even know her yet. This intense focus of attention will only make her realize that you’re superficial (you don’t even know the real her yet) and that you’re really creepy.
The “bad boy” allows her to convince him of her worth, thereby helping her to feel she’s “earned” his attention and affection, and she will ultimately find him more rewarding to be around."
OK now here is the 2nd one:
"The person begins the relationship by saying that they know that you are the "one." This can commonly feel way too good to be true and happen far too fast. Remember when Mom told you that anything that seems to good to be true really is? She was right. At the same time though, they will mention, setting you up for the next cycle of mean, that they are unsure. That way, they can flip it all around and accuse you of what they did. Remember, it's all about power for these sickos.
They might also say that you are "the best." They might buy flowers and shower you with gifts. This is to make you think that they are the best. You will be naturally drawn to them and feel cozy and loved. You might reciprocate and tell them that they are as well. Try stopping suddenly and watch how they react. If they get mad and tell you that a compliment should be reciprocated, just ignore them and leave. Take note though. Many will actually show signs on the face of deceit. In case you are not able to note those signs, here is some help. They will have a smirk on their face as they build you up. They might even slip and laugh as they say it. All of that is a sign of deceit. They are literally laughing at your stupidity. They are already getting a charge from making you feel like an idiot while they gain power.
They are too close too quickly. These people will always call too much and too often. You might notice that you have so much contact from them that you can't get your work done. They also keep you up late at night. When you say that you need to sleep, they tell you that you are an abuser for demanding sleep. This is part of another cycle that comes after the brainwashing. That cycle is about destroying your community of friends and your reputation. Again, this is all for power. When someone is dominating your life, put the emergency brake in place. Get out before it's too late."
The narcissistic behaviour sounds exactly like the kind of thing that "nice guys" do. and yet they don't get pussy. How come?
How come bad boys who act nice to get a woman's attention and nice guys who use the same techniques differ in pussy rating? how come nice guys get less?
Maybe the title of this thread should be "Are Nice Guys Closet Narcissists"