I'm a quite social person who has no problem at all to cold approach and make conversation. The problem is that I sometimes get insecure if the girl shows interest..
For example, I speak with a group of girls and after a while I compliment the girl I fancy and she blushes and says thanks or just another situation when the girl suddenly seems to be receptive for a move. Now I suppose that a try for a kiss would be appropriate, if it doesn't work out at least you showed that you tried.
What I sometimes do is that I get insecure, think what to do, maybe continue to talk a little and maybe move a little closer to her and by the time I am about to do something she has shut down having seen how long I wait and my insecurity.
The funny thing is that I have no problem to try to make a move if it's a long shot while if I think that I might have a reasonable chance I might get insecure..at least in some situations. It's easier if our heads are already close, then it doesn't feel like such a move..
Anyone knows any strategy that might help in reducing the insecurity or fear?
For example, I speak with a group of girls and after a while I compliment the girl I fancy and she blushes and says thanks or just another situation when the girl suddenly seems to be receptive for a move. Now I suppose that a try for a kiss would be appropriate, if it doesn't work out at least you showed that you tried.
What I sometimes do is that I get insecure, think what to do, maybe continue to talk a little and maybe move a little closer to her and by the time I am about to do something she has shut down having seen how long I wait and my insecurity.
The funny thing is that I have no problem to try to make a move if it's a long shot while if I think that I might have a reasonable chance I might get insecure..at least in some situations. It's easier if our heads are already close, then it doesn't feel like such a move..
Anyone knows any strategy that might help in reducing the insecurity or fear?