So, I met this girl (exchange student here for a few months) at a party. We met a couple of times. And we went on two dates.
Also, she has some slut signs, including a few piercings.
First date, her tongue was acting out because of a recent piercing (ha), and I didn't try to kiss her, but did escalate physically a bit. Second date, I tried to kiss her before leaving, but it didn't quite get there. Also, she mentioned that she was on her period and didn't want to walk too long, and we sat at a coffee shop earlier than I had planned.
I can tell she's into me, and there's lots of IOIs, but I feel like she's toying with me, and using me as a last resort. Maybe she has a bf back home, or is seeing somebody else here, and weighing her options. Or maybe she's actually not very slutty and likes to take her time.
Our conversations did turn toward sex a couple of times. For e.g, when setting up the first date, she threw a shit test and suggested I bring some friends so we can do something together. I promptly said no, that it's just gonna be me and her. Positive reaction from her after this. During the 2nd date, she brought that up again. So I tried to ignore it, and she seemed to expect an answer. I said "I'm not even banging you yet and you wanna meet my friends? That's a step away from asking to meet my family after having just met. C'mon woman..."
So...some strong IOIs and slut signs here and there, but I really don't know what's up. I have a feeling that if she saw me making out with some chick, she might loosen up a tad. On that note, when we met at parties, I definitely had some minor DHV (girls hugging me, know a bunch of people, saw me having a good time, etc).
Ideally, I should have other girls I am dating, in which case, all of the above wouldn't be an issue. But I don't have any other strong leads at this point.
What do you make of this? Forget about it, approach a bunch, date other girls? Frankly, I'm at a point where I really do not care about women beyond sex. I genuinely do not feel any emotional attachment.
Thanks.
Also, she has some slut signs, including a few piercings.
First date, her tongue was acting out because of a recent piercing (ha), and I didn't try to kiss her, but did escalate physically a bit. Second date, I tried to kiss her before leaving, but it didn't quite get there. Also, she mentioned that she was on her period and didn't want to walk too long, and we sat at a coffee shop earlier than I had planned.
I can tell she's into me, and there's lots of IOIs, but I feel like she's toying with me, and using me as a last resort. Maybe she has a bf back home, or is seeing somebody else here, and weighing her options. Or maybe she's actually not very slutty and likes to take her time.
Our conversations did turn toward sex a couple of times. For e.g, when setting up the first date, she threw a shit test and suggested I bring some friends so we can do something together. I promptly said no, that it's just gonna be me and her. Positive reaction from her after this. During the 2nd date, she brought that up again. So I tried to ignore it, and she seemed to expect an answer. I said "I'm not even banging you yet and you wanna meet my friends? That's a step away from asking to meet my family after having just met. C'mon woman..."
So...some strong IOIs and slut signs here and there, but I really don't know what's up. I have a feeling that if she saw me making out with some chick, she might loosen up a tad. On that note, when we met at parties, I definitely had some minor DHV (girls hugging me, know a bunch of people, saw me having a good time, etc).
Ideally, I should have other girls I am dating, in which case, all of the above wouldn't be an issue. But I don't have any other strong leads at this point.
What do you make of this? Forget about it, approach a bunch, date other girls? Frankly, I'm at a point where I really do not care about women beyond sex. I genuinely do not feel any emotional attachment.
Thanks.