[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

(04-24-2014 11:50 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I'm not sure what to make of any of this but what black women have in their favor:

1) They age very well.

2) Black women respect and want masculine men.

3) Few black women are angry feminists.

On the STD and out of wedlock kids stats, I think you have a lot of hoodrats disproportionately skewing the numbers. The fertility rate of educated black women is actually lower than the rate for white american women,
rivalling some of the lowest rates of women. Which is a damn shame because the smartest blank women are not breeding while the hoodrats have 4 kids by different dads.

Anyway, I don't think that STD stuff applies to the educated ones. And most all those divorces are between black men and black women. I think the reason behind this emanates from the precarious position of the black man. Black women earn more than black men and that really causes friction.

Finally - a balanced view

[tawillionaire]

(04-24-2014 11:50 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I'm not sure what to make of any of this but what black women have in their favor:

1) They age very well.

2) Black women respect and want masculine men.

3) Few black women are angry feminists.

On the STD and out of wedlock kids stats, I think you have a lot of hoodrats disproportionately skewing the numbers. The fertility rate of educated black women is actually lower than the rate for white american women,
rivalling some of the lowest rates of women. Which is a damn shame because the smartest blank women are not breeding while the hoodrats have 4 kids by different dads.

Anyway, I don't think that STD stuff applies to the educated ones. And most all those divorces are between black men and black women. I think the reason behind this emanates from the precarious position of the black man. Black women earn more than black men and that really causes friction.

Rationally this all makes sense... but my dick gets harder for white girls.

[Mujeriego]

(04-24-2014 09:15 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

they don't shit test me or give me crap! They act all girly. After hearing all of the crap they put black guys through, i've been tempted to stay far away. It's cool, but super strange.

I've had the same experience. The black girls I've dated or hooked up with have all been super feminine and well behaved. My black friends seem to catch hell from black women and I can't figure out why they are so much more agreeable with me. I have noticed that I attract the non-hoodrat black girls so it could be a self selecting bias at play.

[RXB]

Hoodrats and non-hoodrats are night and day. It's like comparing white girls from Santa Monica to white girls from a trailer park in Missouri.

Also, most black girls who aren't hoodrats get completely overlooked by guys. There's a black chick who models that I know, and she gets a quarter of the attention from guys that white girls do.

[General Stalin]

I recently went on a few dates with a really good looking, intelligent, non-hoodrat black girl and blew it because I was too much of a horndog for her. Pushed too hard for sex and scared her away. This is an isolated experience but of the handful of white girls I have smashed, ONS'd, and same-night-banged on the 1st date over the past couple months - this reserved cute black girl stood out like a sore thumb. Totally LTR material.

[eradicator]

First off, don't get married.

Why would you limit yourself to one specific type of race? If you are hot for each other and mesh well as far in a relationship, count yourself lucky, and enjoy.

[Mentavious]

Pre 25 I struggled with black chicks as they always gave me a hard time

Post 25 now they throw themselves at me.

At some point if you're a black man with his shit together then you're at the top 10%

You guys need to think about church game. These large churches have hundreds of single black women in them. I picked up a Nigerian beauty recently from a well known church in Detroit.

White, black, Asian..it doesn't matter. No bitch shields when in church so if you sit down next to one they won't suspect a thing. Just into rustics yourself after the service ends or mingle with people.

I've had moms, aunts, etc put me on blind dates. Just don't be the average mofo out there.

[DVY]

Oh to answer, I could never marry a black chick. My dad would disown me. Not a joke. Racism is alive and well for marriage.

[Blackmagic]

I struggled with black American women up until I was about 27, and really thought that moving to Atlanta I would find one to wife up. Been here for a little less than 2 years and I'm more disillusioned with them than ever for a lot of the reasons already mentioned.

Maybe there's something different about the interracial vibe because all of the white women I've dated have treated me well. I guess that's where OP is coming from? The only black chicks I've spent more than a few nights with were Caribbean or African and they're really the only ones worth your time.

[pitt]

(04-25-2014 07:29 PM)Blackmagic Wrote:  

I struggled with black American women up until I was about 27, and really thought that moving to Atlanta I would find one to wife up. Been here for a little less than 2 years and I'm more disillusioned with them than ever for a lot of the reasons already mentioned.

Maybe there's something different about the interracial vibe because all of the white women I've dated have treated me well. I guess that's where OP is coming from? The only black chicks I've spent more than a few nights with were Caribbean or African and they're really the only ones worth your time.

What's up with the black women in ATL? Care to break down what's wrong with them? I really want to know because I am planning to visit ATL in the future.

[rudebwoy]

In my limited experience with sisters, I would say a lot of them don't have expectations about marriage like their white counterparts.
If the parents are still together it is a big deal, but I can assure you it won't be a perfect marriage. Then again which marriage is.
So I would somewhat agree that they would make better wives and they age well. The trouble is too find a decent one, then again I have never been to Texas or Georgia.

[Hotwheels]

(04-25-2014 06:20 PM)DVY Wrote:  

Oh to answer, I could never marry a black chick. My dad would disown me. Not a joke. Racism is alive and well for marriage.

My dad actually told me exactly that 20 years ago while we were at a saloon.

Then wanted me to get with the Asian bartender. She was good to go.

Go figure.

[speakeasy]

(04-25-2014 09:23 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(04-25-2014 06:20 PM)DVY Wrote:  

Oh to answer, I could never marry a black chick. My dad would disown me. Not a joke. Racism is alive and well for marriage.

My dad actually told me exactly that 20 years ago while we were at a saloon.

Then wanted me to get with the Asian bartender. She was good to go.

Go figure.

Never understood that disowning kids over the color of their fiancee. It's insanity to me. Coming from a family where my parents don't give a fuck what I was with, it's not something I can even remotely relate to. If my dad told me he'd disown me if I married a non-black girl, I'd tell him to fuck off. Sure, go ahead and disown me if I went on a rampage and shot 10 random people sure, but disown me over something that harms no one?

[Yatagan]

From my experience here in south fl, most black chicks I've encountered(of which there aren't too many in my city) aren't even fit to date, let alone marry. In terms of looks, (masculine) demeanor,obesity and culture, they're just unappealing.

Things would be different if there Stacey Dash types around here but by the looks of things I have a higher chance of finding bigfoot.

[speakeasy]

Couldn't resist...

[Kizman]

I suggest going to East Africa or the Caribbean for dark-skinned sistas.

[game_ethic]

Source: http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2011/...ef=us&_r=0

[Beyond Borders]

(04-24-2014 10:50 PM)kosko Wrote:  

(04-24-2014 09:43 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

A lot of my black friends don't even like black AMERICAN women.

I Fixed that for you McQueen.

African-American women are terrible. Nobody wants them because they are mouthy and rude. They are bottom feeders for Black women and most people only get exposed to African-American women or some poor 2-tooth women in a dust bowl in Africa in a National Geographic. The first thing that crosses their mind is "Damn Black women are beat"... its a juxtaposition of fat loud whales and poverty victims that isn't reality. Go and try to find beauty queens in poor bumfuck West Virgina, poverty is a ugly thing, and it ruins women anywhere is creeps up. So because of that African/Black women get a bad rap because most people just don't see how diverse the selection is, and how you can find the same level of class and pedigree among Black women as any other kind. When you compare it on a even level, they have a lot to offer, especially for a LTR and prospects for trying to slow things down.

Many White brothers if they re-settle or re-marry go for a Black bride because of the many perks it offers...

Chill Factor:
Black women are way more chill. I never understood why African-American women are so loud and tense. Black women have chill vibes and like to have a good time. African-American women love to be loud and brash and cause scenes, the typical Black female is more conservative and reserved. If they aren't completely westernized they will have more classic views on being feminine and a good mother and wife. The majority outside of America are traditionalists and have pedigree and a lot to bring to the table. Most of the Black women I know here in Canada if they don't drink the BET kool-aid are just chilling in school, and go smoke shisha or go to a club to dance once in a while. They will largely spend their weekends with the girlfriends just chilling. Most are on the conservative side from their upbringings of their fathers keeping the clamp down on their daughters.

Sex Factor:
Yeah...White women are sluts in bed, but Black women know how to fuck.. there is a big difference. Yeah sure a western white girl well let you cum in her eye and in her ass... cool... but that gets boring quick... while a Black women will work her hips till you break your headboard while shes grinding on top...


Plus, she will keep the same energy and hunger for sex as you. White women pussies go cold quicker, and she will be moaning for you both to do weird shit just to get her off ..."Honey go get the cucumber, the feathers, and the lube". Seeing a past her due date white woman try to cum is like seeing a old Model-T trying to crank start.

The biggest complaint I hear from older men in the swinging scene that found the light and swooped younger Black women, is that their old white wives got fat and didn't want to fuck any more, and they felt it was a raw deal and they couldn't deal with it. Black women are more kinky and open-minded sexually. This real kink factor trumps the fake pornstar shit that western white girls put on, its all a act, they burn out of that shit quickly and have dead pussies after the fact. Many of the couples in the swinging scene are interracial or Black, this isn't by luck or chance. Black women enjoy sex and pleasing their men through sex, and are willing to experiment in a honest manner. Hell, most times they just want to see their man fuck another girl and that's good enough for them.. I kid you not.

Longevity Factor:
Black women also age better which is something huge to consider. If your looking to do the LTR and settle shit once, you will understand that she will look better when she is 35 and 40, onwards, then 90% of all white women who start to fall of the rails at 30.

Try and guess who is 42 years old and whom is 32:



Its always been my view that Asian and Black women age the best. They look younger then their age will into their 40s and can stay tight and lean also even after having kids.

The Source:
Things you also have to take into account are where your sourcing your Black women from. African-American women are by a majority loud and fat and are at the bottom of the heap for Black women. My African-American brothers won't even marry those beasts, why would anybody else? You will find some of the best looking ones for sure in America, but they are as much in the western stew as the rest of the women in America. All American women are by default a lesser grade then the rest of the women around the world.

If you are serious about Black women you go to the Caribbean, Brazil, The high-end/middle class scenes in Africa, or Europe. There you will find classy, traditional, and refined Black women whom aren't tainted with the Western mindset. SE Asia has a ton of Black women whom are doing school there and you have a concentrated area in which to hunt as they will all be students.

European Black girls are classy and refined not like the loud American ones. I will likely do my hunting there when my time comes....

African women are so diverse also. Any dude can find a corner of the globe that he will find a Nubian broad that will cast his boner to stone..

Fuck American broads. Why chase a dumpy American women when you can hunt all that above around the globe?

In the end it isn't crazy to consider. I am open to settling down with anything but I will at least attempt to lock down a Black woman from abroad. I want a woman that is traditional, has class, pedigree, and will age well. Black women fit this criteria worldwide. It just takes some effort and digging to find the right spot/niche that your looking for.

Sold.

(04-26-2014 01:39 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

Couldn't resist...

Fuck...

Hook, line, and sinker.

[pitt]

(04-26-2014 08:28 AM)game_ethic Wrote:  


Source: http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2011/...ef=us&_r=0

Now I am understanding why blacks from the USA don't consider blacks from south america to be blacks. So blacks hispanics and blacks from the USA are two different races? It can't get more ignorant than that.

[internet alpha]

The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Women are still women. Any race can get fat, cheat on you, cuckold your ass and divorce rape you.

[TonySandos]

(04-25-2014 07:29 PM)Blackmagic Wrote:  

I struggled with black American women up until I was about 27, and really thought that moving to Atlanta I would find one to wife up. Been here for a little less than 2 years and I'm more disillusioned with them than ever for a lot of the reasons already mentioned.

Maybe there's something different about the interracial vibe because all of the white women I've dated have treated me well. I guess that's where OP is coming from? The only black chicks I've spent more than a few nights with were Caribbean or African and they're really the only ones worth your time.

I've heard terrible things about Atlanta time and time again. It seems to be the home base for tacky, promiscuous, hoodrat, drugged up, feminist, hippy-hipster congregation of black women. Texas and California are usually hyped up in conversation on black women. I don't know about California, but Texas women of all brands seem more subdued.

[rudebwoy]

Kosko - Damn dude you have been going Jordan on this forum lately.
You make me put my head down in shame for dating white women.
The Britney pic is airbrushed to make matters worse, in her weak defense she does have two kids.

[MidniteSpecial]

I love black women and they love me. I would have a kid with one before I married though. I'm trying to spawn the next Derek Jeter you feel me?

[Blackmagic]

All of the top tier black American chicks, in terms of looks, come through Atlanta at some point in their late teens and 20s for work, school, or partying. A lot of them are stuck on that Love & Hip Hop or Real Housewives of Atlanta lifestyle and end up getting dicked down by the drug dealers and entertainers/athletes that are always in the city flashing cash at a club. By the time they wise up in their late 20s, a lot of them have at least one kid by mistake. The cute ones that were lucky enough to never get knocked up try to keep the party going into their 30s when they're finally ready to find a guy to settle down with and provide that Real Housewives type of lifestyle- sounds familiar, right? Also, there are a lot of pseudo religious "good girls" that are out getting wasted, twerking, and sucking dick on Saturday night and in church Sunday morning claiming to be holier than thou. They tend to conveniently find religion after their first kid or two.

In a city where women claim half the black dudes are gay, it's amazing how many good looking, educated, straight black guys with their shit together are hugged up on non black women. I don't think it's necessarily a preference for these guys, but they just get tired of putting up with all the bullshit from their own women. Maybe my expectations of what I would find in a LTR worthy chick here were too high, but there is a lot of eye candy, the cost of living is low, and the women are definitely willing to spread their legs.

[DjembaDjemba]

Some sexy ass black girls here in Canada, straight from the source (Africa, Caribbean).

I see lot of white brothers here in the prairies dating black hotties. I've been neglecting the sisters for years due to circumstance (logistics). Been living in artsy hipster parts of every town I've been, the primary wildlife being white/artsy hipsters with ugly tattoos and...more ugly tattoos. My steady diet of hipster trash for the past 8 years.

But lately the glistening dark skin has been making my nuts tingle.

I'm liking the Ethiopians, and the feeling is mutual, but they seem a bit closed off and conservative.