I am finally matching up with a few attractive girls on Tinder- just when I had about given up hope. I see the "what should I text next thread" is kind of dying, and most scenarios are not getting suggestions. Regardless, Tinder is a different world as all attractions and comfort need to be build from scratch through essentially text messages. I'm talking to a sexy Latina here in GDL who, based on pics, I'd consider a 9 (I'm still crappy at embedding, but if there's interest in this thread I'll figure it out.)
[Just as soon as I break my dry spell I'll make a sincere effort to contribute to the knowledge-base of this forum, but will feel I'm full of shit if I do that now. So forgive my taking more than giving for now]
Basically I feel that I jumped the gun a bit. Is there any saving it? Before you call me beta in my style, notice that it was working until I went for the meetup logistics..
Me: Wow _____ you are stunning, and poetic. Where are you from.
Her: Hahaha, why do you say that? I live here in GDL, where r you from?
Me: Your long hair, smile, eyes... Hermosa! I'm from Colorado, been here a month. What about your small town before GDL?
Her: haha I was born in a small beach town called mazatlan, in the northwest of the country.
Her: How long are you gonna stay here?
Me: I spent a day in Mazatlan, on the drive here. It is beautiful, I'd like to visit again. I will live here for at least a year, maybe longer.
Her: What do you do?
Me: I'm a teacher at _____ Have you heard of it?
Her: Yes
Her: Nice
Me: ___ grade. It is fun, my kids are adorable! Why did you move here from Mazatlan?
Her: College
Her: I almost finish it
Me: Cool, what are you studying?
Her: Communications and digital media
Me: That's interesting, and you can be creative. What is a passion of yours? One of mine is motocross, as you can see.
Her: Disney
Her: Haha
Her: I'm really looking forward to go back to Florida and do another internship
Her: Working there or for the company in Burbank is a huge dream for me
Her: I also like ice skating and music, haha
Me: I can imagine it would be a wonderful job. I always liked the Lion King soundtrack, and movie also What are your favorite genres of music?
Her: Soft rock, 80s music, jazz
Her: Classical music
Her: I'm such an old lady haha
Her: What about you?
Me: I'd just add some country to that list, and it's mine. There's a great jazz lounge with live music near me. My fav classical composer it Gustav Holst, and yours?
Her: Tchaikovsky
Her: And Beethoven
Her: Where is near you?
Me: ____________. The jazz lounge is called __________.. And Russia has produced some great composers.
Her: Is a nice area. I've never heard of that place hahaha
Her: I'm going to bed, and you should too
Her: Ttyl
Her: XO
Me: Ok, buenas noches. xo
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Her: Hi
Me: Hola magnifica. How is your day going?
Her: Great how's yours
Me: Very good. Later I am going to a social group where people chat and practice English and Spanish, at a lounge on _____. Want to join?
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Any way to salvage this? I know I should wait, probably until tomorrow. Hence I am making this thread. I am thinking some kind of teasing or push/pull related to Disney, or maybe the old lady comment. How's about....
"I'll take you on a magic carpet ride, you'll be Beauty and I'll be the beast, but first I need to know if I'm dealing with a Cinderella or a wicked step sister."
Or maybe that is still to forward and would remind her of the plans she didn't respond to.
Thoughts? Hopefully others can get help/suggestions for Tinder as well.
[Just as soon as I break my dry spell I'll make a sincere effort to contribute to the knowledge-base of this forum, but will feel I'm full of shit if I do that now. So forgive my taking more than giving for now]
Basically I feel that I jumped the gun a bit. Is there any saving it? Before you call me beta in my style, notice that it was working until I went for the meetup logistics..
Me: Wow _____ you are stunning, and poetic. Where are you from.
Her: Hahaha, why do you say that? I live here in GDL, where r you from?
Me: Your long hair, smile, eyes... Hermosa! I'm from Colorado, been here a month. What about your small town before GDL?
Her: haha I was born in a small beach town called mazatlan, in the northwest of the country.
Her: How long are you gonna stay here?
Me: I spent a day in Mazatlan, on the drive here. It is beautiful, I'd like to visit again. I will live here for at least a year, maybe longer.
Her: What do you do?
Me: I'm a teacher at _____ Have you heard of it?
Her: Yes
Her: Nice
Me: ___ grade. It is fun, my kids are adorable! Why did you move here from Mazatlan?
Her: College
Her: I almost finish it
Me: Cool, what are you studying?
Her: Communications and digital media
Me: That's interesting, and you can be creative. What is a passion of yours? One of mine is motocross, as you can see.
Her: Disney
Her: Haha
Her: I'm really looking forward to go back to Florida and do another internship
Her: Working there or for the company in Burbank is a huge dream for me
Her: I also like ice skating and music, haha
Me: I can imagine it would be a wonderful job. I always liked the Lion King soundtrack, and movie also What are your favorite genres of music?
Her: Soft rock, 80s music, jazz
Her: Classical music
Her: I'm such an old lady haha
Her: What about you?
Me: I'd just add some country to that list, and it's mine. There's a great jazz lounge with live music near me. My fav classical composer it Gustav Holst, and yours?
Her: Tchaikovsky
Her: And Beethoven
Her: Where is near you?
Me: ____________. The jazz lounge is called __________.. And Russia has produced some great composers.
Her: Is a nice area. I've never heard of that place hahaha
Her: I'm going to bed, and you should too
Her: Ttyl
Her: XO
Me: Ok, buenas noches. xo
---------------------------------(next day)------------------
Her: Hi
Me: Hola magnifica. How is your day going?
Her: Great how's yours
Me: Very good. Later I am going to a social group where people chat and practice English and Spanish, at a lounge on _____. Want to join?
------------------------------------(dead air)----------------------
Any way to salvage this? I know I should wait, probably until tomorrow. Hence I am making this thread. I am thinking some kind of teasing or push/pull related to Disney, or maybe the old lady comment. How's about....
"I'll take you on a magic carpet ride, you'll be Beauty and I'll be the beast, but first I need to know if I'm dealing with a Cinderella or a wicked step sister."
Or maybe that is still to forward and would remind her of the plans she didn't respond to.
Thoughts? Hopefully others can get help/suggestions for Tinder as well.