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04-22-2014, 11:42 PM
It's a lose/lose situation. If you go see her, you lose all your frame and you're at the mercy of her inviting you to go back to her place. If you try to get her to meet you, it won't happen because girls don't wanna work that hard.
Change your settings.
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04-23-2014, 02:34 AM
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04-23-2014, 10:17 AM
Put her on the backburner, Play her like she is sitting on the end of the bench; 3rd stringer
Build comfort via text/phone/Skype
Tell her since there's some much distance/bad traffic that a quick meet up wouldn't be "worth the effort" on both your parts, instead you want to make an evening of it.
When comfort level is secure and she is warmed up invite her over for an weekend evening of drinks/grub/movie (Plausible Deniability) She's older and most times these chicks appreciate a gesture like this, and will be down to come to your crib if you hold a consistent frame. Because women her age have so much stiff online competition from women half their age, her date calendar will have "holes" in it and you can catch them lonely and vulnerable.
* Set it up around 7:30/8pm, just after traditional dinner time but "early" enough where she won't have to do a lot of night driving (take away the excuse) but just late enough where when she gets faded/comfortable that same distance will either prompt her to a) stay over b) stay long enough to get fucked
Again - Low priority, Only execute this plan during "slow" gaming periods
MDP
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04-23-2014, 12:09 PM
Most of the time I've planned on meeting a girl on tinder and driving out to her it's usually flaked on or I'm dissapointed. You 2 could meet halfway, neutral territory and build up some rapport I suppose. Best way to do it is build attraction/comfort then have her come down.
Idk, personally I'd just move on and next her. Ain't worth all that effort to me, and there are so many damn girls on Tinder !
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04-23-2014, 02:58 PM
Might be a time to try out the flippant response text game, using something like "lame", "gay", "unsubscribe" or even "...".
Might engender a nasty response, but at this point you've nothing to lose.
On the other hand, might get her qualifying herself to you, which would be good.
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05-02-2014, 11:33 AM
I figured I'd start here:
Tinder girl never met her, exchanged pics, nothing nude yet.
We've both been pretty busy (work schedules were a problem)
She live in LA in OC (about an 45-60 minute drive)
She's already giving a bunch of LMR, keeps bringing up not having sex with me.
Logistics are pretty bad...I'd be at her mercy since I'd be going out to see her.
Read the text convo.....should I say:
"look you don't even sound like you want to hangout so forget it"
-no response-
OR
Should I throw a hellmary and see if I get the bang ? (Divestment is running through my mind though)
This sounds like a bit shit test to see if I'll come over without having sex....
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05-02-2014, 11:57 AM
Am a beginner so I'll leave advice on your next steps to the more seasoned guys but I just want to point out that girls know that Tinders a fuck app. IMO, theres no need to talk about sex. Keep things funny, built comfort. The bang is inevitable.
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05-02-2014, 12:59 PM
Her hamster is mind blowing - didn't even bother responding, I'm over it, next:
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05-02-2014, 01:18 PM
^ Your situation is a bit different than the one in the OP. "I'm not sleeping with you" means she definitely wants to sleep with you
I would feel it out to see if she has roommates. If not, you can meet her by her place.
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05-02-2014, 01:46 PM
I'm in LA. My prospect is in OC. We should swap. Easy solution.