[kaotic]

(05-02-2014 02:48 PM)cmrocks Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 02:11 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 01:52 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 01:42 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 01:18 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:  

^ Your situation is a bit different than the one in the OP. "I'm not sleeping with you" means she definitely wants to sleep with you

I would feel it out to see if she has roommates. If not, you can meet her by her place.

Did you read the last text ? She said "i'm flaking" and then suggesting we meet halfway. That's the worst for logistics, I can still push to meet at her pad and go out but at this point the effort doesn't even seem worth it....

In your case I would meet her halfway, but pick a night where she doesn't have to do anything the next day (so she can't use that as an excuse to bail on you). When a girl says she's not going to have sex with you, in my experience that's her way of saying "I'm going to fuck you so lets hang out."

Goddamn you couldn't of been more right, so I was giving her shit (teasing) and she sends this

"I can't now. I freaked myself out. Imma have to take a xanax now that I've put pressure on myself to sleep with you, but not sleep with you. hahahahahha i'll make it up next week, im sorry _emoji faces__ im shitty"

So it's a potential bang since we pushed the subject, now it's all about logistics, but I don't mind meeting her halfway after work the first time, especially if it's not even 2 miles from work( which is halfway between her pad and mine)

I think I'll keep her around till next week, 1 chance, or next.

Personally, I would run fast in the other direction. She better be at 8+ if you're putting up with that kind of shit.

I'd say an 8 body, 7 face. Definently DTF and she lives far away so its a win win if i get the notch.

[Vaughn]

(05-02-2014 11:57 AM)EddieValiant Wrote:  

Am a beginner so I'll leave advice on your next steps to the more seasoned guys but I just want to point out that girls know that Tinders a fuck app.

I dunno about that, see a lot of girl profiles "not looking for a hookup" or "if you're looking for a hookup, swipe left"

[EddieValiant]

That’s the hamster for you. Code for “I’m a 5 dolla hoe. I’ll suck yo dick but I don’t want to make that obvious here.”

Srs tho..I’m not on Tinder but when I was every meet ended in THEIR bedroom..except 2(one of them being a convo fukup on my part). If a girl really wants a relationship from Tinder, something is wrong with the bitch.

[cmrocks]

The "I'm not looking for a hook up" line means nothing most of the time. When I used to online date, most of my ONS would say something along those lines. My favorite is the "we're not having sex tonight" when you already have her half naked. Only had one girl actually not have sex with me after saying that. It was pretty funny actually. We're making out, dry humping etc and she looks at me and says "do you promise not to think I'm a whore?" 30 seconds later, she's blowing me.

[MacGyver]

Since Tinder uses your social graph, I've always suspected that the "not looking for a hookup" line is just there for plausible deniability for times when a family member, coworker, etc. runs across a profile.

Don't give it too much thought. It's not intended for you.

[Renberg]

(05-02-2014 03:02 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 02:48 PM)cmrocks Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 02:11 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 01:52 PM)tawillionaire Wrote:  

(05-02-2014 01:42 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

Did you read the last text ? She said "i'm flaking" and then suggesting we meet halfway. That's the worst for logistics, I can still push to meet at her pad and go out but at this point the effort doesn't even seem worth it....

In your case I would meet her halfway, but pick a night where she doesn't have to do anything the next day (so she can't use that as an excuse to bail on you). When a girl says she's not going to have sex with you, in my experience that's her way of saying "I'm going to fuck you so lets hang out."

Goddamn you couldn't of been more right, so I was giving her shit (teasing) and she sends this

"I can't now. I freaked myself out. Imma have to take a xanax now that I've put pressure on myself to sleep with you, but not sleep with you. hahahahahha i'll make it up next week, im sorry _emoji faces__ im shitty"

So it's a potential bang since we pushed the subject, now it's all about logistics, but I don't mind meeting her halfway after work the first time, especially if it's not even 2 miles from work( which is halfway between her pad and mine)

I think I'll keep her around till next week, 1 chance, or next.

Personally, I would run fast in the other direction. She better be at 8+ if you're putting up with that kind of shit.

I'd say an 8 body, 7 face. Definently DTF and she lives far away so its a win win if i get the notch.

The psychosis + the poor grammar would be enough for me to drop her...that is unless she's smoking. This one's on you.

My question goes hand-in-hand with Kaotic's. See, if I'm going to meet up on Tinder, I would travel to the girl since I live with my family and quickly banging would not be an option given my living situation. Can I travel to the girl and be equally as alpha? I'm assuming the answer is yes, but only if I hold my frame, come off as a player, and act like I'm doing it because I like driving, not to see her.

-R