I am a 20 year old college junior football player who recently took a girl out. This girl has liked me since our freshman year and she would always smile at me walking around campus (before we each others names). The beginning of the term she even introduced to her best friend. I asked her to go with me to our football formal. Also, I asked her to dinner because only alcohol would be served. This was the first date that I ever went on and I am a virgin. So, dinner went well and the conversion flowed well despite the fact that I was nervous. I ate perfectly (used a knife and fork) on the boneless buffalo wings.
Next, we head to the venue and get drinks. The conversion goes well there also. She is really enjoying herself (Attached is a photo) and my friend wants us to go to another venue. Also, all of my teammates were shocked that I landed her. She is very attractive as you can see. Anyway, I paid for dinner, 3 cab rides, admission to both venues. She insisted that she pay for two beers at the second venue. The problem that arouse at the second venue was another teammate (not at the first venue) came in and started gaming her. I froze and did not know how to act. At first, she said to me, "I have known this guy since I was seven and he is crazy." I did not know what to make of that so I let it go. He came by her about ten different times that night and she kept denying him. Stupidly, due to my lack of inexperience, I felt that they were just talking about their childhood.
Next, he grabbed her arm and tried to run with her out of the place and she refused. Ten minutes later, her one female asked her to leave with her and we left. The problem was that the kid jumped into the van and claimed he was just going home. At the time, I thought he lived in the same complex because he got out when she exited. My date hugged and kissed me on the cheek and said she had a fun time. One week passed by and I asked her to meet in a cafe at school to say good-bye for the term. She agreed and I was ten minutes late and she still stayed. This spring term she is studying in Australia so I told a funny joke about Aussies and wished her a good break. I stupidly asked her if she wanted to come to a fourth of july party on the jersey shore and she said maybe but that it conflicts with her brother's bday.
One month later, I called her a left a voicemail on her phone asking her how her Christmas went and that I had a funny story to tell her. She never returned my call. My question to you is: Clearly, she thinks I'm a pushover, but is it possible to win her back in fall 2011? If so, aside from ignoring her and banging other women, what steps should I take from now until August to attract her again? Thank you for taking the time and effort to help along my gaming path. Have a good rest of the day.
PS: I am kicking myself for not preparing myself more before this date. If I had read "Bang," I would have acted more decisively at the second venue and would not have appeared so needy in the month after.
Next, we head to the venue and get drinks. The conversion goes well there also. She is really enjoying herself (Attached is a photo) and my friend wants us to go to another venue. Also, all of my teammates were shocked that I landed her. She is very attractive as you can see. Anyway, I paid for dinner, 3 cab rides, admission to both venues. She insisted that she pay for two beers at the second venue. The problem that arouse at the second venue was another teammate (not at the first venue) came in and started gaming her. I froze and did not know how to act. At first, she said to me, "I have known this guy since I was seven and he is crazy." I did not know what to make of that so I let it go. He came by her about ten different times that night and she kept denying him. Stupidly, due to my lack of inexperience, I felt that they were just talking about their childhood.
Next, he grabbed her arm and tried to run with her out of the place and she refused. Ten minutes later, her one female asked her to leave with her and we left. The problem was that the kid jumped into the van and claimed he was just going home. At the time, I thought he lived in the same complex because he got out when she exited. My date hugged and kissed me on the cheek and said she had a fun time. One week passed by and I asked her to meet in a cafe at school to say good-bye for the term. She agreed and I was ten minutes late and she still stayed. This spring term she is studying in Australia so I told a funny joke about Aussies and wished her a good break. I stupidly asked her if she wanted to come to a fourth of july party on the jersey shore and she said maybe but that it conflicts with her brother's bday.
One month later, I called her a left a voicemail on her phone asking her how her Christmas went and that I had a funny story to tell her. She never returned my call. My question to you is: Clearly, she thinks I'm a pushover, but is it possible to win her back in fall 2011? If so, aside from ignoring her and banging other women, what steps should I take from now until August to attract her again? Thank you for taking the time and effort to help along my gaming path. Have a good rest of the day.
PS: I am kicking myself for not preparing myself more before this date. If I had read "Bang," I would have acted more decisively at the second venue and would not have appeared so needy in the month after.