Hi
I know its poor form to ask advice about any one girl as it was either Roosh or another blogger who said the moment you ask for advice about one particular girl, it means you are fucked because you care and have invested too much.
This is more about a general situation; I found this post here:
"Act As If Every Girl Is A Slut"
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-30518-...90685.html
There is also the general attitude of always have multiple girls on the go at once and treat them identically.
I've recently met a couple of girls who aren't the typical attention whore talked about on RoK; these girls seem down to earth, seem pretty sweet and feminine. They are from the anglosphere and aren't religious. They haven't even once checked their phone on our dates and reply to texts reasonably quickly.
I'd bet I'm the most inexperienced guy here (never had sex, a girlfriend, you name it) and ever since reading about game, I have been experimenting with being dominant - I told one to come over and to wear a dress and heels (and she did!). It really is eye opening how a girl will respond me when I make demands like that - when I tell my chick friends (yea, sorry), they tell me they can't believe I'm getting away with this - neither can I.
Another example, when we were at a bar having drinks, when I went to the bathroom, when I came back, she was just sitting there waiting for me, looking in the direction of the TV. Most girls these days would be insecurely checking their phone to make themselves appear to be needed somewhere else or updating their facebook status about what an awesome time she is having. This shows me she's pretty comfortable in her own skin.
So my question is, should I treat these down to earth girls like I would with any club slut? Or should I tone it down a bit? I'm prone to one-itis and this is probably a case of "no but this girl is different" etc. I haven't met many 'nice' girls and until I meet one who turns out to be just as bad as the typical attention whore, I think I will continue to suffer from 'this girl will be different!'
TL;DR: should heartiste style hard alpha game be used on every girl (eg text 8====D) because all western anglosphere girls are sluts or should it be adjusted because 'no this girl is different!'?
I know its poor form to ask advice about any one girl as it was either Roosh or another blogger who said the moment you ask for advice about one particular girl, it means you are fucked because you care and have invested too much.
This is more about a general situation; I found this post here:
"Act As If Every Girl Is A Slut"
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-30518-...90685.html
There is also the general attitude of always have multiple girls on the go at once and treat them identically.
I've recently met a couple of girls who aren't the typical attention whore talked about on RoK; these girls seem down to earth, seem pretty sweet and feminine. They are from the anglosphere and aren't religious. They haven't even once checked their phone on our dates and reply to texts reasonably quickly.
I'd bet I'm the most inexperienced guy here (never had sex, a girlfriend, you name it) and ever since reading about game, I have been experimenting with being dominant - I told one to come over and to wear a dress and heels (and she did!). It really is eye opening how a girl will respond me when I make demands like that - when I tell my chick friends (yea, sorry), they tell me they can't believe I'm getting away with this - neither can I.
Another example, when we were at a bar having drinks, when I went to the bathroom, when I came back, she was just sitting there waiting for me, looking in the direction of the TV. Most girls these days would be insecurely checking their phone to make themselves appear to be needed somewhere else or updating their facebook status about what an awesome time she is having. This shows me she's pretty comfortable in her own skin.
So my question is, should I treat these down to earth girls like I would with any club slut? Or should I tone it down a bit? I'm prone to one-itis and this is probably a case of "no but this girl is different" etc. I haven't met many 'nice' girls and until I meet one who turns out to be just as bad as the typical attention whore, I think I will continue to suffer from 'this girl will be different!'
TL;DR: should heartiste style hard alpha game be used on every girl (eg text 8====D) because all western anglosphere girls are sluts or should it be adjusted because 'no this girl is different!'?