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Expectations and Standards.
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Expectations and Standards.

As a recovering beta I have had to come to terms with a lot of the unconscious behaviours and social stigmas that were hammered into me as a young boy up until only recently, my mid twenties.

A few things I had realized, and then researched, is that I must lower my expectations when in a relationship while at the same time have realistic dating standards in relation to my current SMV (sexual market value).

The expectations I had for the women I was dating were too high. When should she respond to my text, who where the other men she was seeing and does she like me enough to see me again.

The expectations I put on myself were unfairly too high. For example, no matter how good I get at game the chances of me closing a beautiful women at 5’9 or taller is close to impossible (I’m 5’6), pending incredible Frame and high social status, to compete with biology and hypergamy is almost a lost cause.

A mans standards should reflect what he values in women and what his current SMV is. Find out what you like in women, cater your game to your current SMV and do NOT date-down in the SMP (sexual market place)

You already know how to increase you SMV or else you wouldn't be reading this forum.

For me I understand all too well that being a short young man can be difficult when picking-up women, therefore, instead of feeling shitty about not being taller or hating on tall women because they can’t see me (figuratively and literally) I now can identify the women I find attractive and target those exclusively, any other use of my attention, in terms of pick-up, is a waste of energy.

I am sure everyone has heard stories about other men who have impregnated a young women only to be forced to pay child support until that child turns eighteen, slept with a random girl only to find out weeks later they have contracted an incurable STI or for whatever reason have had a women publicly or privately shame them or humiliate them, all this, plus other factors, happened because the man had no idea what he was getting himself into. He had NO standards. -dcl
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