I got an email from Rooshv today (I don't know him or anything, just on a mailing list). The subject of the email was, “Stressing out over times you didn't approach”.
Of COURSE I had to read it immediately.
He would go on the talk about being discouraged for not approaching women and gives some examples of situations where women are more than likely open to being approached.
I have NOT approached women during the day more than I HAVE approached women during the day.
So suffice it to say this email was written for men like me.
Cold approaching women on the street during the day is terrifying, unnatural but completely necessary for a young man (like myself) aspiring to find his niche in picking-up and gaming women.
After she has walked on by and you have lost your opportunity to talk to her you may feel some things. Not in any particular order; you may feel disappointed you missed your tiny window to open her, like being embarrassed that you didn't notice her faint, ever-so-slight sociably acceptable eye flirt with you or perhaps you think someone in the vicinity has seen you fail at even attempting to talk to a woman in public. These are only a few and I am sure there are a lot more.
Roosh wrote, “Replay the event in your head and see what you could have done differently.”
Instead of wallowing in shitty feelings that make you not talk to women for the rest of the day try turning your failure into fuel. Similarly, one strategy that I use is a dumbed-down version of Implementation Intentions. Recognize what you did wrong (not approach), Remember the strategies learned on game and pick-up (elderly-chat game, from Bang) that relate to your problem then simply Repeat that process.
This is how I try and make game strategies part of my unconscious processes. The more and more you keep the cycle of the three R's going the more natural your game can feel. -dcl
Of COURSE I had to read it immediately.
He would go on the talk about being discouraged for not approaching women and gives some examples of situations where women are more than likely open to being approached.
I have NOT approached women during the day more than I HAVE approached women during the day.
So suffice it to say this email was written for men like me.
Cold approaching women on the street during the day is terrifying, unnatural but completely necessary for a young man (like myself) aspiring to find his niche in picking-up and gaming women.
After she has walked on by and you have lost your opportunity to talk to her you may feel some things. Not in any particular order; you may feel disappointed you missed your tiny window to open her, like being embarrassed that you didn't notice her faint, ever-so-slight sociably acceptable eye flirt with you or perhaps you think someone in the vicinity has seen you fail at even attempting to talk to a woman in public. These are only a few and I am sure there are a lot more.
Roosh wrote, “Replay the event in your head and see what you could have done differently.”
Instead of wallowing in shitty feelings that make you not talk to women for the rest of the day try turning your failure into fuel. Similarly, one strategy that I use is a dumbed-down version of Implementation Intentions. Recognize what you did wrong (not approach), Remember the strategies learned on game and pick-up (elderly-chat game, from Bang) that relate to your problem then simply Repeat that process.
This is how I try and make game strategies part of my unconscious processes. The more and more you keep the cycle of the three R's going the more natural your game can feel. -dcl