[Melodramati]

Hi. I am 17 years old and I live in Denmark. Thus far, I have not posted on this forum, but I have posted around on the internet. I am not in a position to give out advice at the moment since I am not even an adult yet. However, I like to follow advice. I am posting in lifestyle since I am much more focused on making my life richer overall (which consistent sex is also a part of) much better than just learning game. So far I have taken some steps, I am strength training with an enthusiasm, I try to do nofap, cold showering I have developed some good friendships with guys who also seek to improve themselves and lift, I am quite popular but I don't have as much success with girls as I would like to, probably because I am afraid of being ostracized which I am working very much on at the moment.
However I am curious to what you older and experienced men would do if you were 17 again or were in my position?

[KC4]

Being 17 again would be awesome. I would have started to doing mma or hitting the gym earlier giving myself a extra year of of workout experience. I would have also stopped being the introverted guy I used to be then. I was very unsocial back then. Would have basically just do what I do now but earlier. Confidence comes from success is what I would say. The more successful you are at whatever craft you are doing the more confidence will show on you. Just keep doing what you but don't give up just strive for what you se as perfection

[Wreckingball]

I would start to either hit the gym with Starting strenght or learn Muay Thai / BJJ
I would also read 3 important books:
48 Laws of Power
Millionaire Fastlane
Bang

and most importantly learn three things
Learn to not give a fuck
Learn to not put women on a pedestal
Learn not to trust women

In my opinion, that would be enough.
Game is more than just getting women. It's a journey of self-development. Women are a by product of your self development.

[Days of Broken Arrows]

1). Scrape together $1000 and put it in a dividend-yielding mutual fund and just leave it there till you're 40.

2). Meet as many people at your school as possible. Transcend the cliques. Popularity = bangs.

3). More doing, less schooling. I've always been a writer but when I was 17-25 felt as if I didn't have enough experience to say what I wanted. Wrong. Youth experiences are important and we now even have Web sites that will only hire young people.

4). The odd, eccentric elements of your youth will become the mainstream of tomorrow. Embrace the weird music and culture. It's more important than you think.

5). Older women might be more into you than you think. Just don't get them pregnant.

6). The way to avoid being ostracized by women in school is finding one or two (or ten) you never plan on dating. Then deliberately "friendzone" yourself with them. That way, you build up trust and a good rep. Then they tell other girls you're really cool -- and those are the girls you date. I did this in high school and it worked. I purposely befriended the most popular girls and was able to date their outer circle because of convenience -- if you get invited to all the parties you become part of the crowd and it's easy to hook up.

7). If you want to meet women, go to where they are. Get a job at a shopping mall in a food place or clothing store. Or even a restaurant. I wish I could do this now, but I'm too old and I'll look like a loser. But when I was younger, these places offered endless opportunity not just to meet women, but to make good guy friends (and mentors if your managers are cool).

8). If you go to college and stay in the dorms, DO NOT get on an all-boys hall. These guys were considered the rejects of the college. Go online and find which dorm has the hottest women/most action and put yourself in the middle of it.

[Sombro]

Hone your talents before chasing tail.

[Bluesexplosion]

Start reading these books: http://www.rooshv.com/10-books-every-man-should-read

Good luck on your path to become a man.

[puckerman]

Almost all of us wish we'd had this stuff at 17. Take the pussy off the pedestal. Find your purpose in life and pursue the purpose.

Good game is often about getting out of your own way. School is a pussy paradise. If you think it's tough in school, well wait until you get out.

Think of attraction as a process, not a feeling. Every girl has an attraction process, and it's your job to figure out what activates her attraction process. Bring out the feelings of horniness within her, and then link them to yourself.

If you need a confidence boost, start out with girls a few years younger (14 or 15). Girls naturally worship boys and men a few years older, and they often want the training from a mature man. Start out by creating small victories, and then go after the bigger ones.

Take some acting classes. Acting classes are also a pussy paradise, and you will learn how to be more confident and sure of yourself. And I mean real professional acting coaches who work with real professional actors. I assume there is some type of acting scene in a big city like Copenhagen. Try a local theater where they have plays, and ask them where they have classes.

[poly_72]

If I could be 17 again .?.

I would enjoy my senior year in highschool.

I would never had a gf.

I would have gone to more parties instead of staying
Home idolizing my gf like a beta bitch boy.

Good thing I'm 19 woooo..time to fuck shit up..

[Saladin]

The best piece of advice is to start learning a skill you can monetize.

I.e skills like web design, programming, copywriting, etc.

Getting to a decent level at one of those skills will ensure you'll have a tangible skill you can make money with.

Then you have to learn how to market these skills/make money of them.

Plus all those skills are great if you want to be location independent.

[Cyclone]

(03-16-2014 11:06 PM)Saladin Wrote:  

The best piece of advice is to start learning a skill you can monetize.
I.e skills like web design, programming, copywriting, etc.

Not only that, but they are skills that can be done remotely That is, if you plan to live abroad..
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[Melodramati]

I should be noted, that I am indeed popular and I score from time to time, but usually it just the bull-shit teenage handjobs and akward making out. I've fucked one tho, whom I fucked for a while and I tried to learn how to handle different power plays/shit-tests or what you wanna call them. She did worship me, I got blowjobs everytime we were alone together, I pushed her boundaries by spanking her and titty-fucking her (which was a bit awkward) at the start of this year, girls seemed more into me for some reason but now I am doing my best to get back in the game since I've have been having a dry-spell. I am not afraid of being ostracized by the girls, they don't mind 'bad-boys' as long as I am not creepy. I am afraid of losing my social status by disappointing my fake-friends. I have a shitton of guys who consider me a good friend, however I consider them obstacles mostly. I got 3-4 GOOD friends one of them who is where I wanna be, he gets laid every week he's fucked 22 girls, he's buff and he is fun to party with and hang around. I will continue improving myself and trying to fuck girls. But I really gotta give less of a fuck in some situations since I don't even feel 'bad' when I fuck over people, I am just afraid of punishment.

How did you guys stop giving a fuck?

[rudebwoy]

For the record I would never want to be 17 again.
Maybe I am cynical but the age of innocence has long gone.
I would study harder and get good grades which hopefully could get me into a good university.
I would get a good mentor, one I respected and one that can back up what he says. I am sure there are some good ones on this site.
Don't worry about girls ever! They will always be around, it's the good ones that are hard to find.
Travel would be my number goal at that age, it is the best education. Which leads me to learning another language seriously, take your pick. I would say one Latin language and something hard like Russian or Mandarin. There are always jobs for mult-lingual people.
Other than that I would save money for the future or a big trip.
Stay athletic and do basic weight training.
No video games and limit bad habits.
I would only associate with like minded people who have a positive energy. Even today it amazes me how so many people are haters, losers and whiners.

[Travesty]

I like young pussy my viewed is skewed.

As said before make friends with all the most social girls and don't fuck that up.

Work out.

Slay tail.

If your school had any foreign exchange program with a host family do it.

Slay foreign high school tail.

Go after the freshman and sophmores. Make friends with all the most social girls in those grades as well.

Slaying the outter friend circle and chicks from other schools is good advice.

If there are any school clubs or organizations that connect you with other local schools that opens your pool.

I'd work as hard as you have to, but if you want a free life later you need to become and entrepreneur anyways. A 4.0 GPA will never buy you that. Only hard work.