http://www.returnofkings.com/22079/the-t...hould-know
I was reading this article and this part really struck a chord in me
this is some disturbing stuff. any type of sex under the influence is a potential landmine
I was reading this article and this part really struck a chord in me
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The Definition of Rape Is Subjective
What is rape, anyways? Once upon a time it was when a man had sex with a woman even while she was saying ‘No.’
Today, articles like this argue that a “weak yes” can also be considered a “No”. Feminists are actively working to re-define the definition of consent to make it as subjective and open to manipulation as possible. The days of “No Means No” are long gone, replaced by a new paradigm of “If I Wake Up and Feel Uncomfortable With What Happened, Well I Guess I Must Have Been Feeling No.”
Historically, if a girl is passed-out drunk and a guy has sex with her while she’s unconscious – that’s rape.
But what if a girl is just pretty drunk? What if the man has also been drinking? Are both guilty of rape? In a sane world, drunk people would be held responsible for whatever decisions they made while intoxicated. Drunk people still have agency, otherwise “I was drunk” would be always be a valid defense for drunk driving. The idea that a girl can wake up the morning after a night of enthusiastic sex and claim that she was too drunk to consent, is absolutely ridiculous.
College-aged men are put in an especially precarious position by the murkiness of rape laws, and the lack of consequences for women who make false accusations. It’s easy enough for me, as a twenty-eight year old man with a lot of dating experience, to avoid unstable drunk girls. But consider a young man on the college hook-up scene, in which the majority of girls he meets are impulsive, immature, and a heavy drinkers. Such a man should immediately learn How To Avoid A False Rape Accusation and start taking the precautions in that article.
this is some disturbing stuff. any type of sex under the influence is a potential landmine
