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Not leaving enough mystery?
03-07-2014, 06:03 PM
I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I feel like I've overexposed myself because of my career. I work in the public's eye and feel like I know someone everywhere I go. Sometimes I know everyone. I'm starting to think this may be working against me. There is no mystery to me. No wondering. Probably no excitement because most chicks know who I am and who I dated, what I do for a living, who my friends are, etc. I cut out all social media a few months ago and it's been a huge relief, but I'm thinking that maybe being too much in the publics eye is a bad thing?
What do some of the experienced guys think? Can you overexpose yourself?
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Not leaving enough mystery?
03-07-2014, 06:34 PM
Yeah, just wondering if chicks knowing too much about you can ruin game for the lack of mystery?
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03-08-2014, 10:39 AM
of course it can, if you talk too much. Talk less.
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03-10-2014, 11:40 AM
If you're worried that being in the public eye is going to expose all of your secrets, your concern is unfounded.
Fame can only help you.
You need to give us more of a concrete situation for more detailed analysis and advice.
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03-11-2014, 07:16 AM
Yes you can, and people get bored fast but it can be fixed easily. Limit your appearance to once a week if you can, and pursue other hobbies and social circles.