[Jukes]

This is something that I had problems with for years . Either I give short reply and keep it moving ( especially if it too aggressive ) or I get into an arguement and have to retreat . Can anybody suggest examples or experience ?

[mbare]

(03-07-2014 03:01 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

This is something that I had problems with for years . Either I give short reply and keep it moving ( especially if it too aggressive ) or I get into an arguement and have to retreat . Can anybody suggest examples or experience ?

Kinda difficult to even begin to help you... So for "years" now you've been getting approached periodically by "groups" of women? How about you start with your own specific example and we'll (the forum) try to help you break it down.

[Jukes]

Ok . I live in an urban environment where people tend to be in groups . Also , I happen to have a butt . I am 21 and this been happening for about 6 years . Scenario is I walk pass a group of girls and they proceed to shout out loud or go straight for the I want to fuck . Or if there some dudes in the group , this cause problems . If I ignored the girls it sometimes escalate leaving me to walk away . I am pretty clueless on what to do or I try go.avoid problems .

[mbare]

(03-07-2014 03:32 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

Ok . I live in an urban environment where people tend to be in groups . Also , I happen to have a butt . I am 21 and this been happening for about 6 years . Scenario is I walk pass a group of girls and they proceed to shout out loud or go straight for the I want to fuck . Or if there some dudes in the group , this cause problems . If I ignored the girls it sometimes escalate leaving me to walk away . I am pretty clueless on what to do or I try go.avoid problems .

How's your game when you're 1:1 with a girl? How would your rate your game outside of the "situation" you've described above? If your 1:1 game is weak, then yeah I can see this flustering you. But for 6 years?

At any rate, you need to work on your flirting. If chicks are going that direct on you, then you can/should pull her out of the bar/club very fast, or at the least get a little fun banter going before pulling them. And are you out solo by the way? I personally don't like to approach girls/deal with girls in groups larger than 3. Any larger than that, and usually they're out for a celebration-that's their plan and you're not "going to ruin that." So I don't often bother with large groups.

For exampe: smile and give them a "oh there she is!" laugh, introduce yourself, small talk/talk shit and bounce.

Or, "oh I don't know....not sure what my preacher dad would think." Obviously in a tone that suggest you're joking.

Or, "oh sweety you looking for a little slap and a tickle?"

These are just some things that came to my mind. The point is, is that you're out to have fun, so just have fun with it. If you're getting THAT strong of a signal then you pretty much just need to play "don't fuck it up game."

If there are dudes in the group, depending on the situation you can introduce yourself to them as well. However, that takes some experience reading people, to decide if that's a good strategy.

-M'bare

[Jukes]

(03-07-2014 04:47 PM)mbare Wrote:  

(03-07-2014 03:32 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

Ok . I live in an urban environment where people tend to be in groups . Also , I happen to have a butt . I am 21 and this been happening for about 6 years . Scenario is I walk pass a group of girls and they proceed to shout out loud or go straight for the I want to fuck . Or if there some dudes in the group , this cause problems . If I ignored the girls it sometimes escalate leaving me to walk away . I am pretty clueless on what to do or I try go.avoid problems .

How's your game when you're 1:1 with a girl? How would your rate your game outside of the "situation" you've described above? If your 1:1 game is weak, then yeah I can see this flustering you. But for 6 years?

At any rate, you need to work on your flirting. If chicks are going that direct on you, then you can/should pull her out of the bar/club very fast, or at the least get a little fun banter going before pulling them. And are you out solo by the way? I personally don't like to approach girls/deal with girls in groups larger than 3. Any larger than that, and usually they're out for a celebration-that's their plan and you're not "going to ruin that." So I don't often bother with large groups.

For exampe: smile and give them a "oh there she is!" laugh, introduce yourself, small talk/talk shit and bounce.

Or, "oh I don't know....not sure what my preacher dad would think." Obviously in a tone that suggest you're joking.

Or, "oh sweety you looking for a little slap and a tickle?"

These are just some things that came to my mind. The point is, is that you're out to have fun, so just have fun with it. If you're getting THAT strong of a signal then you pretty much just need to play "don't fuck it up game."

If there are dudes in the group, depending on the situation you can introduce yourself to them as well. However, that takes some experience reading people, to decide if that's a good strategy.

-M'bare

My game is bad and I am solo most of the time . This normally happen in the street (group consist of 3 & up ) . 1 on 1 I can talk ( 10 to 40 minutes ), but I don't ask for numbers .

[mbare]

(03-07-2014 06:48 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

(03-07-2014 04:47 PM)mbare Wrote:  

(03-07-2014 03:32 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

Ok . I live in an urban environment where people tend to be in groups . Also , I happen to have a butt . I am 21 and this been happening for about 6 years . Scenario is I walk pass a group of girls and they proceed to shout out loud or go straight for the I want to fuck . Or if there some dudes in the group , this cause problems . If I ignored the girls it sometimes escalate leaving me to walk away . I am pretty clueless on what to do or I try go.avoid problems .

How's your game when you're 1:1 with a girl? How would your rate your game outside of the "situation" you've described above? If your 1:1 game is weak, then yeah I can see this flustering you. But for 6 years?

At any rate, you need to work on your flirting. If chicks are going that direct on you, then you can/should pull her out of the bar/club very fast, or at the least get a little fun banter going before pulling them. And are you out solo by the way? I personally don't like to approach girls/deal with girls in groups larger than 3. Any larger than that, and usually they're out for a celebration-that's their plan and you're not "going to ruin that." So I don't often bother with large groups.

For exampe: smile and give them a "oh there she is!" laugh, introduce yourself, small talk/talk shit and bounce.

Or, "oh I don't know....not sure what my preacher dad would think." Obviously in a tone that suggest you're joking.

Or, "oh sweety you looking for a little slap and a tickle?"

These are just some things that came to my mind. The point is, is that you're out to have fun, so just have fun with it. If you're getting THAT strong of a signal then you pretty much just need to play "don't fuck it up game."

If there are dudes in the group, depending on the situation you can introduce yourself to them as well. However, that takes some experience reading people, to decide if that's a good strategy.

-M'bare

My game is bad and I am solo most of the time . This normally happen in the street (group consist of 3 & up ) . 1 on 1 I can talk ( 10 to 40 minutes ), but I don't ask for numbers .

Jukes,

At least you have a reality check on where your game stands. Not a problem, since everyone starts somewhere. Good on you for discovering this forum at 21.

So talking with someone for 10-40 min, while that's good, isn't game per say. At least if it's not leading to more than, "I talked to some girl today." You have to make something out of those interactions. I think you know that.

My advice to you regarding groups/game:

1. Honestly, at this point I wouldn't worry about it. You're telling me most of these people are walking past you on the street anyway. I think you're still figuring out gaming one girl, so never mind trying to figure out group dynamics. Or you could look at those situations as a sink or swim opportunity to test yourself. Go with your gut instinct when it happens again, and don't forget to have fun with it.

2. Start working on gaming 1 girl at a time. Chat for a bit, push the interaction (hopefully back to your pad), or if you must then call it a night and get the number.
You: "Here put your number in my phone...we'll grab drinks sometime."

3. Maybe find an older mentor to wing with who has some understanding of game.

4. Read up on stuff posted here/check out the stuff Roosh and McQueen have out there.

-M'bare

[Jukes]

Thanks mbare . Will do

[WayoJberg]

(03-08-2014 03:51 PM)Jukes Wrote:  

Thanks mbare . Will do

I have an experience; a group of girls about 7 of them swarmed around me and asked me a bunch of questions like how tall are you ? were are you from ? so and so. I answered confidently. It helped that I towered over them though Try thinking of more important things when talking to the girls such as a big test or what you're eating for supper (serious). Never put the nani on the pedestal.