As many of you know I dated a BPD girl in the past that really fucked up my life, culminating in my wrongful arrest for domestic violence.
A lot of guys have already given a good summary, but I will add and recap some stuff briefly. First of all a great book I recommend for anyone who thinks they may be seeing a BPD girl or anyone who dated one in the past who wants to find more info. or closure, is called "Stop Walking on Eggshells".
BPD is a cluster B personality disorder along with narcisistic, historonic, and anti-social personality disorders, often times a girl will display charactersistics of all these disorders, but I straight up read that 25% of BPD women also are narcisistic as well. My EX was 100% full blown BPD, but also had enough characteristics of narcisistic as well to be diagnosable, according to the DSM manual.
Okay a run down of traits:
Mirroring (when a BPD girl first meets you, she will size you up and figure out your interests and personality, and then mirror it, molding herself into what she thinks you will find to be the perfect girl)
BPD women tend to be very beautiful and know how to use their beauty for seduction, they also tend to be very socially outgoing and charismatic... They usually can make friends very easily and can move into social circles easily.
Although they tend to make friends easily, usually their friendships breakdown after 6 months after they do some fucked up shit, or their friends figure out how fucked up they are.
BPD women are extremely sexual, and will give you the wildest more stimulating sex of your life, they tend to be nymphomaniacs who will do very kinky shit like lick ass, ass to mouth, etc. A lot of women in porn are most likely BPD.
BPD women tend to be pathological liars, they are stone cold liars who will tell elaborate lies to your face without batting an eyelash, they will be convincing as hell.
They are extremely self absorbed and self centered, they will fuck people over without an after thought to get their way or "get ahead", they have no remorse for their actions or sympathy for anyone else.
BPD women tend to be very obcessive, you can expect them to call you or text you constantly
BPD tend to fall into extremely close relationships very quickly, they will tell you they love you very early on and try to get you to bond and connect to them immmediately
They tend to alternate between putting you on the pedestal and tell you that they love you more than anything in the world, and then flip and say you are a piece of shit and that they hate you.
They are extremely emotional and can go from being ecstatic and overjoyed to extremely angry, sad, or depressed, they have insane mood swings.
BPD women are prone to drug and alcohol abuse, a lot of them lack self control whether it be when it comes to drug use or sex.
They are extremely obsessed with what people think about them, and have very fragile egos.
They almost always feel like they are the victim and fear abandonment, a common trend is that they were sexually abused as children.
These women are completely psychotic and to be avoided at all costs, the sex with them can be insane and can become highly addictive, but once they have you in their grasp, nothing good can come of it.
OG
A lot of guys have already given a good summary, but I will add and recap some stuff briefly. First of all a great book I recommend for anyone who thinks they may be seeing a BPD girl or anyone who dated one in the past who wants to find more info. or closure, is called "Stop Walking on Eggshells".
BPD is a cluster B personality disorder along with narcisistic, historonic, and anti-social personality disorders, often times a girl will display charactersistics of all these disorders, but I straight up read that 25% of BPD women also are narcisistic as well. My EX was 100% full blown BPD, but also had enough characteristics of narcisistic as well to be diagnosable, according to the DSM manual.
Okay a run down of traits:
Mirroring (when a BPD girl first meets you, she will size you up and figure out your interests and personality, and then mirror it, molding herself into what she thinks you will find to be the perfect girl)
BPD women tend to be very beautiful and know how to use their beauty for seduction, they also tend to be very socially outgoing and charismatic... They usually can make friends very easily and can move into social circles easily.
Although they tend to make friends easily, usually their friendships breakdown after 6 months after they do some fucked up shit, or their friends figure out how fucked up they are.
BPD women are extremely sexual, and will give you the wildest more stimulating sex of your life, they tend to be nymphomaniacs who will do very kinky shit like lick ass, ass to mouth, etc. A lot of women in porn are most likely BPD.
BPD women tend to be pathological liars, they are stone cold liars who will tell elaborate lies to your face without batting an eyelash, they will be convincing as hell.
They are extremely self absorbed and self centered, they will fuck people over without an after thought to get their way or "get ahead", they have no remorse for their actions or sympathy for anyone else.
BPD women tend to be very obcessive, you can expect them to call you or text you constantly
BPD tend to fall into extremely close relationships very quickly, they will tell you they love you very early on and try to get you to bond and connect to them immmediately
They tend to alternate between putting you on the pedestal and tell you that they love you more than anything in the world, and then flip and say you are a piece of shit and that they hate you.
They are extremely emotional and can go from being ecstatic and overjoyed to extremely angry, sad, or depressed, they have insane mood swings.
BPD women are prone to drug and alcohol abuse, a lot of them lack self control whether it be when it comes to drug use or sex.
They are extremely obsessed with what people think about them, and have very fragile egos.
They almost always feel like they are the victim and fear abandonment, a common trend is that they were sexually abused as children.
These women are completely psychotic and to be avoided at all costs, the sex with them can be insane and can become highly addictive, but once they have you in their grasp, nothing good can come of it.
OG