I hate to admit I look at Perez Hilton, but this item caught my eye ... Some dumb girl sitting in the second row at a Justin Timberlake concert decided to shit test him by flipping him the bird. He passed the test with flying colors in my view:
-- he made her look stupid ... "That makes no fucking sense."
-- he displayed classic amused mastery
-- he reframed her shit test as "her wanting him to notice her" and ridiculed her for it.
-- he was unflustered.
-- he sort of did the "agree and amplify" thing by saying something like "c'mon, let's get this out of the way, let's all do it."
http://mobi.perezhilton.com/2014-02-26-j...ia-concert
-- he made her look stupid ... "That makes no fucking sense."
-- he displayed classic amused mastery
-- he reframed her shit test as "her wanting him to notice her" and ridiculed her for it.
-- he was unflustered.
-- he sort of did the "agree and amplify" thing by saying something like "c'mon, let's get this out of the way, let's all do it."
http://mobi.perezhilton.com/2014-02-26-j...ia-concert