[GrumpStar]

A great video about why people succeed. Very applicable to juking women.

http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how...ction.html

[MiXX]

Great video, really enjoyed it. So, how would you apply the "golden circle" to getting a woman from knowing what you have offer in bed, vs buying into the "why" she should be in bed with you?

Mixx

[Menace]

The core "why" message is that being with you (whatever that means to you, ONS, LTR, etc.) is the best choice she can make because it will make her *feel* like she has never felt before. It will make her feel desired, feminine, complete, and sexy. Not only do you want this, but she also wants this. The video pointed out that people will follow because they also believe; they do it for themselves. So the "why" has to be what she also wants, and all women want this.

According to the video, the "how" part, like the "why" part, is also analogous to the limbic brain (the non-verbal, emotional part). I think daygame fits perfectly into this framework because it is the spontaneous, out of nowhere approach by a man ready and able to change her world. This is the whole sweeping off her feet stuff. I think the phenomenal amount of money spent by women on romance novels, as well as female-centered erotica on the web, supports this idea. I'm beyond noob at daygame, but I think I have finally realized that spontaneity is key. Spontaneity flows from the "why/how" part of you, while planning is from the "what" part. This is also the basis for the 3 second rule of approaching.

Finally, the "what" part. This part is the proof of the why. What evidence does she have that you'll be able to do the thing you believe and that she also wants believe? I think this part is DHV, being confident (although confidence is required throughout), and congruency.

Thoughts?