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Have you ever dealt with or tried to get with a girl that was purposely distant or gave you a harder time because she felt like you were too much of a player or had too much social proof?
For instance, I have this chick that Ive been trying to put on my team for about 2 months now. I met her when I first moved to DC but she was already involved with some other guy so I just kinda blew it off once I saw it wasnt going to go anywhere.
About 3 or 4 months after meeting her, I saw her at this strip club in DC while I was there with another girl and some friends....she saw me and was giving me the eye and everything.
However, I didnt try and holler at her again for another 2 or 3 months because I was doing my own thing and wasnt really trippin.
Fast forward to the past 2 months or so and we've been kicking it. Have went out on a few dates. Went to some little bullshit club in some small town in VA with her, a Wizards game, and the Warf in DC.
I havent tried to kiss this girl yet or make any major physical move on her cause she hasnt really giving me that comfortable vibe that I usually get....even tho the last time I saw her was when she came to my house just to chill and left at like 3 am. I told her she could stay but she didnt fall for it.
Anyway, she is always bringing up how Im always going out with girls and how Im young and in my prime and all that. She was like, "im usually more skpetical with more attractive guys because they usually play you cause they can"
Im a pessimist by nature tho and always feel like a girl is full of shit until proven otherwise. So part of me wants to believe that she may really feel that I may end up playing her if she really opens up and falls for me and another part of me feels that she may just be using that an excuse because she's still on the fence about whether or not she even likes me like that.
I let my nuts hangs recently tho and told her that I want her to spend the night this weekend and surprisingly, she agreed to saturday. Of course I plan on going all out. If she flakes out Im just going to blow her off and move on.
But, have you ever dealt with a girl that was reluctant to get with you because she felt that you were only going to play her because you had too much social proof? How did you handle that situation? What was the outcome?
Have you ever dealt with or tried to get with a girl that was purposely distant or gave you a harder time because she felt like you were too much of a player or had too much social proof?
For instance, I have this chick that Ive been trying to put on my team for about 2 months now. I met her when I first moved to DC but she was already involved with some other guy so I just kinda blew it off once I saw it wasnt going to go anywhere.
About 3 or 4 months after meeting her, I saw her at this strip club in DC while I was there with another girl and some friends....she saw me and was giving me the eye and everything.
However, I didnt try and holler at her again for another 2 or 3 months because I was doing my own thing and wasnt really trippin.
Fast forward to the past 2 months or so and we've been kicking it. Have went out on a few dates. Went to some little bullshit club in some small town in VA with her, a Wizards game, and the Warf in DC.
I havent tried to kiss this girl yet or make any major physical move on her cause she hasnt really giving me that comfortable vibe that I usually get....even tho the last time I saw her was when she came to my house just to chill and left at like 3 am. I told her she could stay but she didnt fall for it.
Anyway, she is always bringing up how Im always going out with girls and how Im young and in my prime and all that. She was like, "im usually more skpetical with more attractive guys because they usually play you cause they can"
Im a pessimist by nature tho and always feel like a girl is full of shit until proven otherwise. So part of me wants to believe that she may really feel that I may end up playing her if she really opens up and falls for me and another part of me feels that she may just be using that an excuse because she's still on the fence about whether or not she even likes me like that.
I let my nuts hangs recently tho and told her that I want her to spend the night this weekend and surprisingly, she agreed to saturday. Of course I plan on going all out. If she flakes out Im just going to blow her off and move on.
But, have you ever dealt with a girl that was reluctant to get with you because she felt that you were only going to play her because you had too much social proof? How did you handle that situation? What was the outcome?
