[Icarus]

(08-01-2017 01:36 PM)n0000 Wrote:  

When I travel I can stay for free with someone I know I get along with. Take care of your bros and they take care of you.

They already got what they wanted from you. They don't have to host you.

Some may have a sense of loyalty, but others may lack it.

[invictusiii]

I'm my experience, guys and girls really fail to read profiles. I still get chicks requesting as well as guys. I just switched it back to any just in case I'm missing out though. Lol. In reality I did it as a test way back and just forgot to switch it back. Most girls can look at my tons of chick references though and get the gist. As far as replying, I reply to everyone. In the case of guys, my line is simply "Unfortunately, I cannot host. Safe travels!" They usually just don't write back or say thanks anyway. If they get snooty, which has happened maybe twice in the 3-4 years I've been on here, I just ignore them or block them.

[whocouldibe1234]

I posted here a couple pages ago under my old screen name, whocouldibe123, but for some reason I got banned. But I am back now as whocouldibe1234. LOL. I have my CS profile set to "prefer to host females". I have not gotten any requests since the algorithm changed earlier this summer, but I still reach out to girls traveling to my city and ask to be their host. Some accept, some decline. I have a Russian girl coming over today who wants to drink, hang out, get naked, and sleep in my bed. Sounds like an easy bang! So far I have banged a little less than half of the solo traveler girls I met, and none of the girls traveling in pairs or groups. I have my own game and subtle screening method before I agree to host a girl so I know if I have a better chance of sleeping with her. I only host solo girls now. As a test, I will change my profile back to "prefer to host any gender" and just decline the dudes to see where this goes. Will keep you all posted...if I don't get banned again. LOL

[whocouldibe12345]

Damn, my above account whocouldibe1234 just got banned too, and I just made that account and only posted twice! What the fuck gives?!

[Pointer]

Just my 2 cents on my experience with hosting this summer.
I used to host a bunch of people in Krakow 3-4 years ago so I had a profile with a dozen references and some old photos.
Since I wasn't travelling for work purposes anymore and was staying in one place I decided to put my nice central flat in Warsaw on Couchsurfing.
The site has changed recently and looks much worse unfortunately. Initially I decided to remove all the old pictures of me backpacking and hanging out with hostel dwellers with something more professional. The first week I got crickets, no requests whatsoever. I then reverted to the old pictures and voila...not sure if the website was messed up or if the pictures made a difference.
The problem with Warsaw is that many girls don't travel solo and you get a lot of requests from dudes. If you add in the screening process then you realize your options are limited.
Meeting friends ? Sorry, not available (short for "I have no patience for cock blockers")
Staying only one night, having a flight the next day ? Sorry, not available (short for "I'm not a fucking hotel)
Generic lazy ass request that shows you haven't read the profile ? Pass (I don't even bother to answer those)
One girl asked me if I can pick her up from the airport. The level of entitlement has reached new dimensions when girls expect random guys to pick them up from the airport for free. What's next ? Wine and dine ? Maybe a massage ?

Notable guests:

Guy from Budapest stayed for one night. We went out, showed him around, even bought him a few shots, got myself an easy reference and verified status.

Australian girl, 22, fresh out of university. Her request was short and last minute, a red flag. Didn't take the time to properly screen her. She looked very Polish with nice blonde hair and blue eyes, short but with a slim body. She was quite attractive for an Australian However, I got bad vibes from the beginning when I had to cross the street to catch her attention. She was staring at her phone, wasn't even looking around to see if I'll show up or not after we agreed to meet in front of the apartment complex. 10 minutes in she tells me she had a bad experience with a previous host who hit on her (and then decides to stay with me, a bachelor, woman logic at its finest). Stayed 3 nights and was like a cold fish, hooked on her phone 24/7 and always going out with "friends". Who the fuck has friends in Warsaw when traveling all the way from Australia ? Probably some dudes on Tinder as she didn't even bother to come back on her last night. No cleaning, cooking or grocery shopping left a very bad impression, felt like I was being used as a hotel service.

Blonde girl from Germany. While she was kind enough to clean the whole flat when I was away and even bought me drinks when going out, she wasn't very receptive to flirting. I liked her but wasn't sure how to proceed and decided not to push it. Now I'm thinking maybe I should've been more aggressive on her last night but I didn't want to get a negative reference.

Chubby Polish girl from Krakow. Unfortunately this was a typical case of pictures that don't match with reality. I generally don't care but I felt embarrassed walking around with her on the street. She was very talkative, smiling all the time but there was no attraction so I tried to make myself invisible. As she was staying for the weekend I had to bullshit my way into a "guy's night out" as I didn't want to waste my time with her.

Also hosted one dude from Ukraine who had amazing references. This guy was mad, we spent 2 nights partying until morning and I think we approached all the Ukrainian girls along the river. Got some good numbers which later converted into dates. If I go to Kiev I'll definitely catch up with him.

Finally the highlight of my summer hosting experiences, a Russian girl from Siberia, exotic looking, more Asian than Slavic, a solid 7 and I'm not even into Asian girls. Passed my screening tests by writing a very nice request and flirting on whatsapp. First thing she asked when stepping into in the flat was where can she buy groceries to cook me something ? I was a bit shocked. Since I was working during the day we only went out during the evening. The first 2 days I took it easy, exchanging normal conversations getting to know each other, joked about cheap paintings in my flat and how she was supposed to watch over them while I'm at work. Third night I organized a mini party at my place where I re-arranged the furniture to make space for a dance floor. Two bottles of wine and a vodka helped a lot. By the time we got to Despacito we were already making out. The sex wasn't very satisfying as I was half drunk, tired and had to wake up early the next day. When I returned home she wasn't there. Not sure what happened but she came back late and said she was tired and wanted to sleep. I agreed but knew that something was off. On her last night as she was preparing her luggage we took some selfies and started making out then ended up in my bed. Didn't bother to ask what happened the day before but got a promise she will visit again in spring. We'll see about that.

Since I will start traveling again I won't be able to host anymore. Maybe I'll try it again in a more popular city, although that might not be such a good idea. The Australian girl was in Rome previously and her mailbox was full of dozens of invitations to either be hosted or hang out with thirsty Italian dudes...

[whocouldibe12345678]

Me again checking in with my new account since my other accounts were banned, as seen above. I just fucked 2 more CS girls. One I previously hosted then she hosted me. She even liked me so much she farted in bed, during a 69, right in my face as I ate out her bootyhole. My strategy is working. Slutty solo girls only is who I host.

[Babablacksheep]

(09-04-2017 10:56 PM)whocouldibe12345678 Wrote:  

Me again checking in with my new account since my other accounts were banned, as seen above. I just fucked 2 more CS girls. One I previously hosted then she hosted me. She even liked me so much she farted in bed, during a 69, right in my face as I ate out her bootyhole. My strategy is working. Slutty solo girls only is who I host.

Where are you based at if i may ask?

[please_do_not_ban_me]

Help me out here. I am a guy who only hosts girls. I used to host pairs of girls, but I took the advice of this forum and now only host girls traveling alone. I have banged about half of these solo girls. However now, it seems like all my references, which are from just girls, are adding up. All of my CS "friends" are from these girls too. I feel like I am starting to look like a player/hook-up-artist, to female travelers. I am thinking of starting to host girls "off the books". Meaning I seek out the other sexsurfing girls, offer to host, but move our converstation off line to texting or whatsapp and agree not to confirm a hosting invite on CS. That way I don't keep having a shitload of female references that makes it obvious that I'm only on the site for bangs. Thoughts?

[BacanT]

I'd be keen on a link to that CS profile too. Thanks.
let's see if Amsterdam's rep (sex drugs R&R) helps

(01-04-2011 05:46 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

(01-04-2011 04:08 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(01-04-2011 04:02 PM)InternationalSwagger Wrote:  

Yes CS bangs are great if you live in a city with a high amount of chicks coming through. Case in point My brother and his two friends live in the Harlem section of Manhattan right next to central park and they are cleaning up with bad chicks from all over the world. One of the dudes didn't even have a passport before and he picked up over 20 flags from chicks all over the world. They host Harlem CS parties and literally have it on lock. They literally have to filter through tons of messages daily but only host hot girls or cool looking dudes in cities they want to visit. If you live in NYC, Miami, San Francisco or Los Angeles and you have a bit of room you definitely need to be hosting as these are the main destination cities in the continental USA. In contrast I live in Atlanta and I get a good amount of requests but not near the level my boys in nyc and la get. I've had two cs bangs from girls I've hosted here in ATL; one cute Blonde German girl who was with a mud duck friend and they were on a world trip and stopped through for a few nights I took them to some good hip hop clubs, soul food and strip clubs. Another girl was a hot french-morrocan girl from Paris who stayed with me for two days, she cooked for me daily and we had great conversation & off the hook sex and invited me to Paris this spring to stay with her so obviously hosting has its benefits and you become friends and have a place to stay or chill when u visit them. Also I have a 3 bedroom/3 level brownstone townhouse in the city on the train (Marta line) so it was easy to separate the girls to get my bang. My boys only usually host one girl but will host more if they are hot. My brother has a larger place so he can host two at a time the other guys have studio apts in nyc which makes it condusive to only hosting one girl at a time. I also get a lot of couple requests but haven't hosted any since I have a hectic travel schedule. Take a look at my friends profile to see how he does it...this is how u want to set up your profile if you live in a heavily visited city...he's a savage! Also I'm gathering my thoughts from my Philippine Trip I took with my brother and our friend...have a lot of good info on borocoy and manila.

I've only had one CS bang and it was me being the surfer. It seems if you want to get bangs, you must host in your crib.

Can you pm your friends profile to add him as a buddy?

Mixx

Mixx you definitely need to be hosting in Miami, you just have to be selective because you will be getting hit with tons of requests. Just be specific on your profile to weed out people you dont want requesting your couch. I have a buddy who hosts in Miami Beach with a roommate and he is killing the game down there. I actually rolled with him and his friends to The Regatta and I surfed with him and send chicks his way when they come through to ATL on a roadtrip when they head further south to Miami. My brother does the same when he host chicks in NYC and MIA is on their itinerary as well. We literally have somewhat of a pipeline going from NYC, ATL, MIA and Key West now.

[invictusiii]

(09-05-2017 09:20 AM)please_do_not_ban_me Wrote:  

Help me out here. I am a guy who only hosts girls. I used to host pairs of girls, but I took the advice of this forum and now only host girls traveling alone. I have banged about half of these solo girls. However now, it seems like all my references, which are from just girls, are adding up. All of my CS "friends" are from these girls too. I feel like I am starting to look like a player/hook-up-artist, to female travelers. I am thinking of starting to host girls "off the books". Meaning I seek out the other sexsurfing girls, offer to host, but move our converstation off line to texting or whatsapp and agree not to confirm a hosting invite on CS. That way I don't keep having a shitload of female references that makes it obvious that I'm only on the site for bangs. Thoughts?

I host girls almost exclusively. This hasn't hurt me one bit. My page is pretty much all girls. I've been asked about hosting girls just to bang and sometimes I just admit to it with a cheeky grin or say that girls are less dangerous and I'm less afraid of them stealing my shit. Either way if it shows that you are ashamed of it or see something wrong with it, the girls will pick up on that. Most of the time, it really doesn't matter. In fact if you have a lot of good reviews from girls, other girls will feel you aren't some kind of creep even though in the back of their mind, they may think you've been banging all those girls. They want that adventure just not with someone who is a creep about it.

[DigitalNomad]

You can also go to a meet up and have a guy or two leave you a review, most people will review you back if you proactively review them. Also, it's not the end of the world to host a cool guy once in a while. You'll just end up with a cool wing who maybe even has an accent or something that can help you when you are out. I try to avoid more than 4-5 consecutive girl reviews.

[Pointer]

(09-05-2017 09:49 AM)invictusiii Wrote:  

I host girls almost exclusively. This hasn't hurt me one bit. My page is pretty much all girls. I've been asked about hosting girls just to bang and sometimes I just admit to it with a cheeky grin or say that girls are less dangerous and I'm less afraid of them stealing my shit. Either way if it shows that you are ashamed of it or see something wrong with it, the girls will pick up on that. Most of the time, it really doesn't matter. In fact if you have a lot of good reviews from girls, other girls will feel you aren't some kind of creep even though in the back of their mind, they may think you've been banging all those girls. They want that adventure just not with someone who is a creep about it.

Problem is that most CSers are creeps...and it only takes one bad experience to fuck everything up for other hosts. I would block all possibility to message travelers if you don't have at least 10 references. The 10 message limit is a step in the right direction but not enough.

[GymBro]

(09-05-2017 09:49 AM)invictusiii Wrote:  

(09-05-2017 09:20 AM)please_do_not_ban_me Wrote:  

Help me out here. I am a guy who only hosts girls. I used to host pairs of girls, but I took the advice of this forum and now only host girls traveling alone. I have banged about half of these solo girls. However now, it seems like all my references, which are from just girls, are adding up. All of my CS "friends" are from these girls too. I feel like I am starting to look like a player/hook-up-artist, to female travelers. I am thinking of starting to host girls "off the books". Meaning I seek out the other sexsurfing girls, offer to host, but move our converstation off line to texting or whatsapp and agree not to confirm a hosting invite on CS. That way I don't keep having a shitload of female references that makes it obvious that I'm only on the site for bangs. Thoughts?

I host girls almost exclusively. This hasn't hurt me one bit. My page is pretty much all girls. I've been asked about hosting girls just to bang and sometimes I just admit to it with a cheeky grin or say that girls are less dangerous and I'm less afraid of them stealing my shit. Either way if it shows that you are ashamed of it or see something wrong with it, the girls will pick up on that. Most of the time, it really doesn't matter. In fact if you have a lot of good reviews from girls, other girls will feel you aren't some kind of creep even though in the back of their mind, they may think you've been banging all those girls. They want that adventure just not with someone who is a creep about it.

Well said.

It's an inherent screening mechanism.

A girl who's put off by a guy who has all female references is not likely to be DTF. A girl who doesn't care is more likely to be DTF.

A guy with numerous positive references from women is pre-selected and vetted for to be cool, fun, non-creepy. A DTF girl is likely to choose this guy as a host over the old guy or the nerd.

If a girl is put off by a request for free accommodation from a guy with glowing positive references all from women, she's not likely to stay with me and I wouldn't want to host her anyway.

[GymBro]

(08-08-2017 08:11 AM)whocouldibe1234 Wrote:  

I posted here a couple pages ago under my old screen name, whocouldibe123, but for some reason I got banned. But I am back now as whocouldibe1234. LOL. I have my CS profile set to "prefer to host females". I have not gotten any requests since the algorithm changed earlier this summer, but I still reach out to girls traveling to my city and ask to be their host. Some accept, some decline. I have a Russian girl coming over today who wants to drink, hang out, get naked, and sleep in my bed. Sounds like an easy bang! So far I have banged a little less than half of the solo traveler girls I met, and none of the girls traveling in pairs or groups. I have my own game and subtle screening method before I agree to host a girl so I know if I have a better chance of sleeping with her. I only host solo girls now. As a test, I will change my profile back to "prefer to host any gender" and just decline the dudes to see where this goes. Will keep you all posted...if I don't get banned again. LOL

Interesting. Now that I've "paid my dues" and stacked a bunch of positive references, I'm trying to improve my screening to only host DTF girls. Can you share your screening tactics?

[DigitalNomad]

@gymbro go back and read through the thread, there is more than enough excellent posts stating this process.

[Pointer]

A good screening question is: What do you plan on doing during your stay in x city ? If she says that she will meet a friend or other bullshit like that then it's probably a good idea to bail. However, if she says that she's looking to party and someone to show her around then it's game on. You can also move the conversation to whatsapp and flirt with her just like you would with any other girl. If she's not receptive then you can safely cancel her, sometimes she will even do so herself.

[GymBro]

Good point. I've hosted surfers who don't know anyone in the city and the experience was unanimously positive.

On the other hand, I recently hosted two surfers who had friends in the city. Both were negative experiences.

One spent her whole day with local friends and didn't come home until 1 AM. She left the keys on the counter with my apartment door unlocked before departing for her 3 AM train (I wasn't home at the time).

The other spent most of her time on Whatsapp chatting, calling and hanging out with her local friends.

Both times I felt "used" as a free hotel/shower/laundry. I felt that it betrayed the cultural/interpersonal exchange aspect of Couchsurfing.

If they have local friends why don't they stay with them? Why don't they include me, their host, in their plans?

Going forward, I'm considering only hosting surfers who don't know anyone in the city.

[GymBro]

In my experience new Couchsurfers are much more appreciative and write far more detailed personal references.

On the other hand, experienced CSers are more likely to take you for granted. At times I feel manipulated and "used" for free shelter. Perhaps, experienced hardened serial surfers have had better hosts in the past so they are less appreciative.

On the other hand new CSers have no other frame of reference.

It's got to the point where seriously I'm thinking of only hosting surfers with 0-5 references going forward.

Anyone else have a similar experience?

[Putin Closes]

(09-10-2017 04:33 PM)GymBro Wrote:  

In my experience new Couchsurfers are much more appreciative and write far more detailed personal references.

On the other hand, experienced CSers are more likely to take you for granted. At times I feel manipulated and "used" for free shelter. Perhaps, experienced hardened serial surfers have had better hosts in the past so they are less appreciative.

On the other hand new CSers have no other frame of reference.

It's got to the point where seriously I'm thinking of only hosting surfers with 0-5 references going forward.

Anyone else have a similar experience?

I always do that. I never host experienced csers period. And I dont write references for all the girls i banged That way all the girls see is a mix of positive references from both males and females that didn't bang.

[GymBro]

Putin Closes, looks like we're in the same page. Out of curiosity how many girls have you hosted, how many have you banged and where are you located?

Have you noticed any patterns in the girls you've banged and the girls you didn't?

What's your screening method to ensure the girls you host are DTF?

[Putin Closes]

I rarely host these days as almost all my requests are below what I'd consider fuckable. In fact probably last time I hosted was last year. Mostly gay guys and hags sending me requests so I just say I'm busy.

In the past few years I'd wager I was hitting above 50% if not higher. I am in a big asian city, and still at most get 1-2 a week, so its no flood of pussy unless your in Paris / New York / London where hotel / airbnb accommodations are expensive.

First thing I do is facebook them and make sure their single and not a SIF. My profile makes it clear its not a place to stay, and I show a rather "uncomfortable" couch so if a girl is looking just for a nice bed to sleep on, she'll know it aint gonna be my place. So there's lots of preselection there. The glory days are kind of over but depends on which city. The 10 message limit helps cut down on spam, but also led to less couch requests foverall.

[GymBro]

Thanks Putin Closes. 50% lay rate is impressive. However, not every girl is available to put out.

My question is how do you screen for DTF girls from the outset before she gets to your place? How do you get her into your bed and balls deep? Do you go drinking and dancing?

If you can share how you've had your success it would be appreciated.

[james69]

A friend of mine hosted a lot and he received bad reviews and got blocked from Couchsurfing. He is a friendly guy whom the girls exploited for free stays. The site attracts unfucked Erasmus girls who choose the most fuckable guys but act frigid and serious to all others. Like in hey, I love architecture in Prague but I come here to get laid by sex-hungry tourists. Even worse, couples ask for accommodation where the guy cannot pay for a hostel with his girl.

[thisiscohen]

Saw this thread here, felt inspired and set up an account couple days ago. Contacted 10 girls (10 message limit) and offered them to crash at my place during Oktoberfest here in Munich, Germany. Didn't actually end up hosting (not yet at least), but met up with an Ukrainian chick who said she already found a host but would like to 'meet up for a beer or two'. Told her she's my type and I might not be able to resist her after two beers - she lol'd and showed up.
Met her 2 mins from my apartment and pulled her right away. Introduced her to my roommate and then went for the threesome with him which apparently was a bit too much for her, so I sent him out again, but still had goodtimes.
Total freak, fun experience for both of us.

Bang from couchsurfing: Check.

What's next? I'd say bang from yelp, bang from ebay or bang from linkedin? Idk.

[Putin Closes]

(09-12-2017 05:31 PM)GymBro Wrote:  

Thanks Putin Closes. 50% lay rate is impressive. However, not every girl is available to put out.

My question is how do you screen for DTF girls from the outset before she gets to your place? How do you get her into your bed and balls deep? Do you go drinking and dancing?

If you can share how you've had your success it would be appreciated.

You can usually tell from the type of message and whether she's had any experiences before. Say that you guys will go out and booze it up and if shes enthusiastic its a green light.

All you gotta do is run normal game, get her drunk, and then afterwards she'll be right back at your place.

Alcohol is a must based on my previous experiences, but YMMV.