[Chaz]

Hey guys, do you have any advice/suggestions on gaming a girl who is out of your league? My personal situation involves a girl with more "class" than I have, but we could also talk about the (more common) situation where the girl is better-looking than the guy. I am sure we have all been in that situation (involving a disparity in looks), but this case is a different one (background/class disparity).

So my background is that I'm public school/somewhat "street" kind of guy, and this girl has a very privileged background (went to prestigious private schools/Ivy league, etc. and in that social circle, too) I do believe there is some possibility with her, as I am about 10 years older than her, and she wants to go out. Also, guys like MiXX and G Manifesto have mentioned swooping successfully in this kind of scenario (while abroad?) so we know it is possible. In terms of looks, I'd say she is a 7.5, maybe 8, but I tend to think of her as a 10, just by force of her rich family, educational background, and also her humor, personality, etc. I guess another way to describe her is "high quality" so I could just ask "how would you deal with a high quality woman?" Would it be just like she is anyone else? How to proceed?

[Neo]

Be normal and play up qualities such as intelligence, confidence, and sophistication. Play down your 'steet' qualities unless it seems as if she's into that type of guy. Also, forget about the out of your league thing as that will make you come from an inferior frame of mind which will work against you. I'm in a state with an Ivy league school and I've hooked up with quite a few grad students who went there, some had rich families. I'm like you, more of a street type of guy, but it doesn't matter.

Pay attention to your image, dress nice but don't go overboard, and talk about intelligent and interesting things you've done or plan to do. IME experience these girls value intelligence, travel, and new experiences a lot. Give her new ways of thinking about things. You don't have to be rich(I was working a shitty job and living in a crappy studio apart when I got with one) but show that you have potential.

Other than that, just try to bang her like you would any other girl. Sometimes these chicks are actually easier because many men are intimidated by them, thus giving them less options. Just realize that there are some of these girls who have their heads so far up their asses that you won't be able to get with them unless you are in their circle. But your girl doesn't sound like that. If she wants to go out, I'd say that your foot is already in the door, just follow through and there's a good chance things will happen.

[Chaz]

Hey thanks Neo; that was a great post. You'd like this girl, too -- no head up the ass with her -- in fact, a great quality of this one is that she is down-to-earth, actually playing down her background, being humble and self-deprecating, etc.

[rudebwoy]

Take her off the pedestal and treat her like nothing special.

[cityhype]

check out my thread on txt game. I think its the easiest way to build attraction and set yourself up to succeed the next time you see her. At the very least at least she knows where you stand

[Duke Castile]

(12-25-2010 07:59 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Take her off the pedestal and treat her like nothing special.

Exactly.

Imagine what the satisfaction of banging her would be like, then imagine the feeling of being tired of banging her and try to make yourself feel that way when you interact with her.

That will help get your mind right.