[orko]

Hi guys

I'm dating a girl i met a month ago and i want your advice regarding her female roommate.
I have noticed that when we go out with her roommate and friends, the roommate is cold and non talkative with me. Besides that, i met my girl and her roommate at the same reunion(last december), and before i was dating my girl, the roommate sent me a message asking about how i was. I replied to her and add her to facebook but nothing else(just playing it cool). I continued pursuing my girl until we started dating officially(3 weeks ago) and today checking my facebook profile i noticed that her roommate deleted me as a friend.
Question, should i tell my girl about her roommate behaviour? should i keep it quiet?
sometimes i think the roomate liked me but as i went for my girl she is now kinda jealous...
any suggestions are welcomed

thanks!

[Onto]

I wouldn't say anything about it. If you did it will just create drama.

[orko]

(02-08-2014 01:05 PM)Onto Wrote:  

I wouldn't say anything about it. If you did it will just create drama.

Yeah i was thinking in keeping it quiet, but sometimes i think that maybe her roommate
wants our relationship to be ended, so she can be talking negatively about myself to my girl...

[Days of Broken Arrows]

(02-08-2014 01:31 PM)orko Wrote:  

(02-08-2014 01:05 PM)Onto Wrote:  

I wouldn't say anything about it. If you did it will just create drama.

Yeah i was thinking in keeping it quiet, but sometimes i think that maybe her roommate
wants our relationship to be ended, so she can be talking negatively about myself to my girl...

I would say something. But you might want to confront the roommate directly in sort of a bemused way in front of your girl like this: "Hey, why'd you delete me as a friend? Didn't like my music posts?"

You want to bring the jealousy out in the open because the roommate will be "working" your girl when you're not around, saying things like "Do you really like him? Are you sure he's the one?" Your girl is gonna hear this anyway, so she should know there is a motive/agenda behind it.

You're dealing with a jealous roommate. I dealt with one in college too and those quotes are direct from the jealous roommate I dealt with. The roommate probably likes you in some respect (which is what was up with my situation), so you can have that as a point of pride. But...if she succeeds in breaking the two of you up, she'll lose all respect for you.

Dunno if you've had sex with your g/f yet, but I would recommend as much intimacy as possible (esp. high quality) because sexual intimacy trumps female friendship for most normal females.

Good luck. My own version of this situation didn't go so well. It'll help to have another girl in reserve in case it goes to hell (I ended up returning to my steady g/f with my tail between my legs although she didn't know that).

[El_gato]

I had a similar situation once- could be a case of female competetion - your girl is getting action and the roommate isn't . Broken arrow has it right really treat your girl well in the sac and that will be the best offensive and revenge for attempts at cockblocking.

[Jroades26]

(02-08-2014 01:52 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(02-08-2014 01:31 PM)orko Wrote:  

(02-08-2014 01:05 PM)Onto Wrote:  

I wouldn't say anything about it. If you did it will just create drama.

Yeah i was thinking in keeping it quiet, but sometimes i think that maybe her roommate
wants our relationship to be ended, so she can be talking negatively about myself to my girl...

I would say something. But you might want to confront the roommate directly in sort of a bemused way in front of your girl like this: "Hey, why'd you delete me as a friend? Didn't like my music posts?"

You want to bring the jealousy out in the open because the roommate will be "working" your girl when you're not around, saying things like "Do you really like him? Are you sure he's the one?" Your girl is gonna hear this anyway, so she should know there is a motive/agenda behind it.

You're dealing with a jealous roommate. I dealt with one in college too and those quotes are direct from the jealous roommate I dealt with. The roommate probably likes you in some respect (which is what was up with my situation), so you can have that as a point of pride. But...if she succeeds in breaking the two of you up, she'll lose all respect for you.

Dunno if you've had sex with your g/f yet, but I would recommend as much intimacy as possible (esp. high quality) because sexual intimacy trumps female friendship for most normal females.

Good luck. My own version of this situation didn't go so well. It'll help to have another girl in reserve in case it goes to hell (I ended up returning to my steady g/f with my tail between my legs although she didn't know that).

This guy's got it. It's not something mentioned here a lot, but a friend or roommate spilling bad shit to your girl is going to be a disaster if you don't handle it.

I made friends with the roommate of the girl I'm pursuing, even set her up on a date with my buddy (wingman, he's not interested at all), and boom after months I closed that night.

Otherwise, tons of intimacy, figuring out how to be alone, etc.

[kaotic]

She could be jealous, She could hate you, She could ruin your relationship with the girl you're with. Just play it cool with her, who knows, if your chick acts up and you dump her, there's nothing like sleeping with her friends !

[Sombro]

"Your roommate's weird."

Leave it at that.

[funkyzeit]

roommate needs a good dicking, set her up with your buddy.