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Night Game is Dead
12-28-2010, 10:48 PM
Spinaroonie has offered some great insight into a social shift that I am sure many of us have perceived in 2010. I see more cows and Shaneequa-Taneekwa, baby-mama types when I go out clubbin in ATL. I go out more on "off" days during the week to get at the more desirable honies. Also, since I go to the mall about everyday for my lunchbreak, that offers me great opportunities to talk with nice lookin gals. I don't approach all of them as I am still easing myself into a daygame mindset but I have seen the benefits of this first hand ( this past thursday at the mall) and have come to my own realization that a guy should not rely on the weekend to pickup shorties.
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Night Game is Dead
12-29-2010, 01:53 PM
Facebook...I never really had a lot of success with the whole 'Give me your FB...' thing; I'm more of a 'I'm thirsty, let's get a drink...' guy, or if that's not possible, 'Do you have MSN, give me your email and we'll chat some more...' type.
Next time a girl asks if you have facebook, try saying 'Actually not anymore; I used to but it just caused too much drama in my life.', even if you do have it.
As has been said, do I really want someone I barely know crusing through my personal data? I know that 97% of women will use facebook as a screening method for guys.
Not having Facebook is the new Facebook. In university it helped me keep track but I rarely messaged them, except when plans were set and I needed to switch something up on the fly or something. Why bother? When you go to a small(ish) school, it won't be long until you run into them in the halls again.
I've read that article over at Inmalafide, and while for the most part I do agree with it, one thing about it doesn't apply to my scene; the so-called '8-1 dicks to pussies' ratio that Ferdinand states. Maybe because he lives in what's probably a weak scene (I believe he's based out of Upstate NY, has anyone ever partied in Buffalo-Niagara Falls [US*]? You might as well be gaming in Siberia), or maybe its because in the 5-6 times I've actually gone to the club this year I hit a lucky night; where I'm from, there were always more girls than guys clubbing.
Club game is shitty for other reasons though; the music sucks, the music is too loud to get a conversation going, the drinks are too pricey, girls have their bodysuits jacked to max. defense because chances are I'm the 50th guy to approach, girls always have a few fat or ugly friends in tow, the lighting is bad etc., etc.,
Day Game...it's an adjustment and you'll likely struggle at first, but learn it. Not just because you tend to meet a woman of better character who isn't hiding behind pounds of makeup and low-light in the day, but also because it's a useful skill to have. Clubs have a very low 'cut-off' age (as in the age that people will think you're 'weird' or 'creepy' for clubbing with the young people), so after that age hits (it's probably about 32-35 for both sexes), if you don't know how to day game and have a small social circle, you aren't going to be getting laid as much as you want.
Night game isn't dead, but it's slowly being revealed for what it is; yet another charade where you have to pay to play and the odds are heavily slanted in favor of the women. Day game is real, costs nothing and comes with a heady element of surprise.
* - Canadian side is still pretty dope though.