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Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact
#26

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Yeah, though I tend to think of the "avoidance weasel" as the excuses and rationalizations your brain makes to not approach, while in this case my brain was simply not working fast enough and just too absorbed with itself to become aware of the opportunity.

There was only a split second to act.

If only you knew how bad things really are.
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#27

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Quote: (05-08-2016 03:37 AM)262 Wrote:  

Oh yeah, and no-fap, if you haven't already. After a while your sex drive should give you that extra little push to make approaches.

I guess I deserve double negative points in that case since I 1. Did not strike up a convo with her and 2. Later on I jerked it while imagining her pussy. [Image: undecided.gif]

If only you knew how bad things really are.
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#28

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Quote: (05-07-2016 05:00 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote: (01-21-2014 12:47 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

A better question is.. Will you approach girls who don't give you eye contact?

If a girl gives you strong eye contact, she has already approached you.

It's up to you to respond.

I think I fucked up once again, because this "game" happens too fast for my brain to respond in time.

Don't worry about it!

This happens to me all the time!

It's can be hard to transition from "school" mode into "game" mode.

It's a total shift in mind set, though patterns, attitude, etc.

The more experience you get, the faster your brain will be able calibrate and operate and the speed of "game".

Just keep going!

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Don't dwell on this incident.. Don't consider it a "mistake".

Accept it, embrace it, learn from it, and move on as a stronger man.

YOU WILL SEE HER AGAIN. SHE OBVIOUSLY HAS AN INTEREST IN YOU!

NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER, DON'T APPEAR OVERLY EAGER, EXCITED, OR AGGRESSIVE.
Just stay calm and relaxed but be friendly and chatty with her. Ask her some open ended questions about herself.

You can still get her!

Quote: (05-07-2016 05:00 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I wasn't in the right mental space.

This is a completely normal.

I deal with this all the time.

It's taken me years to be able to quickly get into the right mental space, on demand. It's a tough skill to master.

Stay playful.

Quote: (05-07-2016 05:00 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I didn't recognize her until we were very close because I did not have glasses on.

If your vision is compromised, your ability to see sexual/romantic opportunists is compromised.

Keep your glasses on if there are girls around.

Or, consider contacts or corrective surgery.
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#29

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Quote: (05-09-2016 10:20 AM)RexImperator Wrote:  

Quote: (05-08-2016 03:37 AM)262 Wrote:  

Oh yeah, and no-fap, if you haven't already. After a while your sex drive should give you that extra little push to make approaches.

I guess I deserve double negative points in that case since I 1. Did not strike up a convo with her and 2. Later on I jerked it while imagining her pussy. [Image: undecided.gif]

You had a wank over a girl you failed to approach? That's awful. You just rewarded your own failure.
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#30

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

I get lots of eye contact, from girls half my age, in public places, surrounded by other middle-aged persons.
I've got others bedroom-eye ogling me in my exercise shorts or swimsuit , but when I look them in the eye, they look away...
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#31

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

I do various types of daygame approaches. Sometimes I see a girl and chase her up and approach by walking side by side and stopping her after a while, sometimes I do head on stop approaches (my least favorite) I even tried a yad stop or whatever it is called it is when you chase the girl up run in front of her making her stop. This also works although you have to have a very strong and positive frame to do it with success.

Rate of success after you had an IOI (eye contact is an example, another can be double look your way) is much higher. I had few very good examples when I walk pass the girl, get an IOI turn around chase her up and chat. Very good results. When I was in St. Petersburg this was how I ran my daygame, walk along Nevskiy at a busy time and look around, get an IOI turn around, run up and chat. Kind of like fishing. Waiting for a signal and acting upon it. I consider myself above average in looks department which might have something to do with it. If not looks you have to compensate with style or something that will distinguish you from the crowd.

You have to be flexible and adjust depending on where you are. Not only different styles of daygame approaches but different styles of game and sources of leads altogether. I would say in EE day game is king in SEA Online game, my experience in US is limited but judging by the information I collected on this forum night game is for US. I am yet to find out what is the case with SA.
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#32

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Quote: (01-21-2014 02:02 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Quote: (01-21-2014 12:16 PM)polymath Wrote:  

Quote: (01-21-2014 08:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Eye contact?

Man follows the path of least resistance.
If you do not do the thing that is hardest for you, you will not progress.

WIA

I presume you always try to walk through brick walls?

Success starts with opportunity. For some people, the hardest thing to do is to take advantage of those moments.

Which is better

The girl that wants you?

Or

The girl that you want?

WIA

Are these two possibilities always mutually exclusive?
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#33

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Has anybody noticed the phenomenon of some days being good EC days and some days being lacklustre? It's not always conditional on how good you look on that day, or how good you think you look. There are some days I've made a quick sprint to the store and have received EC left and right. Some days I'm actively looking for it as a pre-approach invitation and I'm getting none.

I know I'm not breaking any new ground here, but when you're out with a chick, the level of eye-fucking is off the charts. Experienced this today. Pre-selection, of course. Evolutionary psychology really is quite something.
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#34

Day Game: Approach women that give you eye contact

Sometimes I have approached women who've given me crazy eye contact but immediately looked turned off when you approach. Some had boyfriends/kids a few metres away which is crazy if you think of it logically. I think sometimes it could be curiousity in your 'look'.

Women can be hard to read sometimes. If there's a girl you like just go for it and don't over think it.

"What I had more than anyone else was drive. I was hungrier than anybody. I wanted it so badly it hurt."
- Arnold Schwarzenegger
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