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01-14-2014, 11:07 AM
Whats up everybody,
Another aspiring player here. This forum has helped me out for sure and I've read bang and been trying to incorporate some of it into my daily life. So here is my situation-
First date with a hot little mexican chica tonight. I met her at her work; she's a waitress at her families restaurant and we seemed to hit it off; she talked to me the whole time and was showing lots of interest. She got busy so I dropped the card and told her to txt me her number. She ends up giving me her number so I called her once and left a message...no answer. A few days later she starts texting me and I set up a date for 8 p.m. and I told her Id confirm the location today. My plan was hop to a couple cool bars by the beach then walk the beach. I remember when I met her that she basically works 2 jobs all day cus her family owns a restaurant so she works an am job then closes down the restaurant.
Early this morning she suggests a spot for tea and says if we can do it early because she has to work very early the next day. This is obviously not me leading. What would you do? The spot she suggests is a cool cafe and there is a good brewery across the street that we could bounce to or should i just stick to my game plan?
Thanks!
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01-14-2014, 11:17 AM
Unless the location is strongly unfavorable for you, just dismiss it as her being decisive and don't read too much into it. Others might disagree, though.
p.s. do you know if this caffe has people sitting on couches next to each other, or on chairs opposite to each other? That factor influences how much you get to touch her a lot.
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01-14-2014, 12:30 PM
Why not play the 'im sure you are tired of restaurants and cafes, just come to my place' as you told us shes a waitress? If you really hit it off well and you didn't seem like a creep then she will come over. And the whole plan would be a time-saver if she wasn't really that interested.
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01-15-2014, 03:23 AM
Thanks for advice fellas; I went with Eel's and just met her there and I took the lead easily. We sat next to each other wherever we went and I started kino in beginning and escalated slow and steady until I was touching all over with no resistance and she was reciprocating. Find out she is on the rag and leave with a handy and a preview of her magnificent breasts to come. I will make sure to schedule the next date once rag time is over.
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01-15-2014, 04:31 PM
Thanks for the feedback you're right I was over thinking it; now next step is do I wait it out a day or hit her up tonight while it's fresh in her mind?
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01-16-2014, 01:08 AM
Surprised this went as well as it did.
Applause!
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01-16-2014, 08:45 PM
I hear you and Anderoid, good point. I'm sure she's pretty into me so I'll chalk it up to that and keep the same game going next time I see her- gradual and steady escalation.
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06-15-2016, 02:07 PM
Hey guys!
I just thought about posting this here instead of creating a new thread since I have the same problem.
I have a date tonight with this Latina I had already kissed, when I suggested her a place to meet (near my place) she suggested another location in the centre. She's new to the city but still- she wants to take the frame.
I am not planning on agreeing with this but I wonder if I should suggest another venue or stick with the initial one. What do you guys think?
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06-15-2016, 02:20 PM
What was the initial venue? If it's a bar, rethink it...unless that's all u have to suggest
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06-15-2016, 02:37 PM
Quote: (06-15-2016 02:20 PM)IAmAlpha504 Wrote:
What was the initial venue? If it's a bar, rethink it...unless that's all u have to suggest
My plan was to go Hookah and then venue change to the bar but I only told her to meet me at the subway station near my place and she suggested to meet Dwntown..
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06-15-2016, 02:41 PM
I don't see what it would cost u tell her, broadly, what ur plan is. I don't recommend u let her decide.
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06-16-2016, 10:46 AM
Quote: (06-15-2016 02:41 PM)IAmAlpha504 Wrote:
I don't see what it would cost u tell her, broadly, what ur plan is. I don't recommend u let her decide.
I ended up suggesting another hookah lounge near her place and we fucked later at her place. Thanks for the advice!