[Duke Castile]

I came up with a simple neg today.

This girl was telling me how she needs to exercise, I said "Yeah, I'd love to see how you look after you've been working out a couple months".

I also notice you can neg a girl without saying anything directly. Most of the time they will have a small scar or even a blemish. If it's a scar I ask them how they got it. If it's a blemish, I'll just kind of focus on it so she knows I noticed it.

[Badstuber]

"are you wearing a wig?"

[plasticthing]

to her "nice boots"

she says "thanks"

then you say "my mom has a pair just like those"

she grimaces at the neg and will respond with "oh thats cool, I guess...."

you respond with "what?... my mom is hot."

she laughs, then you continue with next routine.

[MiXX]

(12-09-2010 05:00 PM)plasticthing Wrote:  

to her "nice boots"

she says "thanks"

then you say "my mom has a pair just like those"

she grimaces at the neg and will respond with "oh thats cool, I guess...."

you respond with "what?... my mom is hot."

she laughs, then you continue with next routine.

Humm....you really have to know how to pull this one off. Telling a girl you think your mom is "hot" as a result of a neg may not be something she finds attractive...you got lucky I would say, so know how to say it playfully and with balls confidence.

I would use "my ex" or "5th grade school teacher Ms. Fernandez" - it kinda feels better for me...but if it works for you, by all means....

Mixx

[CJ]

Negs are all situational, I'm not sure having a "list" is a good idea, because you may use the wrong one at the wrong time.

My best negs are usually spoken when I'm drunk though, and completely lose my filter. For example, I once ordered a regular beer from a waitress and said I didn't need a lite because I didn't need to watch my figure like some of us there (she was in good shape, not sure why I said this) and every time I see her now she asks me how she looks, lifting her shirt to try to prove how flat her stomach is lol.

That being said, my advice is neg stupid girls, don't try it on smart girls, they'll see through you.

[Duke Castile]

I see what you mean but, I've had a lot of success negging smart girls. I think they almost like to be made fun of and to feel dumb...

[CJ]

(12-13-2010 03:29 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

I see what you mean but, I've had a lot of success negging smart girls. I think they almost like to be made fun of and to feel dumb...

Depends on how drunk they are! I prefer to date smarter girls, and in my experience they're also ok for one night stands, but require more work to blend into your rotation. Now, I'm not saying bang retards, I just mean girls with average intelligence save time and stress.

[Kona]

I had luck with "you look fucking sexy, what's the occasion?" this weekend.

I'm fairly certain that's a neg?

Aloha!

[Duke Castile]

(12-13-2010 05:47 PM)Kona Wrote:  

I had luck with "you look fucking sexy, what's the occasion?" this weekend.

I'm fairly certain that's a neg?

Aloha!

That's going in the repertoire right now.

[speakeasy]

I don't care for the idea of pre-canned negs. It's just too spontaneous a situation. They tend to pop in my head depending on what's happening. Like last weekend at a bar, the girl pulled out her phone to show me and it looked like some phone from the 90s. No features other than making a phone call. I busted on her for that. Negging is something that just has to happen in the moment. Call it "custom negging".

[Duke Castile]

(12-13-2010 06:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I don't care for the idea of pre-canned negs. It's just too spontaneous a situation. They tend to pop in my head depending on what's happening. Like last weekend at a bar, the girl pulled out her phone to show me and it looked like some phone from the 90s. No features other than making a phone call. I busted on her for that. Negging is something that just has to happen in the moment. Call it "custom negging".

I hear you speakeasy, but I like to have some material already on hand for those moments when you're caught off guard. This guy I know is a comedian, I had no idea how funny he was until I went to see his show. Being witty is a SKILL that can be developed, I started talking to him about it and he has a lot of fallback material that you could probably arrange in a flowchart. If you've ever been to one of those shows in a comedy club, you know it's got it's own scene where the front row gets made fun of and also tries to heckle the guy on stage. You have to be on your shit.

[Giovonny]

(12-14-2010 12:14 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

(12-13-2010 06:58 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I don't care for the idea of pre-canned negs. It's just too spontaneous a situation. They tend to pop in my head depending on what's happening. Like last weekend at a bar, the girl pulled out her phone to show me and it looked like some phone from the 90s. No features other than making a phone call. I busted on her for that. Negging is something that just has to happen in the moment. Call it "custom negging".

I hear you speakeasy, but I like to have some material already on hand for those moments when you're caught off guard. This guy I know is a comedian, I had no idea how funny he was until I went to see his show. Being witty is a SKILL that can be developed, I started talking to him about it and he has a lot of fallback material that you could probably arrange in a flowchart. If you've ever been to one of those shows in a comedy club, you know it's got it's own scene where the front row gets made fun of and also tries to heckle the guy on stage. You have to be on your shit.

Sense of humor is everything. We gotta be able to make these girls laugh. I like watching comedians just to pick up a few jokes and get into that funny talkative vibe. Of course, you never wanna sound like a guy using canned material. Basically, I watch comedians to work on my quick wit. I like what Fisto said..."You have to be on your shit"

This is true for comedians at a comedy club and for guys like us who are approaching girls.

Performing at a comedy club would actually be great practice for a Gamer, or anyone trying to overcome fear.

[zanetti]

"how old are you"

this isn't smth i intentionally do but if i meet someone and like her, pretty soon in the conversation i feel like asking this and usually do