Most of you probably lol'ed when you read the title, but it's an honest question even if admittedly funny.
The reason I ask is because every time I visit my grandparents, my 94yo gramma tells me to be careful if I ever decide to settle down. But the most interesting part is that they're not necessarily just insights of someone who comes from old school values, since she's not uber conservative or anything. rather what she says sounds straight out of his forum.
"It is hard these days to find good girls. Girls nowadays are not used to sacrifice, they are selfish and are not willing to sacrifice for their husband and family. Be careful out there"
"When you pick your ultimate girl, make sure she's beautiful. (Long Pause) smart too, but mostly responsible and pretty"
"When they were young I always told my daughters that men fall in love with your physical beauty - so take care of yourself - and with your cooking - so work on your kitchen skills"
"Your (female) cousins these days never exercise. How are they gonna keep a good physique if they don't work out?! Unbelievable..."
Her " so do you have a girlfriend these days?"
Me "a few here, a few there"
Her (laughing but also trying to look indignant) "dammit, you're just like your grampa. Careful when you pick one though, choose the least spoiled one"
"Girls these days just want attention and to be told they're pretty. It's so hard to find a good one"
Now, she is for marriage (in church) and some other notsoredpill views, but overall it's pretty hilarious to hear this from a wise old woman with a pretty open mind (she sent all of her children to college, even if it wasn't as common at the time) and who wasn't a homemaker herself.
Anybody else have red pill grandparents?
I guess it really is just common sense after all, but society has changed so much that hearing things like that is surprising...
...or maybe my gramma posts here under g manifesto.
The reason I ask is because every time I visit my grandparents, my 94yo gramma tells me to be careful if I ever decide to settle down. But the most interesting part is that they're not necessarily just insights of someone who comes from old school values, since she's not uber conservative or anything. rather what she says sounds straight out of his forum.
"It is hard these days to find good girls. Girls nowadays are not used to sacrifice, they are selfish and are not willing to sacrifice for their husband and family. Be careful out there"
"When you pick your ultimate girl, make sure she's beautiful. (Long Pause) smart too, but mostly responsible and pretty"
"When they were young I always told my daughters that men fall in love with your physical beauty - so take care of yourself - and with your cooking - so work on your kitchen skills"
"Your (female) cousins these days never exercise. How are they gonna keep a good physique if they don't work out?! Unbelievable..."
Her " so do you have a girlfriend these days?"
Me "a few here, a few there"
Her (laughing but also trying to look indignant) "dammit, you're just like your grampa. Careful when you pick one though, choose the least spoiled one"
"Girls these days just want attention and to be told they're pretty. It's so hard to find a good one"
Now, she is for marriage (in church) and some other notsoredpill views, but overall it's pretty hilarious to hear this from a wise old woman with a pretty open mind (she sent all of her children to college, even if it wasn't as common at the time) and who wasn't a homemaker herself.
Anybody else have red pill grandparents?
I guess it really is just common sense after all, but society has changed so much that hearing things like that is surprising...
...or maybe my gramma posts here under g manifesto.
