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(12-07-2013 09:53 PM)cheerfulwish Wrote:  

Interesting thread soup. The one thing I've noticed though is I have a much harder time convincing a girl to head over solo than just meeting her out and bouncing her home. I'm not sure if that is a function of my location (uws) but until she is a regular in the rotation I end up popping out to someplace just to meet her.

Id love to crack this and not have to leave home at all. Ideas?

Be a hotter guy.

This means that whatever you are doing isn't working to attract the girls properly.

Get your physique/body-language/style to a place where it's going to be very attractive to girls in your area.

If you don't know what the girls in your area want, then do some reconnoissance and make necessary changes.

[cheerfulwish]

Hmm maybe I wasnt clear. Im not trying to meet girls in my area. Im trying to get existing (not regular rotation yet)girls over after they have been out partying and I have been home relaxing. They are much more willing to come over if I meet them out someplace centrally located than just showing up on my doorstep which conflicts with the laziness of this idea

[Clint Barton]

Good shit Soup! Btw you don't even need to switch from sweats to jeans if you get one of these: http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat...=M_BOTTOMS

I got the Koto Sendai ones. Comfy like sweats but got me into the DL and Hotel Chantelle in NYC haha.

(12-07-2013 01:10 AM)soup Wrote:  

Here I am on a Friday night. The weather is shitty outside. I'm not going out. But, I might not have to..

I texted my pipeline today- about 110 chicks, most of them from OKCupid.

I've been trying to get these girls out for a while.

It occurred to me that instead of trying to make plans with them for a weekend night (which would make me look like I have no life), I'd let them go out without me. They can go get drunk with the girls.

This is great, because now, several of them are texting me asking me what's up.

So, here's what I did:

Hit them up in the middle of the day to see what they were up to. They'll get back to me and maybe ask me what I'm up to.

I'll try to space out the messages so that there's enough room for us to all save face- the girl needs to think that she's showing you that she has a fun social life and plans on the big weekend nights, and I need to look like the same.

For example, the girl will tell me what she's doing, "I'm blahlablablab... what about you?"

Then I wait until like 11:30 or midnight when they already going out partying and text them something like "you sorta seem like you'd be fun to fool around with "

They will respond "Of course I am " and some other shit. At this point they are in party mode and you can get them to come meet you.

I'll say I'm getting drinks or something or might just suggest that we can have fun at my place.

Seems to be working tonight..

UPDATE:
Short haired blond Russian that I met last week telling me she's coming. Now I gotta switch out of my sweat pants and put on some jeans.