Im a guy in NY without a crazy bankroll. Here's the deal for me.
I dont live in Manhattan. Huge negative for the easy pulls from downtown bars. Literally none of my bangs are from nightlife snls.
The quality and quantity here is great. Even if you are not in the upper echelons, there are millions of chicks here who are not either that wont be snobby towards you.
Let me clarify this. If you are looking for blonde models who hang out downtown, and you live way out in queens, she probably wont be interested. Be realistic. But if you live in Queens or Brooklyn, understand that there are just as many girls 18-25 who are in the same situation, who are NOT ballin out downtown on a regular basis.
I have gotten a ton of flags here and basically dont fuck with typical American girls anymore. That cute dominican cashier. That hot peruvian waitress. That Puerto Rican chick with a crazy ass from El Barrio who lives with her mom. That college girl down the street in a shitty little apartment. These girls are all attainable for the guy with an average bankroll and a non elite pad.
I have had lots of girls actually impressed with my place just because it has an actual kitchen and isnt a tiny little box. Because most of the time people here who arent elite live in tin cans basically.
Lots of my dates involve going to a park, a concert, an art show, some sort of free event, or even just walking around different neighborhoods. Being a tour guide for a chick is a great situation really.
So you can definitely find a niche here as long as you dont have unrealistic expectations. Understand that not being elite here is fine, nyc is one of the most unequal cities in the world, and plenty of the cute chicks are not dating ballers. If you get out of downtown/midtown you will see that.
I dont live in Manhattan. Huge negative for the easy pulls from downtown bars. Literally none of my bangs are from nightlife snls.
The quality and quantity here is great. Even if you are not in the upper echelons, there are millions of chicks here who are not either that wont be snobby towards you.
Let me clarify this. If you are looking for blonde models who hang out downtown, and you live way out in queens, she probably wont be interested. Be realistic. But if you live in Queens or Brooklyn, understand that there are just as many girls 18-25 who are in the same situation, who are NOT ballin out downtown on a regular basis.
I have gotten a ton of flags here and basically dont fuck with typical American girls anymore. That cute dominican cashier. That hot peruvian waitress. That Puerto Rican chick with a crazy ass from El Barrio who lives with her mom. That college girl down the street in a shitty little apartment. These girls are all attainable for the guy with an average bankroll and a non elite pad.
I have had lots of girls actually impressed with my place just because it has an actual kitchen and isnt a tiny little box. Because most of the time people here who arent elite live in tin cans basically.
Lots of my dates involve going to a park, a concert, an art show, some sort of free event, or even just walking around different neighborhoods. Being a tour guide for a chick is a great situation really.
So you can definitely find a niche here as long as you dont have unrealistic expectations. Understand that not being elite here is fine, nyc is one of the most unequal cities in the world, and plenty of the cute chicks are not dating ballers. If you get out of downtown/midtown you will see that.