[ChrisGambi]

This summer I went to a Brazilian club in London. The cloak room girl, on taking my jacket, says "i wonder how big his "d... is"?

The other said Iwant to find out. I speak portuguese, but did not let it on and then got her number when i left.

I now live in SEA, and get a lot reactions when i come into a store etc. i have a unique look. No idea if they're saying: wow this guy looks goofy or i want his children or if they're taling about the weather and i'm arrogantly projection.


The plan: hire a local dude to follow me around, get the intel, and attack.

Thoughts?

[MidniteSpecial]

Always assume the sale man. What are you talking about hiring a local guy for!?

[ChrisGambi]

My chinese is shit, locsl dude can tell me if the girls are keen or not. China is nothing like thailand or phils or Indo. Quality and! Quantity is better than in those places, but how the girls will react to your approach is much less pridictable (ie if i go to a high end club in bkk vs mixx i know where it'll be easier). In china i have banged receptionst 8's 1 hoir within check-in in the room they gave me, at 5* hotels. I have also had a 6 lookk at me in horror when i asked for her number amd turn away shocked, after what i thiugh was aggressive flirtation for 20 min, this also happened in a 5* star hotel, although this one was addmitingly chinese owned. The hottness of chicks and the amount us on a whole mother level.

[Laner]

If you are a good looking guy, do not bother trying to hit on girls below a certain threshold.

I was confused when I was in Shanghai. I would go out, see a decent looking girl and run some game. She would look at me like I was crazy.

Then I worked as a photographer for a Red Bull shoot. No girl less than an 8. They were so much more receptive, and it gave me the idea that I should not focus on the girls less then 7. Even though I love a unique 6, I would just have far better luck with 7-8's.

It has to do with girls knowing their market value. They learn this at a young age, and are reminded of it all the time growing up. If you are batting below what you should be, they know that you are just hitting them up for easy sex.

As far as your idea to hire a guy, that just sounds like too much work. Just attack anyways. Just like in sales, its good to hear a flat out no so you can just move on to the next one.

[Archer]

Yeah, most girls check out bulges like how we check out ass

[ChrisGambi]

I think at the shoot the cact that you were a fotographer did not hurt.

I have a unique look, in that i intidate some but with others chix its easy sailing. Implementation agree might be tricky, i'll try it this weekend using my language teacher and see what happens..

[Laner]

Quote:

I think at the shoot the cact that you were a fotographer did not hurt.

That wasnt the point.

[lavidaloca]

Laner is basically saying if you hit on girls who have a lower overall rating than yourself (not just looks based) and the girls recognize it they will be less interested as they will think you just want them purely for sex. Hence if you are an 8 you'd be better off chasing in the 7-9 range than chasing the 5 range. I'm not sure how well this holds true in North America where girls "over value themselves unanimously." But I could see this being very true in places in the world where girls have an idea as to their market value.

[ChrisGambi]

I understood that and fully agree. It happens to me in manali - when i go too low in terms of socio economic class, ie a sales girl at a mid level dept store like robinsons, the girl is so confused and overwelmed by the situation, sometimes creates a scene, and i just walk away.

That
Why i mentioned that the second girl was also at a 5* hotel in a bit, international chinese city, ie she has expore to foreigner, just no interest i good old ginger boy.

[la_mode]

(12-03-2013 01:19 AM)lavidaloca Wrote:  

Laner is basically saying if you hit on girls who have a lower overall rating than yourself (not just looks based) and the girls recognize it they will be less interested as they will think you just want them purely for sex. Hence if you are an 8 you'd be better off chasing in the 7-9 range than chasing the 5 range. I'm not sure how well this holds true in North America where girls "over value themselves unanimously." But I could see this being very true in places in the world where girls have an idea as to their market value.

It's a good point and I agree with what your observations. Some women (even in North America) often do know when a more attractive guy is only in it for the bang, and this can paradoxically make it more difficult.

Also, in North America a lot of women will just bring out the "gay" card on good-looking guys, especially if that guy is into fashion. Doesn't apply to hipsters as much for some reason.

[Tuthmosis]

So you'd go through the trouble and expense of hiring a local guy full-time, just on the off-chance some chick will remark on the (hypothetical) size of your dick, so you can get numbers at the end of the night?

[thegmanifesto]

(12-03-2013 01:49 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

So you'd go through the trouble and expense of hiring a local guy full-time, just on the off-chance some chick will remark on the (hypothetical) size of your dick, so you can get numbers at the end of the night?

Wait.

Tuth, are you trying to say that you think it's a low-percentage play?

[ChrisGambi]

@ trouth - Exactly, genious right? Success in the game and business is all about finding undervalued markets and outside of the box thingking

There is an element of some Asians having a different reference point in judging white peples attractiveness, but this applies more in the provice or with 7s and below. if you go to high end place the market is a bit more efficient.

[lavidaloca]

(12-04-2013 03:00 AM)ChrisGambi Wrote:  

@ trouth - Exactly, genious right? Success in the game and business is all about finding undervalued markets and outside of the box thingking

There is an element of some Asians having a different reference point in judging white peples attractiveness, but this applies more in the provice or with 7s and below. if you go to high end place the market is a bit more efficient.

I think you missed the sarcasm...

[pants]

I would pitch this idea to the creator of a modern day sitcom. Not sure its has any real world value though.

[thegmanifesto]

Hey guys.

I am thinking of hiring a pet Donkey to walk around with on the off chance that I meet a girl that likes Mexican Donkeys.

Thoughts on this strategy?

The best idea ever?™

[FretDancer]

Haha this is just too much

[Tail Gunner]

What the hell is wrong with you guys? Seriously.

The man says that he is living in China. The average monthly wage in China is $200 per month. With twenty-two work days per month, that is about nine dollars per day. So he can hire a local for $200 a month. People on this forum spend more than $200 on bottle service in one night.

http://www.clb.org.hk/en/content/wages-china

So, he can theoretically hire a local for about nine dollars a day -- maybe twenty dollars a day for someone fluent in English -- to do his bidding for whatever he may need every day, including helping him to interact and communicate with the local women.

And you guys are mocking him -- for even considering that idea and trying to get some feedback on this forum?

I thought that this forum was all about thinking outside the box?

It's not like he is raving about building his own rocket ship and flying to Mars for some green vagina.

I hope that he posts a thread in a month about all the Chinese poon that he swooped, courtesy of his trusty ten-dollar-a-day man-servant.

[ChrisGambi]

@ G - they say plagiarism is the sincerest form of admiration, but it was my idea first, so feel free to use it but you cannot trademark it - the IP is mine. In terms of mexican chicks that like donkeys - to each his own.

[thegmanifesto]

(12-04-2013 08:02 PM)Tail Gunner Wrote:  

I thought that this forum was all about thinking outside the box?

I thought my Mexican Donkey post was exactly that.

Where else on the Internet have you seen that idea?

Direct me to it and I will stand corrected.

[Duke Castile]

Cris I think it's a worthwhile idea, it would be good to get a feel for how you are received and I bet it will lead you to understand what tells these girls are giving. As you know, se of these women wear poker faces, I think you could gain some valuable insight.

I expected some of the other senior members to think it was a cool idea. Oh well.

Also guys, Gambi is a cool person, not to mention 6'8 and pushing 270. He looks like a giant version of superman. When we were in Manila some girls were terrified by his sheer size and others found him irresistible.

I think it would be interesting to get the back story from these girls opinion when someone creates that kind of polarity.

[DVY]

"Knowledge is power"

There is a variant of this, but mostly in the business world. Lots of high-level Asian biz dudes use translators even though they speak moderate to fluent English.

I speak Russian and Chinese, but often pretend not to speak either. Its great intelligence gathering especially if you can master deadpan expressions.

Halloween this year was hysterical. A group of Chinese school-girls were gigling and talking about how "sexy I was". I just wiinked and smiled at them. The unfolding reaction was priceless.

[Hotwheels]

Doesn't sound much different than The Driver guys use in the DR to me.

[DVY]

^^^So if Fisto and ChrisGambi are in the club, no cellphones are needed at any time. Just look for the two tall heads in the crowd above all the tiny pinays.

[Laner]

(12-03-2013 02:50 AM)ChrisGambi Wrote:  

I understood that and fully agree. It happens to me in manali - when i go too low in terms of socio economic class, ie a sales girl at a mid level dept store like robinsons, the girl is so confused and overwelmed by the situation, sometimes creates a scene, and i just walk away.

That
Why i mentioned that the second girl was also at a 5* hotel in a bit, international chinese city, ie she has expore to foreigner, just no interest i good old ginger boy.

Also in Asia the cities attract a lot of women from the countryside. They are a catch 22. In some ways they will be the easier catch. Smaller social circle, no "curtain twitching" neighbors, etc. But at the same time, if they do not have the confidence to be with a foreigner, they feel that they might damage what little reputation they have.

Locals (that stay around home) on the other hand are often pushed into relationships with their fathers business associates. Any dating, especially with a foreigner would have to be done very discreetly.

*Keep in mind, in all these scenarios the women are at least a 7.

When we talk about scaring the cat, I picture Asian women. They are the easiest cats to spook.

I have also met Asian girls that have zero attraction to any men outside of their race.

As for translators, I get that. Personal assistant, now it starts to sound better. China is exhausting. If the guy is good, teach him game, buy him a bespoke suit and you will have started doing what most successful Chinese players already do; Training competent people to take care of things you would rather not.