Quote: (11-30-2013 06:46 PM)calidude Wrote:
Quote: (11-30-2013 04:17 PM)AfgScarface Wrote:
join lots of art classes.
there are hot girls every time, most competitors are beta (but don't let your guard down), not to mention everyone is more social and/or does drugs.
Speaking of which, start smoking people out. It instantly makes you the "cool bad guy" around a bunch of PC vaginas. Take classes everyone has to take such as Health science, bio etc. Basic math dictates there will always be hot girls in those classes because of the sheer volume of people trying to take them.
I know where your CC is, thats a pretty decent school "fun wise". Have weed and cigarettes on deck and people will open YOU. Fortune is on your side because, like you, there are several people (girls) in the SAME exact predicament. They are STUCK on campus for several hours and bored out of their MIND.
These are your most viable targets. You can find them in the quad/break areas listlessly on their phone. You will be surprised and delighted at how readily some of these chicks respond after being silent for 2 hrs waiting for their next class.
Lastly, don't be afraid to talk to other guys. They leverage you and make you look popular talking to chicks later (damn you know everybody here!). Not to mention the fact that he might actually be a pretty chill guy. Ive made countless good friends on campus just by saying whats up to people and offering them a smoke out.
Most people in college are beta so its up to you to reach out and make the first step.
One last thing I wanna add is that in CC, you need to find a niche, much more so than at a normal Uni. This will circumvent your problem with everyone being so "closed off" and feeling like a "drone". For me that niche was Art, and I was also lucky because our CC's art dept is one of the best in the country so it worked for my actual career as well. It will open new people to you, put hot girls in your vicinity and give a better sense of purpose about the whole place in general. In normal uni this point is somewhat moot, but in CC its usually the athletes, artists and music people getting play and being popular. Student union and all that crap is cool too. Also maybe something pertaining to your ethnicity such as "east asian club" or some shit like that.
Great info, I'll definitely take some art classes and I'm thinking of joining the student newspaper. I'm not really into drugs so will that be a problem or will most people not really care? When meeting other people did you just talk to random people you saw walking around or just people from your classes and will my logistics make this difficult?
No drugs policy won't be a problem at all but it will close doors with certain groups. Not even weed huh? It helps ALOT. Also don't you get fucking bored for 7+ hours with no weed? I digress..
As for how I went about talking to people;
My class was the bread and butter as far as connections were concerned. This didn't mean, however, that I didn't cold approach. I just understood that being in class with this person already eliminates a lot of the work involved in presenting yourself etc. It was the path of least resistance and I exploited the shit out of it.
Its basically quasi-social circle game. I met lots of cool people like this. Its important to stand out in your class as one of the more loud, charismatic and interesting guys. Your competition is weak so this shouldn't be too difficult.
Take a public speaking class if you haven't already, this will help in the way you project your voice and body language. Its not just for game, speaking well is a life skill. Making yourself stand out in your classes will automatically acquaint 30+ people in each class with you. I get people saying whats up to me in the hallway or cafeteria without even really knowing them, just cause im so loud and outrageous in that class that they know me and my crazy sense of humor.
On campus during hot days id scout out benches/ledges with cute girls sitting on them and find an excuse to sit down close by and rummage through my shit or do Gio's infamous Fake Phone Call (look it up). Either scenario gives me a segway to open the girl and im consciously scanning her for IOI's before I have even said anything. She smiles or looks your way, approach. She looks bitchy or plastered to her phone, approach anyway but don't expect much.
If its cold, I hit the library. This is difficult for me because I am like a bull in a china shop, and my game doesn't work well in such a quiet environment.
Every college has a hipster coffee shop within walking distance. Figure out where it is, get tight with the douchebag scruffy hipster barista by getting his name and tipping his jar with a couple extra bucks a few times. Find the "lost" girls (stuck for more than 1.5 hrs on campus, preferably between classes) and bring them there. They will think you are super cool and hipster. Especially when scruffy walks up in the middle of it like "duuuude try this new mochalattefaggacino you guys will love it, this guy knows *points at you*"
The newspaper is a fantastic idea, join it. It will literally force you to approach people and acquaint yourself with every clique on campus. You're gonna have to take pictures of athletes, go to events, all sorts of cool shit. Just remember to be social and present yourself as a cool motherfucker, don't just be that newspaper guy.
