[Rayhon]

I'm going to try & make this as brief as possible

[u]Backstory[/u]
Shes a virgin, 18.. i'm 19 years old. She never had a bf. Shes extremely reserved, complete opposite of a slut. She wouldn't kiss a guy unless she is SUPER SUPER into him. Like multiple dates / Bf material. Even when drunk she isn't slutty not one bit.

Met this girl at a party, hit it off. We texted a lot & got to get pretty comfortable with each other through texting. I invited her to a rave (Tiesto) & we were together for the entire duration 6 hours. Had an amazing time together & I told her I'l call her sometime during the week & we will go for sushi together, she agreed. (she was sober the whole rave btw)

Where I'm at now
We eventually went on our first legitimate date outside of a party scenario. I took her to some sushi restaurant & we had some drinks as well. This was the best date of my life. NOT ONE awkward moment at all. We were speaking as if we have been bf/gf for a long time. Being extremely open & honest with eachother & I wasn't afraid to be myself with her. We have this certain connection that I've never felt with any other girl.

Long story short the date was hands down 10/10 on both ends. There is no way one of us could have felt any other way it was just pure fun & happyness and we really enjoyed eachothers company. I skytrained/walked her to her place & I was holding her & we were speaking as if there is no end in sight in our relationship. (making future plans, talking about when were going to tell our parents about us.. ect)

NOW THE MOST IMPORTANT PART

The night before at the sushi date we scheduled to meet again the next day at 4 30. She ended up flaking & I will post the conversation. Plz let me know how you think I handled the situation.

Me: Name! you up yet? be at _____ at 4 30 text me when your there xoxo

her:Fuuck I slept in late! and how am I gunna make it at 4:30 :/ :/

me: is 5:30 better for you? LOL I have no idea how you sleep so much

her: Anyways I have to stay for a bit b/c i found out guests are coming lol fml. but im meeting up with willow later tonight. she wants to blaze if your're down haha

me: Maybee

her:and cuz i stayed up till 6am LOL couldn't sleep

me:What are you guys doing?
me: fuk it not really down. Lets do something tom

her:dunno was supposed to chill with her tonight too but shes inviting other people so idk whats happening

me:Lol are you sure you cant make it for 5 30. fuk willow loool we had plans. just chill with her after

me: or if you got shit to do with family we can grab a bite to eat at like 7ish

her:loll i can try . was gunna meet her around then but i'm waiting for her to answer now ugh idek

me: I hate flaking!
me: would have made other plans if i knew you couldn't chill
me: like what if i didnt text you to doublecheck you would have stood me up >.>
me: tell willow to meet us at metro

her:No I wouldn't have aha?! And ok maybee she finally answered

me: It's cool just be more punctual in the future
me:let me know whats going down if you still wanna get together tonight

her:Sorry :/ and okk we'll see what happens. might go watch a movie tonight (took her 40 mins to respond so i gotta kinda choked)

me:i'm going to do something else tonight. Have fun at the movies

.. no response from her yet. How do you guys think I did? Did I respond well? Considering how awesome our date was and I know shes super into me. Do you think I was assertive & i did good by telling her I don't like flakey behaviour.

If she doesn't respond to my last text should I freeze her out for a couple days and reinitiate or considering how awesome & good our connection was should I just forget it happened & hit her up tom or the day after to hang out?

[WestIndianArchie]

Not unique, borderline v trolling, newb board

[Kdog]

If the date was 10/10, you would of gotten the bang.

[Rayhon]

The problem with all you Pua's is that you think everything is about notches & being with multiple women. I used to think the same way. If you really think about it though the desire to feel the need to seek validation from banging as many chicks as possible stems from insecurities & family issues. (especially if you bang stupid dumb party sluts).. Have you ever considered maybe sex is just the surface level of things & maybe I want to build a true pure mental connection with a girl. Whether or not you believe it your all influenced by the "Pua mentality" that women are all cheaters & will screw u over.. Your only fucking yourself over with that type of thinking. Just because a lot of girls are shady doesn't mean women as a whole are. Of course i'm generalizing and I don't know how each and every one of you think but I've come to the conclusion that most pua's have the same mentality when it comes to women just because they see RSD or Mystery or whoever talk about women in such ways. A notch is bullshit. Who the fuck gives about a notch if its just some dumb slut. True beauty/Love comes from within not how often you get your dick wet. Food for thought

[Therapsid]

(11-11-2013 12:39 AM)Rayhon Wrote:  

The problem with all you Pua's is that you think everything is about notches & being with multiple women. I used to think the same way. If you really think about it though the desire to feel the need to seek validation from banging as many chicks as possible stems from insecurities & family issues. (especially if you bang stupid dumb party sluts).. Have you ever considered maybe sex is just the surface level of things & maybe I want to build a true pure mental connection with a girl. Whether or not you believe it your all influenced by the "Pua mentality" that women are all cheaters & will screw u over.. Your only fucking yourself over with that type of thinking. Just because a lot of girls are shady doesn't mean women as a whole are. Of course i'm generalizing and I don't know how each and every one of you think but I've come to the conclusion that most pua's have the same mentality when it comes to women just because they see RSD or Mystery or whoever talk about women in such ways. A notch is bullshit. Who the fuck gives about a notch if its just some dumb slut. True beauty/Love comes from within not how often you get your dick wet. Food for thought

Good talk.

[Bushido]

Definitely written by a girl.

[Mulatta]

You handled the texting all the way wrong. Maybe your gaming or lack thereof was obvious to her on your 10/10 date

[Glock]

I've never seen such a born troll. You couldn't hold it in for more than two posts.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

If she's playing games with you, that means that A) she is keeping you as a reserve guy, and B) she is not really as anti-slut as you are making her out to be.

You haven't done badly, perhaps a bit too eager with texting, but you have a completely wrong mental picture of what a "good girl" is and are putting this one at a huge pedestal, which will come back to bite you in the ass.

That, or there are no good girls anymore. Who knows?

Wow, the second post was so different from the first one - so much rage!

Nice

[Wahawahwah]

(11-11-2013 12:39 AM)Rayhon Wrote:  

The problem with all you Pua's is that you think everything is about notches & being with multiple women. I used to think the same way. If you really think about it though the desire to feel the need to seek validation from banging as many chicks as possible stems from insecurities & family issues. (especially if you bang stupid dumb party sluts).. Have you ever considered maybe sex is just the surface level of things & maybe I want to build a true pure mental connection with a girl. Whether or not you believe it your all influenced by the "Pua mentality" that women are all cheaters & will screw u over.. Your only fucking yourself over with that type of thinking. Just because a lot of girls are shady doesn't mean women as a whole are. Of course i'm generalizing and I don't know how each and every one of you think but I've come to the conclusion that most pua's have the same mentality when it comes to women just because they see RSD or Mystery or whoever talk about women in such ways. A notch is bullshit. Who the fuck gives about a notch if its just some dumb slut. True beauty/Love comes from within not how often you get your dick wet. Food for thought

Hahahaha.

First loves

I remember I was like this with the first girl I fell in love with.
She ended up running away with my best buddy.
Thanks for the memories mate.

Blatant troll or Badass beta.