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11-09-2010, 04:51 PM
Im a tall, good looking guy, with slightly above average game, Ill admit its not even close to great but I end up doing better than I should based on looks but Im committed to making it better.
With that being said I feel pretty locked in right now and Im loving my current mindset when it comes to picking up girls and Im wondering what you guys think is a realistic amount of girls to smash in a year?
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11-09-2010, 06:14 PM
I'm feeling the same way right now. However I am also becoming very aware that the supply of hot women is just not meeting the demand I need in order to satisfy myself. Id rather have 1 really quality girl once a month than an average girl every weekend. And even that's being optimistic.
Odds of finding anything above an 8 on an average day? 5/10
Odds of her being single? 6/10
Odds of her being interested in you?.. well I guess that's up to you but even so, your odds are getting lower.
So depends on your standards. If you are happy banging 5's 6's and 7's ...fill your boots. 1 a week is a very commendable number.
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11-09-2010, 06:45 PM
Im fortunate that in the cities Im usually in have a higher concentration of acceptable girls than most others. I think 7's and above are what Im aiming for but Im sure the random 6 might slip in on a booze fueled night.
Id love to shoot for 1 a week but that just seems high and a bit unattainable. Like to hear what some of the other posters best years ever are and how often they were out to make it happen.
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11-10-2010, 01:07 AM
I just feel like I don't have the time to even score one a week. I don't understand how people are talking about banging 2-3 or even 4 girls a week, unless they are banging the same chicks over and over. I would have to quit my job to find that much time. Yeah, two is doable, but 3-4? I think a lot of people are full of shit about it though. The only dudes who get laid that much are rockstars. I don't even see PUAs doing that. Maybe once in a blue moon, but there's no way on a consistant basis. I think one a week is well doing VERY well if you are working 40 hours a week.
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11-10-2010, 02:59 AM
4-6 a year is a good goal for beginners that will keep them challenged.
2 a month takes deep involvement. In DC that's hard to pull off when it's not summer. You basically have to eat/sleep game for this, unless you happen to have a niche.
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11-10-2010, 03:04 AM
The only guy I ever met who was banging a ton of chicks (like one new girl a week) was banging anything that could walk, and this was in Paris, and he had a big social circle, so things really worked out in his favor (if you consider fucking whatever just because you have to fuck a good thing). The unique thing about him was that he had a pretty attractive girlfriend (that he deflowered) but was fucking UGs left and right on the side. He had a ton of energy and had the type of personality that oozed "i can never be satisfied."
My ideal would be gathering like 4-6 good looking girls and putting them on rotation. I'm not really fixated on increasing my notch count anymore.
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11-10-2010, 03:29 AM
I know of only two guys that were getting play almost every weekend they went out and they pretty much dedicated their entire life towards pick up. One is the real deal though, did a fifteen minute bathroom pull right in front of my face.
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11-10-2010, 05:51 AM
I set a yearly goal of at least 5 that I have hit every year since 2006. For 2010 I am at 8, 5 new 3 repeats, and all this considering a brutal 2 month dry spell in the summer when I wasn't working, I spent most of my days just looking for work, chilling and the odd time going out to practise my daygame. Two of the new ones and one of the repeats have been since mid-September when I started my new job.
Chicks will say money doesn't matter, but its pretty damn hard to get laid consistently when you aren't working.
I'm getting away from banging, or even talking to anything less than a 6 as well. I've put in my dues with low-end girls long enough that I only go after 7's and higher...which has a funny effect; this year I've noticed more and more subpar girls playing me aggressive, which does serve a function but I personally can't stand.
Ever hear that joke, you know why fat girls give good head? Because they have to. You know why fat girls are aggressive? Because they have to.
I would agree with the Roosh estimate...average guy, average game, average scene, 2-6 is a good place to start. Expectations are important, manage them. If you're a virgin just getting into the game, you aren't collecting 10 notches in your first year, no matter how good-looking you are.
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11-10-2010, 11:50 AM
Quote: (11-10-2010 05:51 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:
I set a yearly goal of at least 5 that I have hit every year since 2006. For 2010 I am at 8, 5 new 3 repeats, and all this considering a brutal 2 month dry spell in the summer when I wasn't working, I spent most of my days just looking for work, chilling and the odd time going out to practice my daygame. Two of the new ones and one of the repeats have been since mid-September when I started my new job.
Chicks will say money doesn't matter, but its pretty damn hard to get laid consistently when you aren't working.
I'm getting away from banging, or even talking to anything less than a 6 as well. I've put in my dues with low-end girls long enough that I only go after 7's and higher...which has a funny effect; this year I've noticed more and more subpar girls playing me aggressive, which does serve a function but I personally can't stand.
Ever hear that joke, you know why fat girls give good head? Because they have to. You know why fat girls are aggressive? Because they have to.
I would agree with the Roosh estimate...average guy, average game, average scene, 2-6 is a good place to start. Expectations are important, manage them. If you're a virgin just getting into the game, you aren't collecting 10 notches in your first year, no matter how good-looking you are.
I am not sure about that. I think a really attractive guy who is funny ,confident, positive and has decent social skills can have a lot of success with the ladies even with little experience barring any inner game issues.
I think the vast majority of PUA's won't get laid very much initially (or even frequently, even after a year of effort) since the vast majority of PUA's are not attractive.
I know the industry likes to sell the idea that any man can have his dream of sexual conquest fulfilled if he works on his game (a great way to sell your products to as many men as possible) but that is not the case. Some people just have it. Hemingway had it, Kobe Bryant has it,Nicholson has it. Even with the hours upon hours of work all the writers basketball players and actors in the world put into their game very few have the potential to reach the pinnacle of the craft those three men have,the same goes for seducing women.
I do like that game gives everyone a chance to get laid though but lets not think this is an easy task. Even for the good looking man, attracting and sleeping with lots of women is very very hard and even when it gets easier once you win the heavy weight belt, you still have to work hard to keep it.
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11-10-2010, 01:53 PM
I guess I left out some details, I didnt mean to give off the impression that Im green with women, Im just green with actual proven game. The stuff Ive used in the past are just things and techniques that somewhat work for me with no real rhyme or reason. Ive banged between 5 and 10 girls a year for the past 8 years honestly without ever really trying that hard. Ive had 2 threesomes, one of the good kind and sadly one of the bad kind, haha. Im looking for a challenge now that Im planning on being actively engaged in improving my game and making a more concerted effort to approach women as opposed to the lassiez-faire attitude Ive had in the past. Thats why I was thinking 2 a month but upon review thats more than double my career best so I think Im going to aim for 16.
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11-10-2010, 04:55 PM
How do you bang 100 fly girls a year? It's easy, two a week. - G Manifesto. You're more likely to do better if you set the bar a little higher. It helps maintain a rabid wolf mentality like Roosh posted about recently. Here is the standard I use to keep myself motivated. New Notches Per Week: 0=beta 1:alpha 2=g manifesto 3=super alpha 4-6=god mode 7=perfect week, take a week off to recover. I go out a lot though.
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11-10-2010, 05:39 PM
Im not trying to get into any arguments or step on any toes my first week in this place but Im talking realistic #s. 100 girls a year just isnt happening unless youre a pro athlete or entertainer and have to put in ZERO work to bang. Shit, one girl a week is damn near impossible unless youre banging straight lumberjacks and even that would be difficult to maintain.
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11-10-2010, 09:43 PM
I need to approach more. I suppose a goal of 4 to 6 in one year is good for a guy who just started learning game a couple of months ago.
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11-10-2010, 11:04 PM
Quote: (11-10-2010 09:20 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Quote: (11-10-2010 04:55 PM)glassjawed Wrote:
How do you bang 100 fly girls a year? It's easy, two a week.
If it's so easy how come you're not doing it?
There are two things a man will always lie about, 1. his dick size and 2. how many women he has slept with or is sleeping with in his life.
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11-10-2010, 11:27 PM
I think this question totally will depend on who you are and lifestyle. Someone who travels to locations where its easy to score such as Phillipines, Thailand and other countries will have a number higher than they would achieve if they lived in the US only. It wouldn't be unfair to suggest that one could pull 2 girls a week in the phillipines. If one were to take 3 months off a year their that make 24. They could get 6 more the remaining 9 months in the US. Yet based on statistics have 3.33 new girls a month. It wouldn't surprise me at all if people who travel alot are notching over 50 a year. However, getting one or more a week consistently in the US is really, really extreme and you'd be in the extreme and I mean extreme minority. Remember guys 2 a month is 100 over 4 years. It really does add up fast.
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