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Effeminate Men
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Effeminate Men

I've been on the fence about something for quite a bit of time. Recently had a new guy join the office. He's crazy effinimate but from what i gather isn't gay.

I don't trust effiminate men. Now, it doesn't matter if they're gay or straight just the entire act of being effiminate makes him difficult to peg and doubly i don't trust them.

The flipside being, i do trust and don't mind masculine qualities in girls (think Thatcher, Guillard, etc). In fact it's slightly refreshing working with them, they tend to give me the bottom line.

But throw an effeminate guy into the mix and I question how much i can trust him. Will he break under pressure? Will he attempt to act effeminate while trying to lead (doesn't work well)? Will he selectively leave things out in order to spin a situation differently?

These qualities just don't jive with me in a guy and since I can't peg his personality I just go for a dominate until submission which usually works.

Any experience for working with these people?
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Effeminate Men

Make it seem like without you they won't have much fun without you or make them think you'll help them with a certain girl and you can get them into your orbit and keep them there, and they'll do pretty much anything you want, if you have the stomach to tolerate them...

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Effeminate Men

Yes. It feels like they might stab you in the back at any point.
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Effeminate Men

You have to bully, confront, and shit-test effeminate men to see if they respond well.
How do they respond to being commanded and yelled at? Do they have grace under pressure? If they do then their masculine demeanor is not relevant, they already outclass most people and can be trusted not to crack. You don't have to like him or be his friend, but you can still trust him.

One thing you have to understand is that not many people have this quality. So there's likely many people you've overlooked and have misplaced trust in, simply because of their demeanor.

That being said, most effeminate men are fairly weaselly, always overlooking relevant facts and being great spin-doctors. You pretty much have to accept nothing less than the direct facts stated plainly, question and reframe continuously.
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Effeminate Men

Quote: (10-19-2013 06:29 PM)Hades Wrote:  

You have to bully, confront, and shit-test effeminate men to see if they respond well.
How do they respond to being commanded and yelled at? Do they have grace under pressure? If they do then their masculine demeanor is not relevant, they already outclass most people and can be trusted not to crack. You don't have to like him or be his friend, but you can still trust him.

One thing you have to understand is that not many people have this quality. So there's likely many people you've overlooked and have misplaced trust in, simply because of their demeanor.

That being said, most effeminate men are fairly weaselly, always overlooking relevant facts and being great spin-doctors. You pretty much have to accept nothing less than the direct facts stated plainly, question and reframe continuously.

Thanks for the post.

It has to be his body language. I know a handful of effiminate gay dudes that are cool and I have no problem with them. However, these guys are clearly the exception and not the rule.

For me it's always trust. If i can at least trust you, then i'll be a friend. I'll keep this in mind. Thanks!
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Effeminate Men

Effeminate men and Alphas get on as well as Julius Augustus Caesar and the Senate (Maybe just Brutus)
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Effeminate Men

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