[XYZ]

I've never made an approach that I regret. That's the truth and what I tell myself when I'm chickening out on an approach. I dont care if the girl blows me off, I always learn something and that's why I've never really felt regret after an approach. I've regretted not spitting the right game or being off on my game. And I regret not approaching all the time. But I've never regretted making that approach.

[Lucky Lothario]

That's a god damn beautiful thought! Thinking of my approaches, it's true as well. In fact, there's even a tinge of pride over even the instant shoot downs.

[Wayout]

What if you some of us do regret approaching certain girls? I have approached a girl who later destroyed my friendship with a friend ( by trying to hook up with him) and caused other harm in my life. I wish I never talked to the bitch! Maybe social circle game is the way to go?

[pitt]

Today was an interesting day in terms of approaches.

I was with my girl at the local supermarket, I saw this chick who is a 10 in my book, she goes to my local gym and she is just that hot (top 3 when comes to the hottest girls I have seen in the country). Its usually impossible to approach chicks in my gym so i thought it would be a good chance to approach her here but too bad I waswith my chick. Anyway, me and my girl got to the till to pay for our shopping, i tell my girl, ''yo hold on, let me go grab something, i forgot something'', i run back to where that gym girl was standing (million thoughts were running in my head:what if my girl walks back here, what if this gym girl goes to snitch on my girl about me moving to her, etc)..so i thought let me do a semi-approach..

Me: ''excuse me,are you the lady that goes to the local gym here?''

Target- yeah thats me, but I dont go there anymore, i have changed gyms (everybody started staring at us, fucking nosy people)

Me - so what gym you going now?

Target - bla bla (i didnt even know where that gym was)

Me ok kool, I thought let me say hi

Target - yeah ok no problem


I think semi approaches in such situations are good because the next time i see her i can go straight for the number, I am glad this didn't turn into a situation where i have regretted approaching.

A lesson here: when not sure about approaching, make a semi approach.

[Raj]

Good for you pitt, let me ask you something. Are you familiar with this concept of semi approaching? Or was this the first approach. Sounds good for day game. Let me know if it's any good. In the meantime, I'm gonna do some experiments with it.

[Remington]

(10-18-2013 09:47 PM)Raj Wrote:  

Good for you pitt, let me ask you something. Are you familiar with this concept of semi approaching? Or was this the first approach. Sounds good for day game. Let me know if it's any good. In the meantime, I'm gonna do some experiments with it.

I semi-approach at the gym all the time. Usually get a positive response because I look in half way decent shape but just start with a "Hey, how are you?" sort of thing. From there, just keep building rapport until you see the sexual tension, then ask her out.

[Plutoman]

(10-18-2013 05:36 PM)Wayout Wrote:  

What if you some of us do regret approaching certain girls? I have approached a girl who later destroyed my friendship with a friend ( by trying to hook up with him) and caused other harm in my life. I wish I never talked to the bitch! Maybe social circle game is the way to go?

How solid was the friendship when one girl you approached ruined it?

Seriously. If a girl tried to hook up with me that my buddy approached; I'd run it by him. Same, vice versa. You need friends that leave the egos aside and actually care about the relationship.

[pitt]

(10-18-2013 09:47 PM)Raj Wrote:  

Good for you pitt, let me ask you something. Are you familiar with this concept of semi approaching? Or was this the first approach. Sounds good for day game. Let me know if it's any good. In the meantime, I'm gonna do some experiments with it.

I do it when i don't have any other option or when I am a bit unsure about approaching. I do this in order to build some rapport and continue with it the next time i see her or if it is the first time i'm seeing her and I don't think I will see her again and we are in a place where I think she may not respond so well (here in DR, the women give a fuck a lot about what other people are going to think, so your game needs to adapt to the culture here), i go with a semi-approach and then I will probably switch to a full approach if she is responding well or I feel some chemistry in the air.

I also convert my semi-approaches into dumb approaches in some occasions.I don't recommend the dumb approach for newbies, the dumb approach is for confident guys who approached more than 500 women throughout their lives otherwise you will come across as inexperienced. The dumb approach is basically walking up to her and ask her a question that you know the answer and that she knows that you know the answer (or at least feels that you know it) and she assumes that you are trying to get to know her, soon as both of you laugh, you are in. This has always worked well for me.

[Vaun]

yesterday I had to stop in a coffee shop and send some email. An attractive Latina popped in with her mom, could tell they were tourists. We made eyes a few times and I smiled like the welcoming host. She walked past me a few times by herself after they sat down. I was sitting in front of the pastries and when she came back to pick one I started up a conversation by asking her which one I should get. We chatted for a bit and she said she was in town from Glendale, CA. I asked her if she were taking her mom to all of the great clubs in the area. She said no but she wanted to get out while she was here. I went for the number and she pushed back and asked for mine. I kept pushing and she didnt budge. Finally gave her my card and I only do so because when they read my profile they are impressed. Still waiting for that text, and another Latina did the same thing to me last week. Do I give a fuck? No. Its a part of the game. I cant expect them all to turn into a lay right away, and I cant always expect them to even give me their number.

A few things I learned though. When I wear my glasses it decreases my odds. When I wear sunglasses it increases my odds. I have also learned how to spot foreign Latinas everywhere I go. And I learned its fun being chatty with people.

[Kingsley Davis]

Well done youngster, tis greater to err on the side of approaching a broad that pass the boner test than regretting not to.