[Damascus]

I met a unicorn and truth be told fellas I don't know how to act. She actually gave me something called "hope." I met her at Teavana. She's a black girl but real fine. Flawless clear skin and long hair that's actually hers. Shocker right? She had no make up when I met her. Tall, THIN, and nice rack. She clearly works out. Honestly she's a solid 8 put closer to 8.5. I'm half black myself but I usually go for Latinas or other mixed girl. I usually don't date black women because of the weight, attitude, and daddy issues.

We were waiting in line, the store was crowded and I struck up a conversation. With most black women they have shitty attitudes but she was very pleasant. I also observed how she dealt with the employees. She was exchanging some gift box and the guy was fucking up and the cash register wasn't working. Most people would have cop an attitude but she was extremely patient and stayed polite.

I made some jokes and asked if I could get her number before the left the store. She gave it to me. The next day I called and asked if she wanted to met a local coffee shop. We met up. She was interesting. Had a lot of insightful things to say. Comes from a good family from what she told me. Close to her dad. Works in finance but applying to masters programs in computer science because she said she is interested in technology. Unicorn right? She was interesting and I enjoyed myself. The time went by fast. Didn't bang though but I want to. I gave her a kiss and she didn't turn her head. We have another date later on tonight.

She might actually be worthy of the girlfriend title if she is who I think she is. But my question is why is she still single if she has all this going on? She's smart, pretty, and has a fun personality. Is she riding the carousel? How can I tell? Maybe i've been so disappointed that I almost expect every female I encounter to have something fucking wrong with them.

HOw should I play this? I actually want to get to know this female and see what she's about. I know I'm sound real simpish but eventually i do want to find a nice girl to build a life with but that's hard these days considering that status of American women.

Give me some red pill advice. I know I sound hella blue pill right now with the girlfriend and settling down bullshit but I'm being honest with you guys. I just don't want to be played in the process or end up with a low quality female.

[MHaes]

Maybe this should be in the newb section?

It sounds like you've gone on one date, so bro you don't even know her yet. Try chilling out, taking her off the pedestal, and see how things play out.

I'd stop expecting the world from this one girl (especially since you have spent maybe an hour with her cumulatively lol) - I've had maybe two girlfriends who were really great girls, but even they had their flaws. Everyone is human after all.

If things go well with her, go ahead and make her your GF. Life is meaningless without relationships IMO, and any relationship with the other sex is going to give you some solid life experience.

[Parlay44]

She's pretty. So what. She seems to have some class too? So what. Do you really want to marry this
girl after 1 date? I need to smash a girl out a dozen times and see if she goes all crazy on me before
I consider any kind of relationship with her. Sometimes it takes a while for the crazy to show itself.

It takes a year or so to really get to know someone. I like to test them out in different social situations.
How do they act in a group vs how do they act when they're alone with you? Do they embarrass you
in public? Does she tell her girlfriends or family all your business? I hate all that shit.

I need to be 150% confident before I offer up a relationship. If she brings it up first(which she will) your
default answer should be "I'd like to get to know you a little better before we cross that line". "Let's keep
it open for a while". If she's into you then she'll give you what you want. You want to be in charge of the
relationship anyway.

[Pyre]

Fuck her first. Every relationship begins with a bang. Pun intended.

[Hencredible Casanova]

Is this in the DC area?

[Damascus]

Gotta run soon but this is LA

MHaes, you right man. I need to calm my ass down. I'll update you guys after the date.

[speakeasy]

Quit overthinking it. Just enjoy the moment for what it is. Sounds like you had a good time. Guys complain about a lack of quality women, then when you meet one you're second guessing that. Whatever happens, happens.

[Valhalla]

OP you're going to get onetis and ruin this for yourself

[MidniteSpecial]

First things first, get her off the pedestal.

[Kingsley Davis]

Are you white?

[Therapsid]

(10-12-2013 09:35 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  

OP you're going to get onetis and ruin this for yourself

Yep. Go for this chick, but keep gaming and banging other girls in the meantime. Keep perspective. We've all been there and fucked up by idealizing a girl. She'll like you more if she thinks she has to work for your attention anyway.

Having said all that, I got to say - there's a pleasure in being blue pill and beta that can't be denied. "Falling" for a girl, as pathetic as it sounds to me now, was genuinely and undeniably fun. It just was.

It made banging a girl much more than just good sex. But then the inevitable disillusionment comes and that hurts like a bitch.

Once your eyes are open there's no going back.

[Screwston]

To many threads on here lately focusing on one girl.

[Windom Earle]

You met a nice, seemingly down-to-earth girl, not a Unicorn per se. That's something else entirely.

[Doctore]

Think of an unicorn as a horse with a penis on its head.

Hope that's enough to knock her off that gigantic pedestal you put her on.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(10-13-2013 07:32 AM)Doctore Wrote:  

Think of an unicorn as a horse with a penis on its head.

Hope that's enough to knock her off that gigantic pedestal you put her on.

You inspired me to Google for "unicorn with a penis" and this is what came up:

[Damascus]

The unicorn reference was a joke since they are rare and let's be honest guys and attractive normal acting American woman these days is rare especially in the black community.

The date went really well last night. I enjoyed her company a lot. Didn't bang. We did kiss and it was awesome. I'll see where this goes. In the meantime I will continue to date and hook up with other females. Truth be told I'm excited but we shall see.

[Wahawahwah]

(10-13-2013 09:37 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

(10-13-2013 07:32 AM)Doctore Wrote:  

Think of an unicorn as a horse with a penis on its head.

Hope that's enough to knock her off that gigantic pedestal you put her on.

You inspired me to Google for "unicorn with a penis" and this is what came up:

ugh.

And just went through the squid link in your signature,man.
Holy shit.

[This Is Trouble]

(10-13-2013 10:39 AM)Damascus Wrote:  

The unicorn reference was a joke since they are rare and let's be honest guys and attractive normal acting American woman these days is rare especially in the black community.

The date went really well last night. I enjoyed her company a lot. Didn't bang. We did kiss and it was awesome. I'll see where this goes. In the meantime I will continue to date and hook up with other females. Truth be told I'm excited but we shall see.

Your opinion of her will be lower post-bang.

as soon as you bust on her, ask yourself how much you like her. There will never be a more less-biased moment.

[MrXY]

[Dr. Howard]

de-pedestal this girl. Also she is not a unicorn, english speaking africa has plenty of this type of girl you are describing.